Wife is cheating
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Now there's a name from the past.
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It's fine, just buy an RLX SH and pretend this whole thing never happened
It's fine, just buy an RLX SH and pretend this whole thing never happened
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RLX SH == Respected member of society
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OP has 4G TL though, so it's a natural progression
At least he doesn't have two boosted TLs
Have to be a real piece of shit to be in that category
At least he doesn't have two boosted TLs
Have to be a real piece of shit to be in that category
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OP. It's number 3.
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I'm losing respect for some of you guys by the minute. First, I provide very well for my kids. I spend a lot of time with them and they get nearly straight-A's in school. In general they're kind, generous, smart and hard working. The way things are going, all of them will be great contributors to society. It's not as if I'm raising a bunch of ignorant rugrats on welfare. Second, having kids is selfish? BS. Going MGTOW or having no kids is selfish. Practically giving all your time and wealth to raise good people for the next generation is tough as hell. Not selfish. Last, I'm an asshole. Right. I don't know what metric is used to determine who's an asshole but refusing to throw in the towel for the sake of my marriage and kids is not being an asshole. I regularly contribute usefully on this forum as well - attempting to do what I can for others. A smaller person would be all butt hurt and leave the forum or something. But I quite caring about what people think toward the end of 9th grade so I really don't give a damn. I asked for opinions and got some good ones. Others were with good intentions but without knowing the full details. Others were just assnine.
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Now take all that rage you have toward David and direct it toward your wife.
Hey, I said it once and I'll say it again...you've been very level headed with what's been said.
We only know the picture you painted for us though, so bare that in mind...plus, being armchair
quarterbacks takes the spotlight off of our own inequities, mmmmkay?
Hey, I said it once and I'll say it again...you've been very level headed with what's been said.
We only know the picture you painted for us though, so bare that in mind...plus, being armchair
quarterbacks takes the spotlight off of our own inequities, mmmmkay?
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I'm losing respect for some of you guys by the minute. First, I provide very well for my kids. I spend a lot of time with them and they get nearly straight-A's in school. In general they're kind, generous, smart and hard working. The way things are going, all of them will be great contributors to society. It's not as if I'm raising a bunch of ignorant rugrats on welfare. Second, having kids is selfish? BS. Going MGTOW or having no kids is selfish. Practically giving all your time and wealth to raise good people for the next generation is tough as hell. Not selfish. Last, I'm an asshole. Right. I don't know what metric is used to determine who's an asshole but refusing to throw in the towel for the sake of my marriage and kids is not being an asshole. I regularly contribute usefully on this forum as well - attempting to do what I can for others. A smaller person would be all butt hurt and leave the forum or something. But I quite caring about what people think toward the end of 9th grade so I really don't give a damn. I asked for opinions and got some good ones. Others were with good intentions but without knowing the full details. Others were just assnine.
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Come to think of it...
if you really think about the OP, you wanted everyone to be up in arms about the situation to corroborate how you felt.
Then when you cooled off and people were still upset it seems to have upset you now?
Kinda like the abused wife that's mad at the cops for locking up the abusive husband.
I don't know bro. I just know I want you happy. I want your wife happy. I want your kids especially happy. I just don't
want the pedo happy. Him being happy wouldn't be good for anyone.
if you really think about the OP, you wanted everyone to be up in arms about the situation to corroborate how you felt.
Then when you cooled off and people were still upset it seems to have upset you now?
Kinda like the abused wife that's mad at the cops for locking up the abusive husband.
I don't know bro. I just know I want you happy. I want your wife happy. I want your kids especially happy. I just don't
want the pedo happy. Him being happy wouldn't be good for anyone.
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Some of that banter is always going to be on this site. Comes with the territory.
You're ignoring the productive discussions and tough questions that have come up in this thread. Your thinking is still backwards. You're prioritizing your marriage over your kids' safety. Nobody gives a shit about the marriage - The productive discussion in this thread has been centred around your kids' safety.
Believing your wife's words over her actions is irrational, and is putting your kids in danger
Living in the same house as your wife and trusting her alone with your kids is irrational, and is putting your kids in danger
Thinking you're slick and you can keep track of your wife's whereabouts 100% of the time is irrational, and is putting your kids in danger
There are no "details" that can change that. You have a wide-ass open door to guarantee your kids' safety and you're not even trying.
You're ignoring the productive discussions and tough questions that have come up in this thread. Your thinking is still backwards. You're prioritizing your marriage over your kids' safety. Nobody gives a shit about the marriage - The productive discussion in this thread has been centred around your kids' safety.
Believing your wife's words over her actions is irrational, and is putting your kids in danger
Living in the same house as your wife and trusting her alone with your kids is irrational, and is putting your kids in danger
Thinking you're slick and you can keep track of your wife's whereabouts 100% of the time is irrational, and is putting your kids in danger
There are no "details" that can change that. You have a wide-ass open door to guarantee your kids' safety and you're not even trying.
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She's still seeking attention outside of the house, guaranteed.
She might love the kids, but I highly doubt she even has a smidge of real consideration or respect for you.
And the fact that she's blinded by her lust is even worse. She's in denial about her lover.
You're in denial about your relationship.
Next your kids will be in denial about being molested.
Uncle Philip said putting hands on privates is for keeping his hands warm!
I heard that pedo contributes to online communities as well.
OP called Taco a
What happened in the beginning of 9th grade though?
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OP has a good temperament and is a valuable contributor to our community
Poor judgement though
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Poor judgement though
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I think if the dude wasn't a pedo the OP would have been totally into letting his wife continue banging the guy. Probably off in the corner jerking it with his salty tears begging to be able to watch.
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My lawn will fill in nicely long before he resolves his problems with his wife.
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Come to think of it...
if you really think about the OP, you wanted everyone to be up in arms about the situation to corroborate how you felt.
Then when you cooled off and people were still upset it seems to have upset you now?
Kinda like the abused wife that's mad at the cops for locking up the abusive husband.
if you really think about the OP, you wanted everyone to be up in arms about the situation to corroborate how you felt.
Then when you cooled off and people were still upset it seems to have upset you now?
Kinda like the abused wife that's mad at the cops for locking up the abusive husband.
Reminds me of Stockholm syndrome
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Definitely go Audi
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That's exactly what it is.
And what really keeps us in bad situations?
Fear...fear of the unknown...fear of being alone...what if she's the last piece of sweet ass
that will love me for me and make me my pancakes just right and stick a finger in my bum
and pretend not to tell her friends. What if the kids fall apart because of this.
Time is not enough of an element to keep you there if the other things are present. If her
true intentions were to change and be there for OP and the kids and it was a one time thing,
I don't blame him for working it out. But it would have to be more than a SECOND set of empty
promises and lies to get me to believe that to be the case.
Being a single Dad at almost 40 with a 1 year old daughter was a scary preposition (yes, I know)...
but being in a marriage with someone unwilling to pull themselves up and then seeking fulfillment
from outside our marriage was more than I could stomach. I took it as a poor reflection on her and
the way she dealt with the difficulties of life, or marriage, of being a mother...I knew one day she's
regret it. I knew I was doing to my kid what I criticized my parents for doing to me at the age of 8.
Then I took it as an opportunity to figure out what my next chapter would be...be excited about the
unknown...who would I date? Where would I live. It could have gone a lot of different and scary
ways but now I am in a loving relationship with a fantastically matched woman and we have a fuck
ton of kids between the two of us.
My point is...making it work and staying together isn't your only option, whether you have 1 kid, 10 kids
or no kids. There's life after. Probably easier for me since I don't have religious beliefs looming overhead.
The only thing you should be scared of is selling yourself short. If you sell
yourself short you ultimately are selling the kids short with what's left of you.
And what really keeps us in bad situations?
Fear...fear of the unknown...fear of being alone...what if she's the last piece of sweet ass
that will love me for me and make me my pancakes just right and stick a finger in my bum
and pretend not to tell her friends. What if the kids fall apart because of this.
Time is not enough of an element to keep you there if the other things are present. If her
true intentions were to change and be there for OP and the kids and it was a one time thing,
I don't blame him for working it out. But it would have to be more than a SECOND set of empty
promises and lies to get me to believe that to be the case.
Being a single Dad at almost 40 with a 1 year old daughter was a scary preposition (yes, I know)...
but being in a marriage with someone unwilling to pull themselves up and then seeking fulfillment
from outside our marriage was more than I could stomach. I took it as a poor reflection on her and
the way she dealt with the difficulties of life, or marriage, of being a mother...I knew one day she's
regret it. I knew I was doing to my kid what I criticized my parents for doing to me at the age of 8.
Then I took it as an opportunity to figure out what my next chapter would be...be excited about the
unknown...who would I date? Where would I live. It could have gone a lot of different and scary
ways but now I am in a loving relationship with a fantastically matched woman and we have a fuck
ton of kids between the two of us.
My point is...making it work and staying together isn't your only option, whether you have 1 kid, 10 kids
or no kids. There's life after. Probably easier for me since I don't have religious beliefs looming overhead.
The only thing you should be scared of is selling yourself short. If you sell
yourself short you ultimately are selling the kids short with what's left of you.
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If she sticks a finger in your bum and you like it
You gay, son
Call me
I'm not gay
But I'll put my finger up your bum
"finger"
You gay, son
Call me
I'm not gay
But I'll put my finger up your bum
"finger"
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I think the church and family pressures definitely are a big part of the puzzle
But the treachery and toxicity of their relationship is not bound by religion
That's just self-serving poison and lack of respect for one another
Like I said, it's doomed
Any structure of their relationship that may seem intact is completely external
But the treachery and toxicity of their relationship is not bound by religion
That's just self-serving poison and lack of respect for one another
Like I said, it's doomed
Any structure of their relationship that may seem intact is completely external
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Sadly enough, no matter how harshly the message is delivered and how much you don't want to hear it.
70% of the time, Majofo's advice is correct, every time. He studies cars and people and motives and class
and drive and what type of person people are. He knows his shit...so even if he's not hitting the mark dead
on about your wife...he's probably not wrong about her overall and how this is going down.
70% of the time, Majofo's advice is correct, every time. He studies cars and people and motives and class
and drive and what type of person people are. He knows his shit...so even if he's not hitting the mark dead
on about your wife...he's probably not wrong about her overall and how this is going down.
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Lets keep it civil and not berate this dude for having 6 or 16 kids. You are not his parents, giving him money or relatives so no need for the nonsense. If you don't have nice things to say don't say them at all.
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I dunno. When I think of scary prepositions, all I can come up with are after, behind, & through.
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Was mostly hoping Joe would find a way to make those prepositions into a scary proposition.
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I dunno. After he’s done behind you, I’m sure he’ll hunt down someone else to come through.
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someone reporting in
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OP - I do give you credit, you're taking it well but I think we all thought you were going to see the light and get the fuck out at the start of this thread. I've been in a terrible relationship, she cheated, I went back, she cheated again; a lot of us have been there and I was a little bitch, just like the others that have been there. My friends, my family, EVERYONE besides myself saw how bad the relationship was and looking back, they were 100 percent right. Based on what you said at the start, then your 100 percent forgiving her, which you did, I think we are all trying to push you to see the light here because it looks bad:
-Pedo
-Wife sat on his lap and said she loved him
-Pedo goes to jail, she's sorry
-Pedo gets out, she starts it back up
-Pedo has YOUR kids at his house over night
-Caught again and oh no, so sorry, never happen again
-But you need to stay together for the kids
I'm telling you, my parents stayed together for us and we had a great up bringing but everyone would have been better off if they split sooner. My sister and I knew shit was bad and while it would have sucked at the time, much like this, it would have been way, way better in the long run. Stop turning a blind eye to this, you letting her bang another dude is one thing but that dude is around your kids and he has been convicted of bad things with kids; are you insane? You said you spoke with a lawyer, you said you called his PO; I don't think any of these things happened and it's a shame, the chances of this ending well are slim,
Good luck man, I hope this is a social experiment for your sake.
-Pedo
-Wife sat on his lap and said she loved him
-Pedo goes to jail, she's sorry
-Pedo gets out, she starts it back up
-Pedo has YOUR kids at his house over night
-Caught again and oh no, so sorry, never happen again
-But you need to stay together for the kids
I'm telling you, my parents stayed together for us and we had a great up bringing but everyone would have been better off if they split sooner. My sister and I knew shit was bad and while it would have sucked at the time, much like this, it would have been way, way better in the long run. Stop turning a blind eye to this, you letting her bang another dude is one thing but that dude is around your kids and he has been convicted of bad things with kids; are you insane? You said you spoke with a lawyer, you said you called his PO; I don't think any of these things happened and it's a shame, the chances of this ending well are slim,
Good luck man, I hope this is a social experiment for your sake.
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I said what I said and I meant it. We've already moved past that.