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Old 01-28-2006, 09:16 PM
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with people like huckleberry around i wonder why i get singled out as the AZ asshole
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Old 01-28-2006, 11:15 PM
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My predictions: She will call you back, You will pick up the phone. She will request to see you, you will promptly go to see her. You won't be able to get rid of her as easily as you think
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Old 01-29-2006, 12:12 AM
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Originally Posted by 1StGenCL
alright im not doing well but ITS OVER She said she wasnt sure who she was blah blah blah but God it hurts I know im better off but it hurts so much, three years of seeing her constantly and her being my best friend Argh

Two things:

1 At the right time and under the right circumstances, anybody might!
2 If you want a friend... get a dog... sorry.
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Old 01-29-2006, 03:00 AM
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Nice, go fuck yourself Thank you

Sorry my comment pissed you off...not my intention.

What I was trying to tell you is have some backbone and STOP hurting for that whore, she is NOT worth it.
Just a gf not wife !

Now maybe you guys had awesome, sweet memory, I don't know, so I don't have any emotion in my comments.
But then if you guys were married or anything. Trust me comment would be quite different.
I DO feel sorry for your ordeal...been there, done that.
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Old 01-29-2006, 03:07 AM
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Originally Posted by Shoofin
My predictions: She will call you back, You will pick up the phone. She will request to see you, you will promptly go to see her. You won't be able to get rid of her as easily as you think


either that or a year from today he will look back at this and feel foolish for once aching and for this cheater slut.
been there done that.
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Old 01-29-2006, 09:02 AM
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Originally Posted by zeroday
with people like huckleberry around i wonder why i get singled out as the AZ asshole
Excellent question.
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Old 01-29-2006, 10:43 AM
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slap her in the head with your dick and be done with it...

It will give her a lasting memory of you...
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Old 01-29-2006, 01:00 PM
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Excellently dumb question.
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Old 01-29-2006, 01:33 PM
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now's the perfect time to start dumping mod money into your car (if you havent ever before.)

trust me
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Old 01-29-2006, 01:45 PM
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Fuck It - Eamon

Perfect song to listen to, at this point.
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Old 01-29-2006, 01:50 PM
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Originally Posted by 1StGenCL
alright im not doing well but ITS OVER She said she wasnt sure who she was blah blah blah but God it hurts I know im better off but it hurts so much, three years of seeing her constantly and her being my best friend Argh
Damn that sucks to hear. But whatever, you'll shrug it off eventually.

Now go out and have some fun! You need to forget about her ASAP.
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Old 01-29-2006, 04:27 PM
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Well the worst night is out of the way but she did call today after saying we were done. I didnt pick up and no message

haha love it, depressing stuff is just making it worse


as for the car modding, good idea but that car has had it. Modded some when i first got it way back in 97 but with almost 300,000 miles it wont last long so then i have to sell the bike and look for another acura. Hopefully i will save enough to get to my downpayment goal for a house too Maybe the lack of a gf will help me save too
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Fuck It - Eamon

Perfect song to listen to, at this point.
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Old 01-29-2006, 10:21 PM
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Old 01-30-2006, 09:31 AM
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you'll save money w/o a woman. have fun
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Old 01-31-2006, 06:33 PM
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sorry i didnt think you meant anything nice huck. Why do i want to call, i cant keep myself busy all night everynight and it sucks
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Old 02-01-2006, 01:41 AM
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Old 02-01-2006, 11:15 AM
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Hey man I go to school @ UF. Sounds like she's a lying c***! Give me her # and I'll f*** her for you to prove it!
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Old 02-01-2006, 11:16 AM
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^^ great first post
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Old 02-01-2006, 11:33 AM
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Originally Posted by 1StGenCL
She said she wasnt sure who she was blah blah blah

I am no Dr. Phil but even I can tell her who she is: A FUCKING WHORE!!! That's who she is....
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Old 02-01-2006, 02:48 PM
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Originally Posted by alwaysacura
Hey man I go to school @ UF. Sounds like she's a lying c***! Give me her # and I'll f*** her for you to prove it!
wow seems we got a few real crazy first posts these days LOL
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Old 02-02-2006, 02:04 AM
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LOL that was you wasnt it
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Old 02-02-2006, 09:19 AM
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hahaah I think it was him.. Lets find the ip address of this alwaysacura
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Old 02-02-2006, 06:02 PM
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Alright kinda funny but dont call her that she is a nice girl and for some odd reason i hope things go well for her and i guess if it was meant to be we will see each other again. I just dont want to wait but i guess i have no choice

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Hey man I go to school @ UF. Sounds like she's a lying c***! Give me her # and I'll f*** her for you to prove it!
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Old 02-02-2006, 06:23 PM
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ok maybe she isnt nice because im sitting here crying still I have gone out with friends and tried to forget but it isnt working. They keep telling me to find a random hookup to forget but something tells me that it would just makes things worse. The situation even presented itself last night but i couldnt even kiss the girl much less go home with her To top it of she was a very nice looking girl. Guess part of me still wants things to work, sad isnt it?
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pretty normal...
but this has gone on long enough
please remove your head from your ass
she accused another man of RAPE to cover up her indiscretions...that is waaaaayyy bad.
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Old 02-02-2006, 09:23 PM
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Originally Posted by 1StGenCL
ok maybe she isnt nice because im sitting here crying still I have gone out with friends and tried to forget but it isnt working. They keep telling me to find a random hookup to forget but something tells me that it would just makes things worse. The situation even presented itself last night but i couldnt even kiss the girl much less go home with her To top it of she was a very nice looking girl. Guess part of me still wants things to work, sad isnt it?
You'll get over it. Just don't focus on it, and keep on going out.

Get drunk if you have to.

Edit: A friend once asked me about when I knew I was over a girl I was dating a while back. I told him "The first time i blew my load in another girl's mouth, i was over her."

Try it
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Old 02-03-2006, 12:55 AM
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Originally Posted by ABreece
Edit: A friend once asked me about when I knew I was over a girl I was dating a while back. I told him "The first time i blew my load in another girl's mouth, i was over her."

Try it


I'm sure that would do it.
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Old 02-03-2006, 12:58 AM
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Old 02-05-2006, 04:47 AM
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Originally Posted by 1StGenCL
Guess part of me still wants things to work, sad isnt it?

Look, do you really want to be with someone that may accuse you of rape if she sleeps with you in an attempt "to make things work" while dating/seeing someone else to explain away sleeping with you?

And no offense, but is that someone that you really want to find yourself marrying? If she lies not only about cheating on you, but then also lies to you saying that it was rape, but in a marriage I would question not only her fidelity but also the paternity of any children that may result...
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Look, do you really want to be with someone that may accuse you of rape if she sleeps with you in an attempt "to make things work" while dating/seeing someone else to explain away sleeping with you?

And no offense, but is that someone that you really want to find yourself marrying? If she lies not only about cheating on you, but then also lies to you saying that it was rape, but in a marriage I would question not only her fidelity but also the paternity of any children that may result...


you have every reason in the world to be upset, you were betrayed by someone whom you trusted.

However. What is done is done. Its not like she made a mistake, realized it and then asked for your forgiveness. She freaking lied, and about something that shouldnt be lied about.

Do not call her.
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Old 02-06-2006, 04:27 PM
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Doing a bit better i have talked to her some and now her roommate called me at work to ask if she could interview me for a project. Why in the world would my gf's bestfriend ask me of all people to interview for a project? Her roommate would not know my work number so obviously my ex told her but why? is she wondering how i am doing or does she want me to drive up there and not show up to screw with me or what? I want to think the best but this is weird to me
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Doesn't matter why she called, you can't go up there - to do the interview or meet with your ex. As hard as it may be, you need to stop thinking about what she is doing and/or why she is doing it. You need to be concerned about your well being and that's it. She obviously doesnt care about your well being as much as she cares about hers.
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Originally Posted by 1StGenCL
Doing a bit better i have talked to her some and now her roommate called me at work to ask if she could interview me for a project. Why in the world would my gf's bestfriend ask me of all people to interview for a project? Her roommate would not know my work number so obviously my ex told her but why? is she wondering how i am doing or does she want me to drive up there and not show up to screw with me or what? I want to think the best but this is weird to me
it's a plot by your gf and her friend to get you back in their life.

stay away.
cut them off
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Old 02-06-2006, 05:48 PM
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it's a plot by your gf and her friend to get you back in their life.
stay away.
cut them off
LOL

:ibhefallsforthenextone:

stop wondering, stop thinking, stop guessing, stop hoping, just STOP with that one !
...and start a new life.

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Old 02-06-2006, 07:19 PM
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Hey man I go to school @ UF. Sounds like she's a lying c***! Give me her # and I'll f*** her for you to prove it!

you're a winner champ!
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Why can't she do a phone interview if it's so important?
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i cant believe you talked to her.
How about this, as harsh as Im going to sound, how about you think about her fucking that other guy every time you think of her. if thats not enough to keep you from talking to her..
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Is this thread still going on??? Its like a soap opera.....
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it's a plot by your gf and her friend to get you back in their life.

stay away.
cut them off
Stay away bro
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called and he said it's time for you to man up, cut the chord, and close this thread.
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