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Old 01-23-2006, 11:56 AM
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Are you talking to me or the thread starter?
sorry, i realized after the fact that you might think i was saying that to you.....i meant it to Threadstarter...was trying to agree with ya
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Old 01-23-2006, 11:57 AM
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sorry, i realized after the fact that you might think i was saying that to you.....i meant it to Threadstarter...was trying to agree with ya

Thank god, I thought you knew something I didn't.
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Are you talking to me or the thread starter?
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I suggest you go "Dark" meaning, no phone calls, no IM's, no snail mail, no communication period.

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Old 01-23-2006, 01:00 PM
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I suggest calling her parents and letting them know what a whore she is.

I'm torn on this one, as I've been around both false and legitimate claims.

I have a friend who was in the same situation as Soopa - the girl slept with him, realized he didn't give two shits about her, and then cried rape. She called him out on it in the middle of a party for some reason, at which point my friend responded "How was it rape? You were on top" - and she stammered something and walked away while everyone laughed.

I've also known a few girls who were actually raped and so it pisses me off to hear girls like this trivialize the whole situation. Regardless, drop her - preferably out of a moving vehicle
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Old 01-23-2006, 02:01 PM
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She called him out on it in the middle of a party for some reason, at which point my friend responded "How was it rape? You were on top" - and she stammered something and walked away while everyone laughed.
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Old 01-23-2006, 02:18 PM
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I suggest calling her parents and letting them know what a whore she is.
Write her parents a nice letter. Make it as sappy as possible.
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Old 01-23-2006, 02:41 PM
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the FORUM is pleading you LEAVE THIS BITCH IN A DITCH! DUMP HER, DOnT EVER CALL HER AGAIN, MOVE ON


it'll be hard, but you gotta do it or you have ZERO respect for yourself (either that or you can stay with her and cheat on her and see how she deals with it)
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Old 01-23-2006, 02:57 PM
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You need to address her as Slut. Her real name no longer should have meaning to you.
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Old 01-23-2006, 04:44 PM
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It sucks that she cheated on you - and even worse tried to call it rape. She isn't wortht the time and heartache she's putting you through. As Soopa and others have said - it's over. Nothing either of you can say or do to fix things. As tough as it is to let someone go after so long, she has given you more than enough reason to move on. It will take a bit of time to get over what she did to you, but you'll make it through.

So, don't ever talk to her again. Though you could send her a nice Valentines Day card with a bunch of condoms in it.
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Old 01-23-2006, 05:19 PM
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i started this thread feeling really bad for her but now im feeling bad for you man not cus of what happened but because your having a hard time dropping her ass. if this happened to me i wouldnt be sad about it at all, id be real pissed and it would be real easy for me to get over it but thats me.

im sure once you start working you will find some1 better, good luck man
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Old 01-23-2006, 06:14 PM
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your chance for revenge........

post naked pictures of her all over teh web
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Old 01-23-2006, 06:41 PM
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The first few days or weeks hurt but after that you relize that you are probably better off without the person. Something somewhat similar happened to me, and that is how it was at least. You did end up telling this chick to fuck off didnt you?
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Old 01-23-2006, 06:52 PM
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Originally Posted by CLean B
your chance for revenge........

post naked pictures of her all over teh web
great idea
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Old 01-23-2006, 06:53 PM
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great idea
The best way to accomplish it is by emailing it all the members who request it...


Requesting NWS material


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Old 01-23-2006, 09:53 PM
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1STGenCL, I really feel for you man, the whole think sounds so heavy. I wish you lots of luck!! My only advice in terms of retaliation and all that is forget it, take the high road and then you can look back and feel like the classy one.
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Old 01-23-2006, 10:15 PM
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^^^ what they said. don't retaliate! it's not the parents fault and she's a big girl. sending a letter to the parents is the equivalent of "telling on her". its juvenile and you're an adult - young adult but an adult nonetheless.

Like people say, just forget about her. It hurts and sucks but try and move on. Treat it as a lesson learnt, a lesson in life. Don't dwell on it or you'll never move on and definitely don't think all women are like that or you'll never trully be happy with another. Trust me, I'm there right now!

Like Rodney said, take the high road.

Remember the Libby Hoeler chick that got her vids posted, her ex-BF was charged for posting thos pics. Don't do the same!

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Old 01-23-2006, 10:41 PM
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In for the noodz.

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Old 01-23-2006, 10:59 PM
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Remember the Libby Hoeler chick that got her vids posted, her ex-BF was charged for posting thos pics. Don't do the same!
dont be a pussy
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Old 01-23-2006, 11:23 PM
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1stgencl any update??? hope all is well.. i am with the general consensus, kick her to the curb...
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Old 01-23-2006, 11:40 PM
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Agree with everyone and kick her to the curb. Don't even acknowledge her existence and it will go away much sooner than getting into a pissing match with her.

Go your way and let her go hers.
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Old 01-24-2006, 08:49 AM
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Originally Posted by cob3683
Agree with everyone and kick her to the curb. Don't even acknowledge her existence and it will go away much sooner than getting into a pissing match with her.

Go your way and let her go hers.
Forget she exists like she forgot you existed when she cheated on you. Fuck her man, find yourself a real girl
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Old 01-24-2006, 10:29 AM
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"How was it rape? You were on top"
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Old 01-24-2006, 11:08 AM
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I usually dont tred into D&R much but I did today and found this thread, it angers me that you put up with this for as long as you have. The pussy could not have been that good. But hey if you ever decide to kiss her again try not to think where her mouth has been, that will just ruin it for you..
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Old 01-24-2006, 11:39 AM
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I've only read the first and last pages of this thread, but I think I've heard all I need to.
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Old 01-24-2006, 12:12 PM
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i knew i was right. Hoes travel in groups
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Old 01-25-2006, 03:18 AM
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Originally Posted by btsilver
i knew i was right. Hoes travel in groups

i knew i was right with my initial post as well....


just some :gheyfight: people doubted me


hey atleast they called me e-thug?
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Old 01-25-2006, 03:28 AM
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Well its easier said that done to just drop a girl you have been with for 6years just like that. But what chioce do you have... I feel bad for you but you need to rememeber if you take her back because its just to hard to let go, watch somewhere down the road the same thing will happen again, especially if she goes out with those girls.
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Old 01-25-2006, 04:21 AM
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if you stick with this girl your just asking to get hurt again
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The best thing to do now would just get with her one last time and get some solid blackmale footage. Pref a rear entree. NOt only is she a whore, but she takes it int he pooper. Minus well give her a creampie as well. I'm sure the plublic would enjoy that. Oh and you should wear a funny mask.

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Old 01-25-2006, 08:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Titand19
The best thing to do now would just get with her one last time and get some solid blackmale footage. Pref a rear entree. NOt only is she a whore, but she takes it int he pooper. Minus well give her a creampie as well. I'm sure the plublic would enjoy that. Oh and you should wear a funny mask.

Solid black male footage eh?
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The best thing to do now would just get with her one last time and get some solid blackmale footage. Pref a rear entree. NOt only is she a whore, but she takes it int he pooper. Minus well give her a creampie as well. I'm sure the plublic would enjoy that. Oh and you should wear a funny mask.

LOL @ wear a mask
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Old 01-27-2006, 04:18 PM
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Any more update? From what it sounds like I really hope you kicked this bitch to the curb.
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Originally Posted by Titand19
The best thing to do now would just get with her one last time and get some solid blackmale footage. Pref a rear entree. NOt only is she a whore, but she takes it int he pooper. Minus well give her a creampie as well. I'm sure the plublic would enjoy that. Oh and you should wear a funny mask.

I hope English is your second language. If it's your first, you should be ashamed.

"blackmale" ? Huh? If you want footage of that...

"rear entree" ? That does sound really appetizing.

"Minus well?" The last time I heard about a negative well was in quantum mechanics.
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I have no clue WTF he's babbling about
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Old 01-28-2006, 03:14 AM
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Hey dude, how are you holding up?
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Originally Posted by SanJoseRoller
i knew i was right with my initial post as well....


just some :gheyfight: people doubted me


hey atleast they called me e-thug?
it wasn't that i doubted the possibility of the "other scenario" going down....just, really, you don't need to call her names UNTIL you know what actually happened....hey, he had enough faith in her to at least ask the question "is she lying about it?"


/yes, once again i will say it, girls that lie about this are bitches, sluts whores...whatever expletives/names are popular these days..they should be sent to jail for a min. of 10 years..doesn't mean you should "automatically" label them names just cause the scenario is a little strange/unlikely
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alright im not doing well but ITS OVER She said she wasnt sure who she was blah blah blah but God it hurts I know im better off but it hurts so much, three years of seeing her constantly and her being my best friend Argh
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^ :shakehead you know I'm beginning to see WHY she cheated on you and fucked up the relationship in a night of drunken whoreness AND gave you a bs story afterwards.
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Nice, go fuck yourself Thank you

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^ :shakehead you know I'm beginning to see WHY she cheated on you and fucked up the relationship in a night of drunken whoreness AND gave you a bs story afterwards.
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