Selfish when on the rag?
07-02-2008, 01:29 PM
#81
Team Owner
Originally Posted by amisconception
Women 101 = If she doesn't satisfy me she's not a sex slave and therefore pointless to have around and I should just find someone else.
07-02-2008, 01:30 PM
#82
Go Giants
Originally Posted by SakiGT
All of you are a bunch of girly men.
(are you a girl?)
07-02-2008, 01:33 PM
#84
Originally Posted by moeronn
Good luck with either:
A - not getting married
B - Getting married and divorced repeatedly
C - Finding someone who is as horny as you right now that you won't be able to keep up with in a few years and will end up cheating on you and/or dumping you.
A - not getting married
B - Getting married and divorced repeatedly
C - Finding someone who is as horny as you right now that you won't be able to keep up with in a few years and will end up cheating on you and/or dumping you.
I don't believe in this bullshit that having my needs satisfied is a luxury and I should expect less.
Marriage, please, unlike you I obviously don't see that as a goal in my life. You do. You think I care if I get married or not? lulz. You still think marriage is the mecca of happiness for a man? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. HA. HA. HA. AH. HAHAHAHAHAHA.
C: Funny that you have this belief that a girl who is sexually compatible with you will cheat on you with someone else. Thanks for projecting your insecurities.
07-02-2008, 01:34 PM
#86
Go Giants
Originally Posted by amisconception
I don't need luck, unlike you.
I don't believe in this bullshit that having my needs satisfied is a luxury and I should expect less.
Marriage, please, unlike you I obviously don't see that as a goal in my life. You do. You think I care if I get married or not? lulz. You still think marriage is the mecca of happiness for a man? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. HA. HA. HA. AH. HAHAHAHAHAHA.
C: Funny that you have this belief that a girl who is sexually compatible with you will cheat on you with someone else. Thanks for projecting your insecurities.
I don't believe in this bullshit that having my needs satisfied is a luxury and I should expect less.
Marriage, please, unlike you I obviously don't see that as a goal in my life. You do. You think I care if I get married or not? lulz. You still think marriage is the mecca of happiness for a man? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. HA. HA. HA. AH. HAHAHAHAHAHA.
C: Funny that you have this belief that a girl who is sexually compatible with you will cheat on you with someone else. Thanks for projecting your insecurities.
07-02-2008, 01:37 PM
#88
Go Giants
Originally Posted by SakiGT
I dont fear coagulated blood so I must be a woman.
07-02-2008, 01:39 PM
#90
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Thread Starter
well, thanks all for your opinions.
You've made me realize that I should talk to her about it and see how she feels and I'm sure that whatever her reasoning is will be fine with me.
Just keep your fingers crossed that she gives me a blow job IOU
You've made me realize that I should talk to her about it and see how she feels and I'm sure that whatever her reasoning is will be fine with me.
Just keep your fingers crossed that she gives me a blow job IOU
07-02-2008, 01:40 PM
#91
My Garage
Thread Starter
Originally Posted by amisconception
Gibson, you know what dude, don't listen to me. Just be happy A girl is having sex with you, since vagina is such a rare commodity.
07-02-2008, 01:41 PM
#93
Originally Posted by GIBSON6594
well, thanks all for your opinions.
You've made me realize that I should talk to her about it and see how she feels and I'm sure that whatever her reasoning is will be fine with me.
Just keep your fingers crossed that she gives me a blow job IOU
You've made me realize that I should talk to her about it and see how she feels and I'm sure that whatever her reasoning is will be fine with me.
Just keep your fingers crossed that she gives me a blow job IOU
good shit let us know how it goes lmao 
07-02-2008, 01:45 PM
#95
Team Owner
I guess there are a couple of fundamental concepts here that I disagree with:
1) Woman = Vagina. You have a relationship with the whole person, not just her genitals.
2) Woman not satisfying you 100% of the time you happen to get an erection with her = sexual incompatibility.
A real, solid relationship will involve give and take by both parties. You won't always get what you want, and the other person won't always try to give you what you want.
1) Woman = Vagina. You have a relationship with the whole person, not just her genitals.
2) Woman not satisfying you 100% of the time you happen to get an erection with her = sexual incompatibility.
A real, solid relationship will involve give and take by both parties. You won't always get what you want, and the other person won't always try to give you what you want.
07-02-2008, 01:46 PM
#96
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Did anyone ever think OP was just trying a little too hard and begging a bit much? He mentioned how he "directly told her how bad he wanted it." True I don't know the context, but no girl likes a begger. I think OP needs to tell us like how long they've been seeing each other and things like that and how she is normally.
Still though, as long as she's cool with it, I say sack up and just have sex with her. if you're that horny you'll be able to put up with the "blood" or whatever it is.
Still though, as long as she's cool with it, I say sack up and just have sex with her. if you're that horny you'll be able to put up with the "blood" or whatever it is.
07-02-2008, 01:47 PM
#97
Originally Posted by svtmike
I guess there are a couple of fundamental concepts here that I disagree with:
1) Woman = Vagina. You have a relationship with the whole person, not just her genitals.
2) Woman not satisfying you 100% of the time you happen to get an erection with her = sexual incompatibility.
A real, solid relationship will involve give and take by both parties. You won't always get what you want, and the other person won't always try to give you what you want.
1) Woman = Vagina. You have a relationship with the whole person, not just her genitals.
2) Woman not satisfying you 100% of the time you happen to get an erection with her = sexual incompatibility.
A real, solid relationship will involve give and take by both parties. You won't always get what you want, and the other person won't always try to give you what you want.
07-02-2008, 01:49 PM
#99
is learning to moonwalk i
Originally Posted by amisconception
I don't need luck, unlike you.
I don't believe in this bullshit that having my needs satisfied is a luxury and I should expect less.
Marriage, please, unlike you I obviously don't see that as a goal in my life. You do. You think I care if I get married or not? lulz. You still think marriage is the mecca of happiness for a man? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. HA. HA. HA. AH. HAHAHAHAHAHA.
C: Funny that you have this belief that a girl who is sexually compatible with you will cheat on you with someone else. Thanks for projecting your insecurities.
I don't believe in this bullshit that having my needs satisfied is a luxury and I should expect less.
Marriage, please, unlike you I obviously don't see that as a goal in my life. You do. You think I care if I get married or not? lulz. You still think marriage is the mecca of happiness for a man? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. HA. HA. HA. AH. HAHAHAHAHAHA.
C: Funny that you have this belief that a girl who is sexually compatible with you will cheat on you with someone else. Thanks for projecting your insecurities.
And you missed a key part of C - at some point, you will not be able to go multiple times per day, every day - or even close. If she still has the need, and you aren't there to fill it - because it is your duty - she will find someone who will.
07-02-2008, 01:51 PM
#100
Originally Posted by moeronn
It wasn't a goal in my life, but found someone worth marrying.
And you missed a key part of C - at some point, you will not be able to go multiple times per day, every day - or even close. If she still has the need, and you aren't there to fill it - because it is your duty - she will find someone who will.
And you missed a key part of C - at some point, you will not be able to go multiple times per day, every day - or even close. If she still has the need, and you aren't there to fill it - because it is your duty - she will find someone who will.
07-02-2008, 01:54 PM
#101
Team Owner
Originally Posted by amisconception
He just wanted a blowjob for Christ's sake. It's IMPORTANT to him. You don't believe it SHOULD be important to him, BUT IT IS (hence the topic).
07-02-2008, 01:54 PM
#102
is learning to moonwalk i
Originally Posted by amisconception
He just wanted a blowjob for Christ's sake. It's IMPORTANT to him. You don't believe it SHOULD be important to him, BUT IT IS (hence the topic).
This isn't something she can't physically do because of her period, it just sounds like something she doesn't want to do, for whatever reason (many possibilities have been mentioned).
07-02-2008, 01:55 PM
#103
Originally Posted by moeronn
It wasn't a goal in my life, but found someone worth marrying.
And you missed a key part of C - at some point, you will not be able to go multiple times per day, every day - or even close. If she still has the need, and you aren't there to fill it - because it is your duty - she will find someone who will.
I can't think of a single time in my life when I was not up to having sex with an attractive girl. Not one. Except for maybe the 2 or 3 minutes after orgasm with said girls.
Maybe I just have a healthier libido than most.
And if she did cheat then so what? She cheated and it's over. Obviously we weren't compatible. It's not the end of the world. There are more where she came from. Her loss not mine.
07-02-2008, 01:55 PM
#104
Originally Posted by svtmike
I guess there are a couple of fundamental concepts here that I disagree with:
1) Woman = Vagina. You have a relationship with the whole person, not just her genitals.
2) Woman not satisfying you 100% of the time you happen to get an erection with her = sexual incompatibility.
A real, solid relationship will involve give and take by both parties. You won't always get what you want, and the other person won't always try to give you what you want.
1) Woman = Vagina. You have a relationship with the whole person, not just her genitals.
2) Woman not satisfying you 100% of the time you happen to get an erection with her = sexual incompatibility.
A real, solid relationship will involve give and take by both parties. You won't always get what you want, and the other person won't always try to give you what you want.
As we get older we tend to put up with things that we normally would not have. Some call it wisdom I guess LOL. Even now there have been time where my girl didnt wana do it when I wanted to and I just delt with it. (happy time
) A few years ago I wouldnt have stood for that shit but like you said there some give and take. But for the OP if he wouldve asked her for some compensation and she said no flat out I would have to question where her heart is in the realtionship
07-02-2008, 01:56 PM
#105
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Thread Starter
Originally Posted by moeronn
And he is putting his wants ahead of hers = selfish.
This isn't something she can't physically do because of her period, it just sounds like something she doesn't want to do, for whatever reason (many possibilities have been mentioned).
This isn't something she can't physically do because of her period, it just sounds like something she doesn't want to do, for whatever reason (many possibilities have been mentioned).
This is why people create threads, to get people's views
07-02-2008, 01:59 PM
#107
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Thread Starter
Originally Posted by Mike 350Z
Did anyone ever think OP was just trying a little too hard and begging a bit much? He mentioned how he "directly told her how bad he wanted it." True I don't know the context, but no girl likes a begger. I think OP needs to tell us like how long they've been seeing each other and things like that and how she is normally.
Still though, as long as she's cool with it, I say sack up and just have sex with her. if you're that horny you'll be able to put up with the "blood" or whatever it is.
Still though, as long as she's cool with it, I say sack up and just have sex with her. if you're that horny you'll be able to put up with the "blood" or whatever it is.
I don't like the sex while on period thing.
I've only been seeing her about 2 months and only just started having regular sex about 3 weeks.
07-02-2008, 02:00 PM
#108
Originally Posted by moeronn
And he is putting his wants ahead of hers = selfish.
This isn't something she can't physically do because of her period, it just sounds like something she doesn't want to do, for whatever reason (many possibilities have been mentioned).
This isn't something she can't physically do because of her period, it just sounds like something she doesn't want to do, for whatever reason (many possibilities have been mentioned).
That excuse is crap. I've had countless upon countless blowjobs from more than one girl I was either seeing or in a relationship with while they were on there period. It's not a problem if you find a girl that is really into you and LOVES to please you.
I've done things for girls that were an utter pain in the ass because I loved them. And I would do it again because I like making the person I'm with happy. I demand the same in return. Sex or otherwise.
He's even indicated that he would do damn near anything for her sexually if it pleased her, even if he was somehow incapable of pleasing himself. That to me communicates the fact that there is a lack of reciprocation. He feels a way that she obviously doesn't. That is the definition of incompatibility.
07-02-2008, 02:00 PM
#109
Team Owner
Originally Posted by L's TL
I agree with you there. But just think back to when you were 19 or 20 or even 25. if you woman at the time got you all hot and bothered and just turned the switch off on you, I seriously doubt you would be okay with it.
Not at all true. But not finishing me off is not the same as "turning off the switch".
07-02-2008, 02:01 PM
#110
Go Giants
Originally Posted by dom
I'm going with a amisconception on this one.
07-02-2008, 02:02 PM
#112
is learning to moonwalk i
Originally Posted by amisconception
Good for you. I don't see it as any sort of necessary requirement for happiness, so throwing that at me as if "you got me there" is pointless.
I can't think of a single time in my life when I was not up to having sex with an attractive girl. Not one. Except for maybe the 2 or 3 minutes after orgasm with said girls.
Maybe I just have a healthier libido than most.
And if she did cheat then so what? She cheated and it's over. Obviously we weren't compatible. It's not the end of the world. There are more where she came from. Her loss not mine.
I can't think of a single time in my life when I was not up to having sex with an attractive girl. Not one. Except for maybe the 2 or 3 minutes after orgasm with said girls.
Maybe I just have a healthier libido than most.
And if she did cheat then so what? She cheated and it's over. Obviously we weren't compatible. It's not the end of the world. There are more where she came from. Her loss not mine.
And it does sound like your main, if not only, reason for having a relationship with a female is to get your rocks off.
07-02-2008, 02:04 PM
#113
Go Giants
My lord, some chick doesn't want to fool around 2-3 days out of the month and you guys are bent out of shape 
I know it's cliche, but seriously, as you get older and more married with kids, fooling around 2-3 days out of the month is more the norm....Go see a movie or something, I hear the new Will Smith movie is good...
I know it's cliche, but seriously, as you get older and more married with kids, fooling around 2-3 days out of the month is more the norm....Go see a movie or something, I hear the new Will Smith movie is good...
07-02-2008, 02:04 PM
#114
Originally Posted by svtmike
Not at all true. But not finishing me off is not the same as "turning off the switch".then u must be Buddha in disguise cause I dont kow any guys who wouldnt be the slightest of upset if one second she got you up and the next second she wont bring you down.
07-02-2008, 02:05 PM
#115
Originally Posted by Whiskers
My lord, some chick doesn't want to fool around 2-3 days out of the month and you guys are bent out of shape I know it's cliche, but seriously, as you get older and more married with kids, fooling around 2-3 days out of the month is more the norm....Go see a movie or something, I hear the new Will Smith movie is good...
I know it's cliche, but seriously, as you get older and more married with kids, fooling around 2-3 days out of the month is more the norm....Go see a movie or something, I hear the new Will Smith movie is good...Only 2-3 days the month u fool around? Shit. remind me not to get married LOL.
07-02-2008, 02:07 PM
#116
Go Giants
Originally Posted by L's TL
Only 2-3 days the month u fool around? Shit. remind me not to get married LOL.
07-02-2008, 02:07 PM
#117
Team Owner
Originally Posted by L's TL
then u must be Buddha in disguise cause I dont kow any guys who wouldnt be the slightest of upset if one second she got you up and the next second she wont bring you down.
07-02-2008, 02:08 PM
#118
Originally Posted by moeronn
How old are you, again? Me thinks if you came back to this post in a few years your thoughts will have changed.
And it does sound like your main, if not only, reason for having a relationship with a female is to get your rocks off.
I don't see the point in being with someone if the sex isn't ideal when you could be having an ideal amount of sex. Relationships, keeping a man monogamous, is more or less a sacrifice men make. Monogamy is not what our biology is naturally inclined toward. We want to fuck everything that moves. At least the good looking pieces of ass. Women have different priorities, security for example, and thus must counter a man's natural inclination to sleep with multiple women. If she's incapable of doing that within the context of a long-term relationship, then her man will be unhappy and either leave her or cheat.
lmao
07-02-2008, 02:11 PM
#120
Originally Posted by svtmike
Happens all the time, especially in the beginning of a relationship, doesn't it?