came home and she left me!
03-05-2010, 05:52 PM
#242
Stage 1 Audi S5
Good luck and you probably arent ready to date again.
As for the mall thing, I managed and Abercrombie when our mortgage company was going under, I was 24 and banging 18 year olds. Yea, there is tons of bullshit with them and it was against company policy but they were smoking hot (i hired them all and the main requirement was they were hot) and I didn't need the job since I was still closing loans. The mall is a goldmine for hookups but not for wives.
Ended up quitting and living with an absolutely gorgeous 20 year old but the immaturity and drinking was too much
As for the mall thing, I managed and Abercrombie when our mortgage company was going under, I was 24 and banging 18 year olds. Yea, there is tons of bullshit with them and it was against company policy but they were smoking hot (i hired them all and the main requirement was they were hot) and I didn't need the job since I was still closing loans. The mall is a goldmine for hookups but not for wives.
Ended up quitting and living with an absolutely gorgeous 20 year old but the immaturity and drinking was too much
04-14-2010, 02:50 PM
#243
What your problem is?
Holy Hell, there is 7 pages of this pussy shit???
1. I can't believe I came to this party this late in the game...
2. I can't believe some of you guys actually spent this much time trying to make this fucker feel better about himself, when all he needs to do is grow a pair...
3. She left you when you needed her, she fucked other dudes, you still walk around like your on pins and needles when she is around, you are ruining other relationships because of your ex?? Why can't you just understand that she is young and all young girls are going to do that... Stick to someone closer to your age...
4. Get the fuck out of the mall, man... Your are a grown ass man working at the mall... I keep thinking Paul Blart, Mall Cop...
5. Good Luck
1. I can't believe I came to this party this late in the game...
2. I can't believe some of you guys actually spent this much time trying to make this fucker feel better about himself, when all he needs to do is grow a pair...
3. She left you when you needed her, she fucked other dudes, you still walk around like your on pins and needles when she is around, you are ruining other relationships because of your ex?? Why can't you just understand that she is young and all young girls are going to do that... Stick to someone closer to your age...
4. Get the fuck out of the mall, man... Your are a grown ass man working at the mall... I keep thinking Paul Blart, Mall Cop...
5. Good Luck
04-14-2010, 04:38 PM
#244
I think that's why God created booze and hookers...just for a situation like this!!!!
Yeah...grow up and get over it. Go drink some beers and listen to some Slayer...and go wreck your room.
Yeah...grow up and get over it. Go drink some beers and listen to some Slayer...and go wreck your room.
04-14-2010, 06:59 PM
#245
Team Owner
I can't believe you read all 7 pages 
04-15-2010, 03:02 PM
#246
What your problem is?
04-20-2010, 11:33 PM
#251
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when you get blind sided and feel like shit because this was the girl of your dreams and you both at one time saw marriage and kids and a happy life, only to come home to a empty house with no life in it that use to breathe life in it. I loved her, she loved me, life was great even when it sucked because we had each other. Now its gone, its ripped from me.. life is very sad and empty right now.. sorry for the sad thread.. this isn't new to me, i've been down this road a few times before with other women, but this one hurts the most!
Why did she leave you.
08-02-2010, 08:32 PM
#254
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yo i'm back! back with some news!! 6 months it has been and i've been focused on myself and making it happen...been in the gym for 4 months now and have put on a good 25lbs of muscle and size.. feels good....have been going out and seeing positive reactions...feels good... Ex g/f has noticed activity by me with other people, she contacted me last weekend, and i met up with her to find out what she wanted, basically she wants to get married and come back...haha.. i don't know really what to say or do, i just said its almost to late to come back... thought i would update..
08-02-2010, 08:47 PM
#256
Suzuka Master
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please dont go back. just remember this is the girl that walked out on you when you needed her the most your probably ever going to need her in your life and she left you high and dry. she has already shown you shes the type of girl thats only around when it benefits her.
08-02-2010, 09:15 PM
#257
Team Owner
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Run away.....run away fast. You're an idiot if you go back to her. All that will happen is that you will get back together, things will be good for a couple months/years and then it will get 10x worse.
Imagine being married to her, maybe having a kid or 2 and then one morning she wakes up an goes back to her old ways. I just don't see this ending well for you at all. I think she wants you back for all the wrong reasons and you are willing to take her back because you are afraid of being alone.
Imagine being married to her, maybe having a kid or 2 and then one morning she wakes up an goes back to her old ways. I just don't see this ending well for you at all. I think she wants you back for all the wrong reasons and you are willing to take her back because you are afraid of being alone.
08-02-2010, 09:17 PM
#258
Suzuka Master
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Run away.....run away fast. You're an idiot if you go back to her. All that will happen is that you will get back together, things will be good for a couple months/years and then it will get 10x worse.
Imagine being married to her, maybe having a kid or 2 and then one morning she wakes up an goes back to her old ways. I just don't see this ending well for you at all. I think she wants you back for all the wrong reasons and you are willing to take her back because you are afraid of being alone.
Imagine being married to her, maybe having a kid or 2 and then one morning she wakes up an goes back to her old ways. I just don't see this ending well for you at all. I think she wants you back for all the wrong reasons and you are willing to take her back because you are afraid of being alone.
08-02-2010, 09:58 PM
#259
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i hear what you guys are saying... trust me, the ball is in my court and i'm very confident now 6 months later...i feel like i did before i met her, my confidence is that high even before she contacted me...i have my life in the right direction now, and i do see her still everyday since she works close to me, she sees me and has told me i look really good.. i do care about her still, no doubt, but its been 6 months, i'm almost over her completely..it would be a different story if it was a couple of months after we broke up, but its almost to little to late now...
08-03-2010, 12:33 AM
#261
S E L L
Every time you think about getting back with her, remind yourself how she left you when you needed her the most. People don't really change and she'll likely do it again. You shouldn't put yourself through that anymore. Find someone who will appreciate you and stay by your side, for better or for worse.
08-03-2010, 12:48 AM
#262
Chapter Leader (Southern Region)
The fact that you acknowledge her existence means the balls in her court.
Don't talk to her anymore.
Don't talk to her anymore.
08-03-2010, 06:41 AM
#264
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She does not deserve you - move on. Tease her, play mind gmaes with her, just don't go back. If you do, she will turn her back on you again. The hardest time to leave someone is the initial time - it's easy after that.
08-03-2010, 08:12 AM
#267
Team Owner
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OP - you say a lot about how confident you are and it sounds almost right up until you pepper in the following "buts."
she sees me and has told me i look really good.
i'm almost over her completely
but its almost to little to late now.
Do us a favor....before you go back to her (sorry....I mean take her back) think about all the other guys she was with in the last 6 months. You have that image in you head now? OK.....think about that happening again in a couple years.
08-03-2010, 08:13 AM
#268
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08-03-2010, 09:54 AM
#269
Yea I'm pretty sure she broke up with you because the dong got old and she needed some "new-new". That vag is probably as worn as a rubber band around a fat chicks waist and probably has the remnants of the BP oil spill in her mouth.
Please don't go back to her, mankind's existence & male pride worldwide hinges on it.
Please don't go back to her, mankind's existence & male pride worldwide hinges on it.
08-03-2010, 11:31 AM
#270
Stage 1 Audi S5
Fuck, you are going back. I predict a new thread soon, "took her back, had kid, she left me, why does it burn to pee now?"
DONT DO IT! You do clearly care and the almost shows it is not too late. I would be willing to bet you have already or have plans to hang out with her soon. I've done it, bad idea
DONT DO IT! You do clearly care and the almost shows it is not too late. I would be willing to bet you have already or have plans to hang out with her soon. I've done it, bad idea
08-03-2010, 11:47 AM
#271
Team Owner
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Fuck, you are going back. I predict a new thread soon, "took her back, had kid, she left me, why does it burn to pee now?"
DONT DO IT! You do clearly care and the almost shows it is not too late. I would be willing to bet you have already or have plans to hang out with her soon. I've done it, bad idea
DONT DO IT! You do clearly care and the almost shows it is not too late. I would be willing to bet you have already or have plans to hang out with her soon. I've done it, bad idea
08-03-2010, 11:50 AM
#272
yo i'm back! back with some news!! 6 months it has been and i've been focused on myself and making it happen...been in the gym for 4 months now and have put on a good 25lbs of muscle and size.. feels good....have been going out and seeing positive reactions...feels good... Ex g/f has noticed activity by me with other people, she contacted me last weekend, and i met up with her to find out what she wanted, basically she wants to get married and come back...haha.. i don't know really what to say or do, i just said its almost to late to come back... thought i would update..
i hear what you guys are saying... trust me, the ball is in my court and i'm very confident now 6 months later...i feel like i did before i met her, my confidence is that high even before she contacted me...i have my life in the right direction now, and i do see her still everyday since she works close to me, she sees me and has told me i look really good.. i do care about her still, no doubt, but its been 6 months, i'm almost over her completely..it would be a different story if it was a couple of months after we broke up, but its almost to little to late now...
Lot of signs in those two posts that you are not over her and are going back.
The best advice I can give you is to stop hanging out in a mall in a college town and start meeting more mature women your own age. Until then, you will continue to be in this rut.
08-03-2010, 11:58 AM
#273
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Don't go back, don't do it
I've gotten back with my ex's too many times, just not worth it, run away fast and far, she had her chance and you know how she chose
I've gotten back with my ex's too many times, just not worth it, run away fast and far, she had her chance and you know how she chose
08-03-2010, 12:29 PM
#274
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Thread Starter
the feeling i have now towards her is nothing like the feelings i had 6 months ago..trust me when i say this...i have plenty of friends i've met without her now, and i have a really cool girl i've been hanging out with these last couple of weeks...nothing i say will convince you guys on this, i understand! i wouldn't date her again.. i might, i said might have sex with her again.. this is very possible...and of course as being a guy, this comes to mind...you can't fault me on that, its what i do afterwards that will make or break me...i just have to many other opportunities now than i' had before...it will be to hard to give up the single life..i'm used to it, and it feels great!!
08-03-2010, 12:57 PM
#275
Team Owner
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the feeling i have now towards her is nothing like the feelings i had 6 months ago..trust me when i say this...i have plenty of friends i've met without her now, and i have a really cool girl i've been hanging out with these last couple of weeks...nothing i say will convince you guys on this, i understand! i wouldn't date her again.. i might, i said might have sex with her again.. this is very possible...and of course as being a guy, this comes to mind...you can't fault me on that, its what i do afterwards that will make or break me...i just have to many other opportunities now than i' had before...it will be to hard to give up the single life..i'm used to it, and it feels great!!
To be honest I would not even sleep with her again. Nothing to gain from it. You said you have a cool chick that you are hanging out with. Leave the old one in the rear-view mirror dude. Don't even tempt yourself.
08-03-2010, 01:01 PM
#276
Team Owner
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One last point....you defend yourself and your decisions as you are supposed to and I realize that we may come off as being nasty and pointing out what we may do different. But the intent of most of us is not to just be assholes. I think most of us just don't want to see you make a mistake.
08-03-2010, 01:37 PM
#277
the feeling i have now towards her is nothing like the feelings i had 6 months ago..trust me when i say this...i have plenty of friends i've met without her now, and i have a really cool girl i've been hanging out with these last couple of weeks...nothing i say will convince you guys on this, i understand! i wouldn't date her again.. i might, i said might have sex with her again.. this is very possible...and of course as being a guy, this comes to mind...you can't fault me on that, its what i do afterwards that will make or break me...i just have to many other opportunities now than i' had before...it will be to hard to give up the single life..i'm used to it, and it feels great!!
08-03-2010, 02:14 PM
#279
Suzuka Master
I'll be the first to point out how bad of a plan going back to her is, but I'll also give you the benefit of the doubt if you say that there is no chance you will date her again.
To be honest I would not even sleep with her again. Nothing to gain from it. You said you have a cool chick that you are hanging out with. Leave the old one in the rear-view mirror dude. Don't even tempt yourself.
To be honest I would not even sleep with her again. Nothing to gain from it. You said you have a cool chick that you are hanging out with. Leave the old one in the rear-view mirror dude. Don't even tempt yourself.
You've got a clean slate with the new gal who sounds promising. Stick with that and let bygones be bygones.
08-03-2010, 02:37 PM
#280
Chapter Leader (Southern Region)
Get on some new pussy.. seriously.