came home and she left me!
02-02-2010, 01:07 PM
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Dude she bailed on you when you had a potentially life threatening infection?!?! Actions speak louder than words, I would have kicked her to the curb at that point
BTW, did you get your Lyme's successfully treated? Take doxycycline? No cardiac or CNS involvement?
2 years ago I took a hard knee to the chin when I was sparring muay thai. Ended up going to the ER and getting diagnosed with a concussion. My girl stayed awake the whole night to make sure I was okay and took off the next day from work to take care of me. You want to be with someone like that when you're sick.
23 y/o tail is nice and tight but a girl in her late 20s is usually better dating material for us old doodz in our 30s. I remember holding back the hair of the last 22 y/o I dated while she was blowing chunks in my toilet and thinking "I'm way to old for this crap." But, I couldn't hate on her because when I was 22 I was partying even harder than her.
^This
BTW, did you get your Lyme's successfully treated? Take doxycycline? No cardiac or CNS involvement?
2 years ago I took a hard knee to the chin when I was sparring muay thai. Ended up going to the ER and getting diagnosed with a concussion. My girl stayed awake the whole night to make sure I was okay and took off the next day from work to take care of me. You want to be with someone like that when you're sick.
wait?
-she left you while you were really sick?
-she fucked another guy while you were sick?
-she's 23 and you're 34?
she should be dead to you.
it's better to have fucked a 23 yr old and lost her than to not have fucked a 23 yr old at all.
if you want to get serious w/ someone, find someone older than 25!
-she left you while you were really sick?
-she fucked another guy while you were sick?
-she's 23 and you're 34?
she should be dead to you.
it's better to have fucked a 23 yr old and lost her than to not have fucked a 23 yr old at all.
if you want to get serious w/ someone, find someone older than 25!
^This
02-03-2010, 08:46 AM
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02-04-2010, 08:18 AM
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yeah, i couldn't hit on her friends... i won't steep to that level... i told her after you find another guy and get down to his core values you will relize you lost someone special.. but you have to learn. Its bad enough that i have to see her everyday at my work...it blows!
02-04-2010, 08:22 AM
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Dude she bailed on you when you had a potentially life threatening infection?!?! Actions speak louder than words, I would have kicked her to the curb at that point
BTW, did you get your Lyme's successfully treated? Take doxycycline? No cardiac or CNS involvement?
2 years ago I took a hard knee to the chin when I was sparring muay thai. Ended up going to the ER and getting diagnosed with a concussion. My girl stayed awake the whole night to make sure I was okay and took off the next day from work to take care of me. You want to be with someone like that when you're sick.
BTW, did you get your Lyme's successfully treated? Take doxycycline? No cardiac or CNS involvement?
2 years ago I took a hard knee to the chin when I was sparring muay thai. Ended up going to the ER and getting diagnosed with a concussion. My girl stayed awake the whole night to make sure I was okay and took off the next day from work to take care of me. You want to be with someone like that when you're sick.
02-04-2010, 08:35 AM
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yeah, i couldn't hit on her friends... i won't steep to that level... i told her after you find another guy and get down to his core values you will relize you lost someone special.. but you have to learn. Its bad enough that i have to see her everyday at my work...it blows!
When I got older, and a little wiser, I realized it was bullshit. We only say stuff like that to make someone else feel bad and to stroke our own ego.
She left you dude, whatever the reason is, she found someone else. It doesn't matter if the guy is a dick or a saint. She's moved on. You need to as well. It won't be easy but IT IS necessary.
02-04-2010, 09:51 AM
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Back when I was 25-26 I dated this chick and I was head over heals for her. When we split up, she said she though she would never find someone that would treat her as good as I did and I gave her the same line you have above.
When I got older, and a little wiser, I realized it was bullshit. We only say stuff like that to make someone else feel bad and to stroke our own ego.
She left you dude, whatever the reason is, she found someone else. It doesn't matter if the guy is a dick or a saint. She's moved on. You need to as well. It won't be easy but IT IS necessary.
When I got older, and a little wiser, I realized it was bullshit. We only say stuff like that to make someone else feel bad and to stroke our own ego.
She left you dude, whatever the reason is, she found someone else. It doesn't matter if the guy is a dick or a saint. She's moved on. You need to as well. It won't be easy but IT IS necessary.
02-04-2010, 12:23 PM
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Columbia must be loaded with available, intellegent women with UMC there and Stephens College. Find someone working on their upper grad program. While at Rolla (Guys to gal ratio was 9:1) we woul make monthly trips to Columbia to destressify. Stephens College was always our first stop. Never had an unsuccessful trip and I am not a handsome man. These girls were so well-grounded and intellegent. Your time will come and you will realize it has all worked out for the best. You will be the winner of this contest.
02-04-2010, 12:32 PM
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You definitely had a serious case of Lyme. Glad you're better
GL with the single life, I'm sure you'll make us proud.
02-06-2010, 04:25 PM
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Dude when it comes to girls , the sad thing is that you have to treat them like crap..Well at least the young ones.. like 8-9 years ago I loved this girl and treated her great (we where together for like 2 years) , did everything for her.. What did she do.. Dump me for my boy.. Well first she cheated on me with him then left me.. I on the other hand was sad for a few months went out partied met lots of girls that I really did not care about.. I just wanted to have fun.. treated them like crap and they kept calling.. one of these girls that was sooo good to me kept doing everything for me, like shit that I would not do for others and supported me in everything. I said jump she said how high.. I finally realized she is a great girl has been with me through thick and thin and now we are engagded... The funny thing is now that I care for her and would do "almost anything" for her , now she is starting to slip... She is not as "nice" and "giving" as she used to be the first 2-3 years we where seeing each other. So I don't know if it is becuz now I care and treat her good or it is becuz we have been together for awile.. She is still great and all but not like she was..
Moral of the story is that you will find the perfect person when you least expect it, and don't get too attached , trust me if you dont act or seem interested they will melt in you hands like puddy... I know alot of girls / guys are gonna say I am wrong but I know from expirence from alot of diff girls that the more you ignore them and act like you don't care then they will sweat you, if you get to attached and fall in "love" the know and they are like voltures .. They will exploit it!!
Moral of the story is that you will find the perfect person when you least expect it, and don't get too attached , trust me if you dont act or seem interested they will melt in you hands like puddy... I know alot of girls / guys are gonna say I am wrong but I know from expirence from alot of diff girls that the more you ignore them and act like you don't care then they will sweat you, if you get to attached and fall in "love" the know and they are like voltures .. They will exploit it!!
02-07-2010, 08:34 AM
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Great. Now he's loose.
Stoned, you should go smoke another. It seems to be keeping you well into delusion. You're sounding pretty immature.
OP, glad you're moving on. It's best for ALL involved.
OP, glad you're moving on. It's best for ALL involved.
02-07-2010, 09:24 AM
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Dude when it comes to girls , the sad thing is that you have to treat them like crap..Well at least the young ones.. like 8-9 years ago I loved this girl and treated her great (we where together for like 2 years) , did everything for her.. What did she do.. Dump me for my boy.. Well first she cheated on me with him then left me.. I on the other hand was sad for a few months went out partied met lots of girls that I really did not care about.. I just wanted to have fun.. treated them like crap and they kept calling.. one of these girls that was sooo good to me kept doing everything for me, like shit that I would not do for others and supported me in everything. I said jump she said how high.. I finally realized she is a great girl has been with me through thick and thin and now we are engagded... The funny thing is now that I care for her and would do "almost anything" for her , now she is starting to slip... She is not as "nice" and "giving" as she used to be the first 2-3 years we where seeing each other. So I don't know if it is becuz now I care and treat her good or it is becuz we have been together for awile.. She is still great and all but not like she was..
Moral of the story is that you will find the perfect person when you least expect it, and don't get too attached , trust me if you dont act or seem interested they will melt in you hands like puddy... I know alot of girls / guys are gonna say I am wrong but I know from expirence from alot of diff girls that the more you ignore them and act like you don't care then they will sweat you, if you get to attached and fall in "love" the know and they are like voltures .. They will exploit it!!
Moral of the story is that you will find the perfect person when you least expect it, and don't get too attached , trust me if you dont act or seem interested they will melt in you hands like puddy... I know alot of girls / guys are gonna say I am wrong but I know from expirence from alot of diff girls that the more you ignore them and act like you don't care then they will sweat you, if you get to attached and fall in "love" the know and they are like voltures .. They will exploit it!!
02-07-2010, 01:29 PM
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02-07-2010, 08:28 PM
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Dude when it comes to girls , the sad thing is that you have to treat them like crap..Well at least the young ones.. like 8-9 years ago I loved this girl and treated her great (we where together for like 2 years) , did everything for her.. What did she do.. Dump me for my boy.. Well first she cheated on me with him then left me.. I on the other hand was sad for a few months went out partied met lots of girls that I really did not care about.. I just wanted to have fun.. treated them like crap and they kept calling.. one of these girls that was sooo good to me kept doing everything for me, like shit that I would not do for others and supported me in everything. I said jump she said how high.. I finally realized she is a great girl has been with me through thick and thin and now we are engagded... The funny thing is now that I care for her and would do "almost anything" for her , now she is starting to slip... She is not as "nice" and "giving" as she used to be the first 2-3 years we where seeing each other. So I don't know if it is becuz now I care and treat her good or it is becuz we have been together for awile.. She is still great and all but not like she was..
Moral of the story is that you will find the perfect person when you least expect it, and don't get too attached , trust me if you dont act or seem interested they will melt in you hands like puddy... I know alot of girls / guys are gonna say I am wrong but I know from expirence from alot of diff girls that the more you ignore them and act like you don't care then they will sweat you, if you get to attached and fall in "love" the know and they are like voltures .. They will exploit it!!
Moral of the story is that you will find the perfect person when you least expect it, and don't get too attached , trust me if you dont act or seem interested they will melt in you hands like puddy... I know alot of girls / guys are gonna say I am wrong but I know from expirence from alot of diff girls that the more you ignore them and act like you don't care then they will sweat you, if you get to attached and fall in "love" the know and they are like voltures .. They will exploit it!!
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02-08-2010, 08:08 AM
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We'll instead of getting sex 5-6 times a week it is only like 2-3 now.. Thats what I mean buy slip..But when you been having sex w/someone 4-5 years 5-6 times a week I kinda understand..
And I know I am right about younger girls.. MOST do not know what they want from a guy and If a guy act uninterested then the girl takes it like a challange and wants you more, you do whatever she wants whenever she wants and fall head over heal in love like the OP then she has you it is no challange to her anymore so she finds someone that is a challange.. All girls want a challange...
from when I was 18-25 I went out clubbing to the biggest clubs in manhatten (Tunnle, Sound factory , Limelight) and went out alot in north jersey Metro joey's abyss so I picked up mostly club whores and they all where the same.
I dunno if u find a girl in church she might be different.
And I know I am right about younger girls.. MOST do not know what they want from a guy and If a guy act uninterested then the girl takes it like a challange and wants you more, you do whatever she wants whenever she wants and fall head over heal in love like the OP then she has you it is no challange to her anymore so she finds someone that is a challange.. All girls want a challange...
from when I was 18-25 I went out clubbing to the biggest clubs in manhatten (Tunnle, Sound factory , Limelight) and went out alot in north jersey Metro joey's abyss so I picked up mostly club whores and they all where the same.
I dunno if u find a girl in church she might be different.
02-08-2010, 08:16 AM
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We'll instead of getting sex 5-6 times a week it is only like 2-3 now.. Thats what I mean buy slip..But when you been having sex w/someone 4-5 years 5-6 times a week I kinda understand..
And I know I am right about younger girls.. MOST do not know what they want from a guy and If a guy act uninterested then the girl takes it like a challange and wants you more, you do whatever she wants whenever she wants and fall head over heal in love like the OP then she has you it is no challange to her anymore so she finds someone that is a challange.. All girls want a challange...
from when I was 18-25 I went out clubbing to the biggest clubs in manhatten (Tunnle, Sound factory , Limelight) and went out alot in north jersey Metro joey's abyss so I picked up mostly club whores and they all where the same.
I dunno if u find a girl in church she might be different.
And I know I am right about younger girls.. MOST do not know what they want from a guy and If a guy act uninterested then the girl takes it like a challange and wants you more, you do whatever she wants whenever she wants and fall head over heal in love like the OP then she has you it is no challange to her anymore so she finds someone that is a challange.. All girls want a challange...
from when I was 18-25 I went out clubbing to the biggest clubs in manhatten (Tunnle, Sound factory , Limelight) and went out alot in north jersey Metro joey's abyss so I picked up mostly club whores and they all where the same.
I dunno if u find a girl in church she might be different.
02-08-2010, 08:36 AM
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We'll instead of getting sex 5-6 times a week it is only like 2-3 now.. Thats what I mean buy slip..But when you been having sex w/someone 4-5 years 5-6 times a week I kinda understand..
And I know I am right about younger girls.. MOST do not know what they want from a guy and If a guy act uninterested then the girl takes it like a challange and wants you more, you do whatever she wants whenever she wants and fall head over heal in love like the OP then she has you it is no challange to her anymore so she finds someone that is a challange.. All girls want a challange...
from when I was 18-25 I went out clubbing to the biggest clubs in manhatten (Tunnle, Sound factory , Limelight) and went out alot in north jersey Metro joey's abyss so I picked up mostly club whores and they all where the same.
I dunno if u find a girl in church she might be different.
And I know I am right about younger girls.. MOST do not know what they want from a guy and If a guy act uninterested then the girl takes it like a challange and wants you more, you do whatever she wants whenever she wants and fall head over heal in love like the OP then she has you it is no challange to her anymore so she finds someone that is a challange.. All girls want a challange...
from when I was 18-25 I went out clubbing to the biggest clubs in manhatten (Tunnle, Sound factory , Limelight) and went out alot in north jersey Metro joey's abyss so I picked up mostly club whores and they all where the same.
I dunno if u find a girl in church she might be different.
If you target immature club chicks, do not expected to get sophisticated young women.
02-08-2010, 09:56 AM
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well, its been 2 weeks since the break up and i'm feeling alot better...i've gotten through the part that i can see beyond her and can live without her. I still think about her alot though, i've been keeping busy, but with this snow and cold its hard to get motivated. I'm not a gym person, i do cardio, but only in the form of running, when the weather warms up, i will start running again..but in the meantime, housework, messing with the car has kept me going..
02-08-2010, 10:25 AM
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GO ahead and treat your girls like gold and be at there every command and see where that gets you.. She will screw you!!
I am not saying to treat them like shit, just do't give them ALL your attention cuz once you do they KNOW THEY GOT YOU WHERE THEY WANT YOU...
If u find a girl that wants to get married then its a diff story but if you find girls that just wanna have fun then trust me my advice works!
I am not saying to treat them like shit, just do't give them ALL your attention cuz once you do they KNOW THEY GOT YOU WHERE THEY WANT YOU...
If u find a girl that wants to get married then its a diff story but if you find girls that just wanna have fun then trust me my advice works!
02-08-2010, 10:30 AM
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GO ahead and treat your girls like gold and be at there every command and see where that gets you.. She will screw you!!
I am not saying to treat them like shit, just do't give them ALL your attention cuz once you do they KNOW THEY GOT YOU WHERE THEY WANT YOU...
If u find a girl that wants to get married then its a diff story but if you find girls that just wanna have fun then trust me my advice works!
I am not saying to treat them like shit, just do't give them ALL your attention cuz once you do they KNOW THEY GOT YOU WHERE THEY WANT YOU...
If u find a girl that wants to get married then its a diff story but if you find girls that just wanna have fun then trust me my advice works!
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02-08-2010, 10:31 AM
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On the other hand if you are with a girl that gets no attention from no guys and you give her attention then she is yours untill the next guy come.. BUT THOSE ARE THE UGLY GIRLS!
My advice works on 90% of the 9's and 10's but if you guys are dealing with fugly girls then my advice does not work.. Like I said my advice works on good looking girls that can have whatever guy they want..
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02-08-2010, 10:37 AM
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I have been in relationships for 2-3 years and I am with my girl now for 4-5 years but have dealt , dated like 30-40 girls and all good looking , girls that can get guys to do whatever they want for them.. You take a girl that gets every other guy that she has been with to do everything for her and you come along and DO NOT do everything for her like every other guy, that girls is gonna say "whats up with this guy why isnt he sweating me like all the others" and then she will work 5X as hard to get her to do everything for her .. Then once she got you to do that she will move on to her next challange.. Girls like a challange...
On the other hand if you are with a girl that gets no attention from no guys and you give her attention then she is yours untill the next guy come.. BUT THOSE ARE THE UGLY GIRLS!
My advice works on 90% of the 9's and 10's but if you guys are dealing with fugly girls then my advice does not work.. Like I said my advice works on good looking girls that can have whatever guy they want..
On the other hand if you are with a girl that gets no attention from no guys and you give her attention then she is yours untill the next guy come.. BUT THOSE ARE THE UGLY GIRLS!
My advice works on 90% of the 9's and 10's but if you guys are dealing with fugly girls then my advice does not work.. Like I said my advice works on good looking girls that can have whatever guy they want..
02-08-2010, 10:38 AM
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These girls have every guy doing whatever they want for them what is going to seperate you from every other guy?
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Clubs and bars?
Serously when you are looking for a fine peice of A$$ for the night ( and don't want to pay $1000 for it) where do u go?
And these club whore are the same girl that you work with or have class with that you are dreaming of tapping that ass. Where do u think they go at night to unwind or pick up guys? CHURCH?
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well, its been 2 weeks since the break up and i'm feeling alot better...i've gotten through the part that i can see beyond her and can live without her. I still think about her alot though, i've been keeping busy, but with this snow and cold its hard to get motivated. I'm not a gym person, i do cardio, but only in the form of running, when the weather warms up, i will start running again..but in the meantime, housework, messing with the car has kept me going..
Keeping busy is essential. Find a new hobby. That worked for me back in the day.
02-08-2010, 10:41 AM
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DUDE read any book or watch any show ..Like the "pick up artist" or go to any seminare on how to pick up hot girls and you will see they all say the same thing.. Give the girl a little attention but not enough and she will be yours.. This advice I am giving you people pay alot of money to learn this from guys thgat write books on this stuff.. You have no expirence with hot girl and you are telling me... Read any book on picking up 10's and you will see..
These girls have every guy doing whatever they want for them what is going to seperate you from every other guy?
These girls have every guy doing whatever they want for them what is going to seperate you from every other guy?
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lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG your a fucking idiot. your backing up what you say by referiencing T.V. shows and "how to pick up a girls books" to prove your point. lol. you the guy that believes everything he sees on T.V. thers no reason in repsondoing to you at this point. like i said moron. you reference a reality show and expect me to take you seriously. lol.
MY POINT WAS how would books get published and why would people like you pay $1000's for a seminar if it did not work?
And if you read througn any of my post you would know that I don't belive any of the propergAnda on TV.. I KNOW this cuz i have been with alot of hot girls that can get any guy in the bar and the reason I got them is cuz I did not act interested... I KNOW THIS CUZ I HAVE BEEN DOING IT FOR 10- 12 years.. My feancea has been chasing me for 5 years!
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when u go out and pick up girls where do u go?
Clubs and bars?
Serously when you are looking for a fine peice of A$$ for the night ( and don't want to pay $1000 for it) where do u go?
And these club whore are the same girl that you work with or have class with that you are dreaming of tapping that ass. Where do u think they go at night to unwind or pick up guys? CHURCH?
Clubs and bars?
Serously when you are looking for a fine peice of A$$ for the night ( and don't want to pay $1000 for it) where do u go?
And these club whore are the same girl that you work with or have class with that you are dreaming of tapping that ass. Where do u think they go at night to unwind or pick up guys? CHURCH?
02-08-2010, 10:54 AM
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well, its been 2 weeks since the break up and i'm feeling alot better...i've gotten through the part that i can see beyond her and can live without her. I still think about her alot though, i've been keeping busy, but with this snow and cold its hard to get motivated. I'm not a gym person, i do cardio, but only in the form of running, when the weather warms up, i will start running again..but in the meantime, housework, messing with the car has kept me going..
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And yes I have been with alot of club whore but not every girl in the club is a whore.. I know your girlfriend and all your ex-girls (if u have a girl or ex girls) have gone to bars and clubs to meet guys..
AL girls in there early 20's wanna have fun and go to bars and clubs.. some might not as much as others but they all do!
I personally liked to dance and was good at it so that was one way I got alot of girls and when you went to clubs and bars as much as I DID then you can tell the whores from the ones that are there for a good time!
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