wife issues
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
Just out of curiosity, water, you made a comment on the last page about how you want her to "do what's expected of [her]" - what exactly does this include?
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From: Anna,OH(home of the honda/acura motors)
Originally Posted by kurt_bradley
We all know what happens when SO/GF/wives get on AZ... 
She already raises hell about I'm on the computer too much as is.
pretty much my life during the week is.
sleep, get up, shower, play with my daughter for an hour or 2, feed her(mom at work), look on Acurazine and at E-mail. If I need to file bills and/or accounts recieveable or payable for the farm I do that on the computer, then I get my lunch packed for work, change into my work clothes, get Sierra's crap packed to go to the babysitter for a couple hours until the wife gets off work,take Sierra to the babysitter, then go to work and repeat.
On the weekends(depending on time of year)
it's like this
-doing laundry
-doing dishes
-fixing or putting up new stuff for the wife
- help dad on the Farm(which I really like because not only I like farming but dad pays me REALLY well. almost too well I think)
- other misc chores
She's been hinting she wants a new Acura RL or BMW 530xi. which I admit both or sweet cars. however, I got my old beater(94 Accord) and 00 Odyssey and she wants a new 50+ grand ride. I don't know I get discouraged some times. due to the fact, I'm working 50 hours a week at the Grain and Feed, probably 20 hours a week on the farm, and yet she sees all the cool stuff from it. I mean I still have a house, 2 cars,a snowmobile,a 2005 Goldwing(that's only because the 1990 was wore out pretty much), and a 4 wheeler.
I was flipping through the channels on my radio in my car on the way home. I heard a song I'm sure y'all heard "Gold digger" by Kayne West.
the lyric that reminds me of her:
"I don't care I still love her,
She's a Gold digger, she ain't messing with no broke niggas."
second part reminds me
"He gone make it into a Benz out of that Datson
He got that ambition baby look in his eyes
This week he moppin floorz next week it's the fries
So, stick by his side"
except the only part is she's got a Ford and wants a BMW or Acura.
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From: Anna,OH(home of the honda/acura motors)
Originally Posted by fdl
Seriously though, I would pay money to see this happen with Mrs. Water-S .
Sidenote: I did seperate our bank accounts. I still got 3 seperate accounts in my name( FDIC only covers to 100 grand per account) that's why I have 3 accounts at 3 different banks I keep 100 grand in 2 of them and the 1 in is building and whatever intrest goes over the 100 grand goes into that account.
she has 1 account it has after all bills paid maybe 1000 bucks.
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Originally Posted by Water-S
maybe I can raise money for the new BMW
Sidenote: I did seperate our bank accounts. I still got 3 seperate accounts in my name( FDIC only covers to 100 grand per account) that's why I have 3 accounts at 3 different banks I keep 100 grand in 2 of them and the 1 in is building and whatever intrest goes over the 100 grand goes into that account.
she has 1 account it has after all bills paid maybe 1000 bucks.
Sidenote: I did seperate our bank accounts. I still got 3 seperate accounts in my name( FDIC only covers to 100 grand per account) that's why I have 3 accounts at 3 different banks I keep 100 grand in 2 of them and the 1 in is building and whatever intrest goes over the 100 grand goes into that account.
she has 1 account it has after all bills paid maybe 1000 bucks.
b) robbed a bank
which one
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From: Anna,OH(home of the honda/acura motors)
Originally Posted by fdl
water, i think a family picture is in order.
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Originally Posted by Water-S
She's been hinting she wants a new Acura RL or BMW 530xi. which I admit both or sweet cars. however, I got my old beater(94 Accord) and 00 Odyssey and she wants a new 50+ grand ride. I don't know I get discouraged some times.
a 530xi???? Why not just get the 545i? 
This just keeps going from bad to worse. Personally, I don't think it's a smart move to buy a car that's worth 2x your annual salary
You can quote me on that too.EDIT: Just saw your post about your 200-300 G's. I assume she knows that, and you my friend are fuXored.
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From: Somewhere between here and there, yet neither.
Originally Posted by Water-S
maybe I can raise money for the new BMW
Sidenote: I did seperate our bank accounts. I still got 3 seperate accounts in my name( FDIC only covers to 100 grand per account) that's why I have 3 accounts at 3 different banks I keep 100 grand in 2 of them and the 1 in is building and whatever intrest goes over the 100 grand goes into that account.
she has 1 account it has after all bills paid maybe 1000 bucks.
Sidenote: I did seperate our bank accounts. I still got 3 seperate accounts in my name( FDIC only covers to 100 grand per account) that's why I have 3 accounts at 3 different banks I keep 100 grand in 2 of them and the 1 in is building and whatever intrest goes over the 100 grand goes into that account.
she has 1 account it has after all bills paid maybe 1000 bucks.
All I have to say is
Marriage = 50%.....she gets 50% of what you own.....during the marriage...and a good lawyer can get a piece of your stuff pre-marriage.
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From: Toronto
Originally Posted by Water-S
of Amy or Sierra a.k.a. "Cue ball" (I call her "cue ball because she's almost 1 and hardly has any hair."0
the whole family woudl be nice. but either or woudl be fine.
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From: Anna,OH(home of the honda/acura motors)
Originally Posted by zeroday
you either a) inherited alot of money
b) robbed a bank
which one
b) robbed a bank
which one
he said since you got "hosed" I'm gonna cut you in on half the value of what I sold it for.
If you got all of this free money, why would you throw it into depreciating assets? Buy some land or a house, rental properties, or invest it. Don't squander it on cars. Geez....
If you played your cards right you could retire within 10 years....
If you played your cards right you could retire within 10 years....
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Originally Posted by Water-S
when dad sold 200 acres to land developer he orginally was gonna give me that land. he sold it for a HUUUUUUUUUGE amount.(millions)
he said since you got "hosed" I'm gonna cut you in on half the value of what I sold it for.
he said since you got "hosed" I'm gonna cut you in on half the value of what I sold it for.
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Originally Posted by juniorbean
If you got all of this free money, why would you throw it into depreciating assets? Buy some land or a house, rental properties, or invest it. Don't squander it on cars. Geez....
If you played your cards right you could retire within 10 years....
If you played your cards right you could retire within 10 years....
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From: Toronto
Originally Posted by zeroday
im curious, did you get raped on taxes when your dad gave you all that money? i know a gift of 10k or less to a family member isn't taxable but beyond that i heard you get raped.
I'm sure there are ways around it. Like he should have sold him half the land for $1 before selling to the developer.
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From: MD
Originally Posted by juniorbean
If you got all of this free money, why would you throw it into depreciating assets? Buy some land or a house, rental properties, or invest it. Don't squander it on cars. Geez....
If you played your cards right you could retire within 10 years....
If you played your cards right you could retire within 10 years....
Women's superficial wants = depreciating assets
Is her goal to be the teacher at the local elementary school with the most blingabling?
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One of the more interesting threads in recent D&R history.
Water... You gotta do what is right for you and your daughter. I couldn't even fathom ever leaving my wife, but if there were circumstances that presented dangers to my sons/daughters I'd take them and run for the hills. No one should take their child away from them with little to no reason why.
With regards to the money... Lock that shit up tight.
Water... You gotta do what is right for you and your daughter. I couldn't even fathom ever leaving my wife, but if there were circumstances that presented dangers to my sons/daughters I'd take them and run for the hills. No one should take their child away from them with little to no reason why.
With regards to the money... Lock that shit up tight.
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Certain things aren't adding up here and there, but regardless.
Water is doing is what he always does, and that is come on here bitch, complain, and then not listen to single word anyone is saying.
He won't leave, he will let himself get screwed over by her and lose his daughter, and then he'll come here and tell us what tractor he just bought for the farm.
The dude seems to have a big heart, but I'll be damned if his skull is as thick as bank vault door.
Water is doing is what he always does, and that is come on here bitch, complain, and then not listen to single word anyone is saying.
He won't leave, he will let himself get screwed over by her and lose his daughter, and then he'll come here and tell us what tractor he just bought for the farm.
The dude seems to have a big heart, but I'll be damned if his skull is as thick as bank vault door.
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Originally Posted by BEETROOT
water-s is a millionaire? 
water-s, when you got half of the huuuuuuge amount (millions), what did you do with the rest? You said you have 3 bank accounts with 100k...
water-s, when you got half of the huuuuuuge amount (millions), what did you do with the rest? You said you have 3 bank accounts with 100k...
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Maybe he bought a really big/nice house? Half of millions minus 300k is a hell of a house in Ohio though!
Water, find a trustworthy lawyer. Spend 2 hours talking to him and pay him for that time. It'll be invaluable. Lay everything out for him and be prepared for the worst (divorce and 50% of your assets gone + child support for the next 17-18 years of your life).
Water, find a trustworthy lawyer. Spend 2 hours talking to him and pay him for that time. It'll be invaluable. Lay everything out for him and be prepared for the worst (divorce and 50% of your assets gone + child support for the next 17-18 years of your life).
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Originally Posted by The Sarlacc
Certain things aren't adding up here and there, but regardless.
Water is doing is what he always does, and that is come on here bitch, complain, and then not listen to single word anyone is saying.
He won't leave, he will let himself get screwed over by her and lose his daughter, and then he'll come here and tell us what tractor he just bought for the farm.
The dude seems to have a big heart, but I'll be damned if his skull is as thick as bank vault door.
Water is doing is what he always does, and that is come on here bitch, complain, and then not listen to single word anyone is saying.
He won't leave, he will let himself get screwed over by her and lose his daughter, and then he'll come here and tell us what tractor he just bought for the farm.
The dude seems to have a big heart, but I'll be damned if his skull is as thick as bank vault door.
Trying to have a conversation with him is like trying to herd cats. Or trying to teach quantum physics to an ironing board. Or trying to find a song by Rush that doesn't make me want to fill my ear canals with superglue.
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The bottom line is that he did the wrong thing by marrying this girl in the first place (might want to rethink your views on abortion) and now he's fucked. It's going to end in either a lifetime of misery or a divorce, and in either case he can kiss a good chunk of his money goodbye. I guess it's true what they say about fools and their money...
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Originally Posted by The Sarlacc
He won't leave, he will let himself get screwed over by her and lose his daughter, and then he'll come here and tell us what tractor he just bought for the farm.
The dude seems to have a big heart, but I'll be damned if his skull is as thick as bank vault door.
The dude seems to have a big heart, but I'll be damned if his skull is as thick as bank vault door.