Im in college, and i have known this girl since last year who i now hang out with often. im wondering what type of relationship we have, what are your views?


we talk a lot on the phone, we kiss, no sex (yet) I like her, she likes me. she always calls and wants to hang out. I am wondering if it was normal to hint sexual activities?

Im not a horny bastard, so its not about the sex, just wondering if any1 else with more experience knows my situation.

 

Sounds like a good relationship to me, whatever it is...

Take it as it comes...see what happens, etc...if sex doesn't feel right(now), don't push it.

 

well, im a virgin, im wondering if shes the one or not...so its not like im anxious to have sex.

 

Hold on a sec...You're in college and you're a virgin? I know for a fact you don't go to Rutgers.

Do you feel like if you converse with her about you two that it may make things strange?

Anyway, sad as it sounds, she might be the one. If she is, your life is over.

 

yo man, if she is the one, feel happy... because you dont have to worry about STD's which Rutgers has a lot of... from the way it seems, you are pretty much not to say stuck with this chick, but you do like her

 

I am a virgin by choice, but recently i have been thinking about whether which would be better.

if i stay a virgin,its the highest respect for my wife.

if i practie, my wife will enjoy being in bed.

i cant out weight one or the other.

I go to Seton Hall, hotter chicks than Rutgers!

 

wait.... i banged like every single chick at rutgers....

i dont have anything..... i think

 

lmao

 

 

IMO yer just hooking up...i don't see anything serious with your situation...when you start gettin hot and heavy, and it's clear both of you are more exclusive, then i'd say you're in a relationship

 

Nothing wrong with waiting until you are married or in a genuine committed relationship to give away the V card. Very cool that you respect yourself (and her) that much.

 

Well, what you have sounds like what I *wish* I could find, lol! You say you've known her for a year but how long have y'all been close like this? I'd be thankful to you for not pushing things, although, after about 3-6 months of this nice calling/kissing/hanging out stuff, I'd probably jump you *lmao*. One can only hold out so long (or maybe that's just me, lol)

 

I'd make a move, otherwise she's gonna friends-ladder you.

Your first time isn't a big deal. It'll be 2 minutes of awkwardness. Everyone makes a big deal out of it but I woudln't worry. If she's had sex before, it's a great opportunityfor you to learn something.

 

This must be the 10th time i've said this..

I need to meet more girls like the ones we have on A-CL!

 

i guess its time to talk to daddy,,,,

 

:sqnteek:

 

 

fucking a girl is not as easy as watching porn. Do it for your wife, go fuck some chicks and tell her you're a virgin, that way you both win.

 

ur smokin crack

 

Yuppie is right, and you're still a virgin

 

I'd say it's a pretty damn good relationship, one you should try and hold on to.

 

yo....... can i get her number?

 

correction...what they have is a friendship.

are you guys even dating?? She obviously likes you if she wants to chill with you all the time and she thinks you're attractive if she's kissing you...so what are you waiting for?? try taking it to the next level, talk to her about it...see what her mindset is on the "relationship", thats better than sitting around wondering what's going on

 

Friendships don't involve kissing......at least none of mine do....:angry:

 

stick it in her butt

 

"friends in the butt"

 

OWNED

 

Dude MAKE A MOVE! Don't like throw her on the bed or anything but just see where it goes! I was a virgin until I was 21...I was glad I waited because I have no regrets, but I also have no regrets about not waiting any more. I've only been with 2 guys, but it's been very educational.

Anyways my point is just go with what you feel. That's what I did, and if it feels right, 99.99% of the time on something like this it is! You could be missing out!!! Go for it!!!

 

i dunno, she hasnt been calling me like she did. so i think shes playing hard to get or watever its called. im gonna slow down and see how bad she wants me then ill make my move from there.