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Old Feb 17, 2009 | 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted by cmschmie
Wife is working on V-day...probably 2nd shift, so I'm clear!!

I'll probably cook her dinner and buy flowers. Her b-day is only a month after that so I'm not going too overboard with v-day
She ended up working the day shift...
I painted our bathroom and was gonna cook dinner, but I got wind that the caterer we used for our wedding was having a V-Day dinner that was a bit "undersold" and asked us to come...no charge

Got her chocolate, flowers and book she's been wanting
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Old Feb 17, 2009 | 02:56 PM
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Old Feb 17, 2009 | 03:00 PM
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Kinda a side topic:

Do you guys think that V-day gets less and less spectacular over the years? It seems that the longer the relationship, the less that is expected on V-day, in my opinion.
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Old Feb 17, 2009 | 03:13 PM
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Originally Posted by GIBSON6594
Kinda a side topic:

Do you guys think that V-day gets less and less spectacular over the years? It seems that the longer the relationship, the less that is expected on V-day, in my opinion.
this valentine's was the 5th one with the gf.

the first two valentine's were more "exciting" because the relationship was still new. however, each of them have their own uniqueness and fond memories.

i do agree that it seems like less is expected on v-day the longer the relationship goes. but i still try and surprise my gf even if it's something simple like flowers.
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Old Feb 17, 2009 | 03:33 PM
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Old Feb 17, 2009 | 05:12 PM
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Originally Posted by GIBSON6594
Kinda a side topic:

Do you guys think that V-day gets less and less spectacular over the years? It seems that the longer the relationship, the less that is expected on V-day, in my opinion.
We don't go all out for Valentine's Day or Valentine's gifts...just some much enjoyed time together and a really nice dinner out. We surprise each other with tiny things throughout the year anyway. If he wants to go all out, I'm touched and honoured, but I certainly don't expect it. To be honest, the thing I really love the most is getting a card and reading the words he chose for me...that's really all that's necessary for me.

I/we don't feel less loved or think recognizing each other becomes less important, but I think as you get older you also become more practical. For example, personally, I'd rather have him put money towards other things than spending a ton on overpriced, hyped gifts (we don't celebrate on Feb. 14th anyway, so we don't buy with a 300% mark-up). I'd rather he put money into finishing the basement, going on a date, saving up for a vacation, other home renos, doing something special, something we'd get more use out of/enjoy more, etc than $100 on roses that he feels he needs to get. We know we love each other and express it often enough that one day of overload really isn't necessary.
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Old Feb 17, 2009 | 07:20 PM
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I imagine that I am never going to get the most I can get out of V-Day or a relationship until I find a woman that can hold my attention long enough for me to give a f*ck!

That will of course require me to stop being so arrogant, trust more, stop pissing them off, and the rest of the shebang...not ready to do that yet, and there has not been a woman that is good enough for me to give it up for, so I remain sexually attracted...but I also remain optimistic...for am I not me...
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Old Feb 18, 2009 | 11:42 PM
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I dont know about YOU.

SO, u actually broke up with ur girl on V-day after having Crazy sex with her

The older U get,D More U wud detour from that way of thinking....

U will probably get there...... In a couple of yrs.

Maybe when u are 30yr / > ++ If u NOT there already(....But I doubt it)
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Old Feb 19, 2009 | 12:13 AM
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Originally Posted by poisx7
^^
I dont know about YOU.

SO, u actually broke up with ur girl on V-day after having Crazy sex with her

The older U get,D More U wud detour from that way of thinking....

U will probably get there...... In a couple of yrs.

Maybe when u are 30yr / > ++ If u NOT there already(....But I doubt it)
Let me get this right...your non-spelling, multi-symbolic ass is trying to tell "ME"- a certified, bonafide, once I fuck your girl you may as well have died, "G" how to get with a woman????

Motherfucker pleeezzzz....at my "pussonic" rate of conquest - I would have fucked more pussy than you could ever remember seeing in your discrete porn collection you keep under your bed from mommy...I was born erect so gimme respect! I do what I want because I can and because I'm not confined by the same ties that bind wanna-be-me's like you! Next time spark some mental before you approach the monumental...you have been counted, you have been measured...and you have been found wanting...
goddamn right you don't know about me...but don't let that stop your young ass from asking somebody!

Peace2fingaz!
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Old Feb 19, 2009 | 06:27 AM
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Motherfucker pleeezzzz....at my "pussonic" rate of conquest - I would have fucked more pussy than you could ever remember seeing in your discrete porn collection you keep under your bed from mommy
Unless you are a girl...then I would just fuck you and make you join the list...
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Old Feb 19, 2009 | 10:40 PM
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Originally Posted by nbennettksu
I didnt do jack shit for my right hand.
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