I'll be brief, well, sort of

I went out with this girl I really liked for five weeks. I know thats nothing but she was really great. So last weekend she gives me all this bull about she is too overwhelmed with school work and tennis and all this other crap to have time for me and she likes me so much that wouldnt be fair to me or her and so on. I still got the let's just be friends line though. Hoping to later change her mind, I agreed. Before she broke up with me, we had planned to attend a Coffee House/concert dealie at my school next friday (Im a senior in HS by the way). Through a friend of a friend I found out she dumped me for another guy which she completely lied about and denied. I confirmed it with her best friend to be sure.

So, do I:
a) say fuck it and never see or speak to her again
b) pretend i dont know anything and plan something evil on Friday for the Coffee House
c) pretend i dont know anything and try to get her back the night of the Coffee House
d) write ins

I hate people who lie to me. It's taking that to a new level when I specifically ask about exactly what the person is lieing about and they lie again, because I can usually figure it out.

Thanks for any input. Last night I couldnt decide if i wanted to break shit or go die in a hole.

 

"Hotel, Motel Holiday Inn"
"If ya girl starts actin' up, then you take her friend"

Nothing burns girls up more.

 

Her only friend I talk to on a regular basis is somewhat annoying, but I might have to consider that.

 

Go to the coffee shop, and bust her ass for being a lying sack o' shit...but whatever you do DON'T leave soon after...make her uncomfortable, and make her leave.

 

I like that, except since im driving both of us, I can make her uncomfortable as long as i want

 

a) say fuck it and never see or speak to her again

 

yea i was thinking a) too at first, but now im liking the idea of revenge more and more. i guess because i have nothing better to do, i mean i already took off work.

 

dude don't worry about it....it happens to the best of us. the worst thing you can do is even let her think you care

the hardest thing to do for you is try to move on and never look back. Ive been in a similar situation were this chick was trying to make me jealous and what hurt her the worst is I didnt care and moved on fast....and I know she was pissed cause her best friend told me.

the more you try to clean things up the more you look like a jealous fcuk and no matter what you do is looked badly. move on and get a hotter chick and show up to the same club pimping you're new chick and that should settle all squabbles

 

first two parts sound good, cant really get into a club yet though, not too many hotter chicks either. definately not looking to be just friends though.

 

 

if she's disrespectful enough to lie to your face, then she doesn't deserve you. plain and simple.

 

One to grow on, man.

 

it would be classless to do anything but move on and avoid speaking to her again

 

She doesnt know that I know about the other guy. Damn this turned into such a soap. I think im going to take her out as planned and leave her feeling guilty just before I drop her off. She has a few things of mine i need back or else I would say fuck it altogether.

 

fuck her friend. really good. itll get back to her.

 

Sounds like a break up to me. Sorry man. you know better about this situation but I have been burned twice around trying to be friends after the "lets be friends" line. Don't go there and don't fault yourself. You're young and you'll move on. Good luck. I'd pass on the girl friend . I've been down the "revenge" road and it ended up working out but it was a total right turn from what I expected. I ended up with a friend of a friend of a friend. The hate f@ck never happened.

 

Tell her you got some crap to do with your mom and you'll be a little late to the coffee thing and tell her to meet you there but don't show up.....then find that annoying girl, suck it up and get with her even if it's only for a little bit.

But NEVER convey the attitude that you care or are pissed...just treat it like normal.

 

however, make sure her friend is worth it.. i mean if she is really annoying, AND looks like mike tyson, then it would look liek you were trying to ahrd

 

Ah Rachael...just a vengeful soul like me...

 

thanks everyone, didnt get a definitive answer, seems like half of you and my friends likes the revenge and the other half the forget. i'll update on friday night.

 

Option a) is the best one. Forget that coffee house too. Don't even call her up to cancel, just don't pick her up and do something fun that night. This girl has to learn that games are stupid and if you show her that you don't care what she does, she'll be more angry than a confrontation from you. Think about it, she wants to piss you off so why give her the satisfaction?

 

Yea, i think i mentioned before, she has a few of my belongings i need to get back or i would simply stand her up and never see her again. The crazy skank still thinks i have no idea about the other guy and tells me she loves me even though she dumped me and i said not to mess with my head like that. Fackin beetch.

 

After you get your shit back, tell her you found out about the other guy. just say something like "well, thanks for lying to me, and dumping me for that other guy. I figured you would at least have enough class to tell me the truth, but i guess not." and walk away, leave it like that, she ll feel like shit.

oh and dont mess with the other girl to get back at her. then u're on the same level. You say you hate mind games, but then you 'd be messing with this girls mind just to get back at the chick that dumped you.

 

Yeah thats not really fair to her friend either......I think Katana has a good idea although REVENGE IS SWEET.

 

Get your stuff back quickly and move on. Life's not good moving in reverse you know.

 

Her friends are as deceiving and manipulative as she is it appears. Im gonna get my stuff and move on, but im not missing the bands at the coffee house to avoid her, so im staying the whole time. Then im not going to be an ass and still take her home, but that is that.

 

Don't take her home and ask her how it feels to be lied to....

 

nothing would feel better than being the first dude to rip open her young High school asshole, cumming in there and having that shit drip down her leg while you kick her out without clothes on.....on top of it, don't forget to get it on video.

 

Well heres how it went

I picked her up late, only by about 10 minutes though. We went to the coffee house and had a great time, she was all over me but I kept pushing her away and stuff. In the car I asked about the new guy, she denied liking him, thereby lying to me again, then said nothing the rest of the way home. She got out of the car, thanked me for taking her out, and i backed out before she was in the house. I hope i feel better about this tomorrow.

 

By saying you backed out before she got in her house im guessing you normally wait for her to get in her house.

If so, that's key...good move. She's gotta know youre not gonna put up with her shit, unless she's dumb as bricks.

 

Yea, I used to go in with her for a few minutes every time.

Im kind of mad that she lied about the other guy all the way to the end, but I guess thats all the more reason for me to be glad Im not with her.

 

did you get all your stuff back?

 

Yea man, at least everything i considered still mine and not gifts.

 

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