I have this friend who has been married to this girl for like 8 years. They beat the crap out of each other constantly (he has been stabbed by her, she has been sent to the hospital with head trauma by him). The cops have their address in their rolodex. They're that popular with the authorities!!! He sleeps around with other women, and she does the same thing (but men of course). She got pregnant (not by him mind you!!), but he still managed to agreed to raise the baby as his. I just don't get it!!! Even if it was for the sex, there is too much crap to deal with.

 

That's fucked up, but, the heart and the mind do not often agree.

 

Your friend is awesome.

 

ummm so what exactly do you expect us to say ?
I mean if you're why they don't just fxcking divorce I have no idea what else to say except some stupid crap

Maybe you can tell us WHY you think they still hang onto each other

 

Must be a Tennessee thing!

 

Great environment for the kids to grow up in.....

 

was this thread just an excuse to use the smileys?

 

I don't know why they still hang on to each other but not everybody think alike I guess.

I don't understand what you're saying!

It's a thread about sharing horrible relationship stories I guess. I am not looking to get advise for my friend.

 

Some people just dont know when to be honest with others and most importantly, themselves.

 

what a moron...

 

Not exactly a bright scenario going on there.

 

shoot your friend and his girl, and adopt the kid, raise em correctly

 

The worse I been in was with a needy clinging girl who was probably a reject from fatal attraction, but seem some fuck up one. Had a friend who girl shot him dead after he broke up with her. She wanted to make up, invited him over, had sex, then shot him in his sleep. Call the cop and say he came over and rape her. She got away clean on that one.

 

^^ Not questioning you, just wondering...how do you know what happend?

 

He was moving from MA to his mother home In NY after the breakup and I was one of the people that helped him moved and hang with him in his last days. The girl call him back to try and make up. A few friends were by his side when he die, he was shot in the head with a 22 so I was told it took a few hour for him to die. I drove his mother up from NYC to pick up his body But I wasn't there when it happen, I wasn't told he was shot by his girl until the funeral, and the story of what she say. I just know the b*tch was lying. It was the talk of the community for awhile.

 

Ah I see. Sorry about your friend...

 

the only person in this senario that I feel sorry for is the kid... he/she's gonna (most likely) have a fvck up, up-bringing...

 

So nobody sent anyone to kill this bitch? Thats the only logical thing to do. Shit.

 

Why exactly is this guy your friend? Who the hell is friends with people like that? Is his trailer right next to yours or something?

 

Sorry but just doesn't sound real. She shot him in his sleep? She got away with it?

Am sure it is the story you heard but those facts sure don't add up to someone getting away clean

 

He moved his trailer from Maryland. He told me he was your neighbor over there.

Actually, the real friendship is with his parents and they are extremely normal middle class people. Just one of those evil sperms that got to the promised land before the others I guess.

 

i have always wondered what kind of people get onto this show called Jerry Springer

 

My thoughts exactly.

 

no matter who is telling the truth, that's FUCKED UP.

 

I agree. Possibly I have watched to much Law and Order: CI to believe something like that. There has to be more to the story.

 

To many holes in the story, first of all who rapes someone(namely their ex gf) and then falls asleep there? Secondly a shot from a .22 very easily can be instant and fatal, I had a friend who was "accidentally" shot in the head by a .22 and was dead instantly. The only way a .22 shot to the head, that didn't kill someone instantly and was still fatal, they probably died of blood loss, other wise they would be in a coma. Dying from blood loss would be very apparent during an autopsy and an alarm bell would go off that she didn't shoot him in self defense. Maybe I put to much faith in our police, but I don't think an ex-gf could get away with that sort of BS with out covering her tracks much better. They would have checked both of there call logs and see who called who, just too many holes for me to believe - sorry.

 

There was an investigation, but no charge were brought. My friend is also not what you call a model citzen, so personally we all just felt the police didn't care. Like I say, the girl wanted to make up, what happen later will be known between them, but one is dead. I just know how he was and what happen to him is well known where we lived and where it happen, so it isn't like it a big secret. I know many people that got shoot numerous times and survive while other would die from what is consider flesh wound, depend on how the body takes it I guess. I have a friend that has 2 bullet in in his neck and lived, only thing you see is two lump there. And another that took one in the face but lived as well, but brain damaged.
But I don't know for other,but to me this thing is not uncommon, seen it for years. I seen some really mess up relationship. Nothing would really shock me over what some people would do to other. Reason I am cautious about relationship. Depend on who you hang with and where you at also. It made me and other around here smarter in who we mess with but it desensitize us as well. Sick relationship, I could recall at least half a dozen more just as bad or worse. Ok, I should stop rambling before I give away my life story. I am just glad I am one of those that "got out."

 

For 3 years in highschool i went out with a girl that lived next door. When we started going out i was in 10th grade and she was in 9th. We had a great first year, then i cheated on her and then she cheated on me to get back at me. we broke up but then started going out shortly after and neither one of had any trust. We tried for 2 more years then i graduated and on my graduation night my parents left for Puerto Rico right after i walked accross the stage. I Went home with my girlfriend we had sex she left and all my friends were still at the house i then had sex again with another girl.The next day i told my exgirlfriend what had happened. we broke up. But for the two years it was horriable fighting i have actual marks and scares from the girl i use to go out with caues she would hit me with different blunt objects, and i could never hit her caues in my eyes thats just wrong, but we had the police involved in a few of our fights. Now i am very happy with the girl i am with now we have been together for a little under 1 and half years, i never thought i would meet anyone else after my first love and now when i look back on it i never really loved that girl it was more of a lust thing in my eyes.

 

Next on Springer. . .

 

My first wife was a wack job. Only thing good that ever came from her was my daughter.