My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 3 months ago and just recently started calling me again. I hadnt called her in maybe a month or longer and last week she called me a couple times to see if I wanted to do something. We ended up going to see Man on fire on Saturday night. She called me on sunday again and we went out to dinner. She got real dressed up: jewelry, nice clothing, etc. Now she doesnt usually wear jewerly, especially earings because they hurt her ears. We didnt go anywhere fancy, so it was out of place. Afterwards, I went home and she did the same. She called me again today wanting to do something like go out to a club or bar. Should I do something with her and try to hit it and run or just let it be? Any others run into a situation like this?

 

How long were y'all together? What were the circumstances of the breakup? Background needed.

 

let it be man. if you enjoy spending time with her just leave it at that.


Don't put too much thought into it. Just make sure she knows that you are busy and don't have the time for her always.

She broke up with you right? don't make yourself seem as if you're just waiting for her to come back into your life.

 

Almost 7 months, we were pretty serious. She broke up with me about 3 months ago. Told me she didnt feel the same and didnt want a relationship right now, blah blah. She wanted to be single and have fun with her friends. We ended on good terms, but I havent called or spoke with her much over the last 3 months.

 

hit that shit, and when ur done slap her and tell her go get out

 

 

Was Man On Fire good?

 

^^ the mans asking for advice, and you wanna know how the movie was

 

How many dudes did she bang since y'all broke up? You know when your girl needs "space", it means she's getting cock elsewhere. If I were you, I'd kick that shit to the curb and get some respectable girl who doesn't jet on you every time she wants new cock.

 

Wrap it, Hit it, then shove her out the door, i have never had a girl let me go, but i think that's right about what i'd do. Don't get attached, anger fuck it. You're gonna feel guilty afterwards so go meet your friends at the bar!

 

that's stupid

if he's just trying to have a good time, how many guys she's been with since then doesn't really matter - she could have just as easily been too scared for a relationship and not have fucked anyone

 

have a good time with her man

 

 

Wow....bring out your dead...

 

EXACTLY.


Space/Time to find myself/ etc etc lines like that means shes out gettin' her's.

 

i'm with batin dean on this one

 

 

IMO Relationships can be a double standard if it were the man wanting to come back around the woman would take him back in heartbeat no questions asked women are just like that they have little bit more compassion, tend to be more forgiving and if they really love their man they are little more willing to having their man back in their life.
However, men tend to do one of two things...either take their sweet time realizing what it is that they had, and then want her back when it's too late..or play the game to see how long she'll stick around and wait for him to make up his mind and string her along, while getting some on the side :bananahump: My point is if you care about her, and you do love her give it another shot. Start off slow and see where it evolves you never know what can happen, and you will never know unless you try. Are you really ready to take the chance to realize a month, three months or a year from nowt that you lost her for good??? People are only human we make mistakes life is to short to hold that against someone that loves you, love is forgiving so what do you have to loose? That is my

 

FUCK HER GET SOME BALLS AN GET A NEW BITCH SHE LEFT FOR A REASON IF YOU LET HER BACK IN SHE WONT RESPECT AND YOU'LL BE BACK IN SAME BOAT. Bust a nutt on her face then leave and never call da bitch back.

Pimpin ain't easy but its better than being the bitch

 

you could lose the love of your life trying to regain old feelings. time is money.

 

 

 

lmao at minch's post

 

Twice now.

 

Almost in the same situation but my gf was of 3 1/2 years. Recently she broke up with me cause poeple were talking shit, saying i cheated and i was no good...yadda yadda yadda....So we kinda ended on bad terms. 1 1/2 months later she calls me outta the blue saying she wants to hang out and be friends. Difference that we may have is that I know she didn't go get "hooked up" any where else cause she is the respectable girl and has her head on straight in life. ( I know that you never really "know" but we both love each other more than anything) So we hang out and still are (going on 1 1/2 months). We're taking it slow and just lettin everything happen instead of trying to make it happen. See my situation has alot more background (3 1/2 yrs.) so it may be different. Basically its up to you and your feelings for this girl. You tell us whats going on, but we could never "feel" whats going on , and thats what matters more than anything. If this girl is worth the extra effort on your part, then go for it...you choose who you want in your life. Enough preaching from me, its your life, and if you really love this girl and know she will give the same love in return then take your time.....

 

I hate it when the ex picks up the horn and calls you for no reason. Or writes an email and *someone* finds it.

 

so what happened??

 

 

same shit happened to me expect she broke up with me the day befor our 4 anivers. saying she dosent want to be in a relationship and all of that bull shit. 3 weeks later she is dating some other fuck. the only way i found out is because im still her friends with her brother and he told me the deal. i hope that bitch come cralling back one day so i can striaght drop her on her face. haha im sure there was another guy so leave it alone or fuck with her head. that what i would do. all girls are are mind games. its like chess my pawn just put her queen in check. hahahaha

 

This thread was really brought up from the dead. I havent talked to her in about 2 months. I don't really need the frustration and she isnt worth it. I actually saw her last night when we went out with a bunch of coworkers to a local bar. I didn't say anything to her left her out of the group of guys I was with.