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Old Jun 29, 2006 | 10:44 PM
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How young is too young?

Say what you will, but I can't get over how hot some way too young girls are...I'm only 19, but some of my friends' younger sisters just make you go wow...

"The best thing about high school girls is I keep getting older and they stay the same age."

So...what is too young?
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Old Jun 29, 2006 | 10:49 PM
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Whatever will get your arrested is too young. If your friends have siblings between them and said younger sisters, you are definitely crossing the line. But if you can't resist, go for it. I'm sure the boys in the pen would love to meet you.
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Old Jun 29, 2006 | 11:05 PM
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You're 19. As soon as they are 18, hit it.
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Old Jun 29, 2006 | 11:18 PM
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Well, speaking biologically, I'd say anyone that is sexually mature is normal to be attracted to. Most females reach sexual maturity between 15 and 16. Pedophilia is defined as attraction to pre-pubsescents. But the fact of the matter is, if you are over 18, and they are under 18, legally
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Old Jun 29, 2006 | 11:20 PM
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Actually the age of consent in NJ is 16...
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Old Jun 29, 2006 | 11:26 PM
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Originally Posted by Oh Anna Oh
Actually the age of consent in NJ is 16...
If a 19 year old has sex with a 16 year old, and the parents decide to do something about it....they could probably get him on something.

Personally, I would not even consider doing anything remotely risky. A lifetime of a sex offender registry = not fun.
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Old Jun 29, 2006 | 11:28 PM
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I completely agree with you, I was just stating that he can't be charged with statutory rape if he did do something with a girl that 's at least 16.
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Old Jun 29, 2006 | 11:32 PM
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I completely agree with you, I was just stating that he can't be charged with statutory rape if he did do something with a girl that 's at least 16.
Indeed.
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Old Jun 29, 2006 | 11:36 PM
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Oh and for the record, if I had dated my brother's friends and/or slept with any of them- my brother would have beat the shit out of them regardless of the age of consent. Just something to think about.
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Old Jun 29, 2006 | 11:36 PM
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legal > non legal


simple enough?
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Old Jun 29, 2006 | 11:59 PM
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damn you for tempting me with a topic like this.

'too young' to me is more a matter of maturity (both yours and hers) than age. if she is mature enough to understand the actions and repercussions, then she is 'old' enough. if she is 25 and still doesn't know enough to insist on a condom every time, then she is not "old" (read: mature) enough for me.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 12:01 AM
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From a physical aspect once they reach that level of maturaty I would agree that an attraction would be normal. HOWEVER, too young both has to do with legality and the state of mind of "kids." Frankly, If I was 19 their are plenty of other hot chicks in that age group I would rather chase. Regardless of how "ready" they may claim to be, a 16 year old really has no business with someone any more than 5 years older than them, even that is pushing it.

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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 12:05 AM
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Originally Posted by Ol Blue Eyes
legal > non legal


simple enough?
OBE, once again FTW!
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 12:06 AM
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the golden rule: half your age + 7


so at 19............19/2 = 9.5, 9.5 + 7 = 16.5 is the youngest (i forget if you're supposed to round up or down)
but you might want to take that whole legal thing into consideration........or not
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 12:33 AM
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unfortunatley due to the law 18 and under.

But i know what you mean with these high school sluts, makes me wish i could just go tot a third world country and bang some young poon.

Yes I am a sick pervert, no need to bash me, for I am fully aware.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 12:35 AM
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Originally Posted by Titand19
unfortunatley due to the law 18 and under.

But i know what you mean with these high school sluts, makes me wish i could just go tot a third world country and bang some young poon.

Yes I am a sick pervert, no need to bash me, for I am fully aware.


FYI: American laws regarding age of consent still apply to American citizens abroad.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 12:37 AM
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The best advice given to me when I was 16 was to sleep with as many girls as possible because I was going to look back and always wish there were more. I didnt think it was a big fucking deal until I turned 18 then a huge door was closed and realized that most older people know what they are saying when it comes to being young and being around girls. And with that door being closed, I agree with OBE.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 03:51 AM
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I like the golden rule but another thing is if you are in college, no going backwards. I was dating a chick my senior year who was 2 years younger then me so she was a sophomore and I got nothing but slack for it when I went to college dating a Junior . Did it stop me? nope cause she was hawt! But she really showed her age at times which sucked ass.

So how old is this chick? 12? 10?
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 06:46 AM
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personally I like for them to be in college for at least a couple years. the age gap between my ex and me was almost 2.5 years(she was 22 and i'm 24) . the age gap between my new girl is 21 and i'm 24 . the youngest i'd go is probably go 19.

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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 06:58 AM
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Golden Rule: 17'll get you 20.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 07:02 AM
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18+ is fair game if you are 18+, otherwise just stay away. Personally, i wont go for women more than 1 year younger than me, and i usually like women my age or older.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 08:07 AM
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Originally Posted by Osamu
the golden rule: half your age + 7


so at 19............19/2 = 9.5, 9.5 + 7 = 16.5 is the youngest (i forget if you're supposed to round up or down)
but you might want to take that whole legal thing into consideration........or not
round up to be safer. Safest, of course, would be to follow whatever the prevailing statutory rape law is in your state.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 08:10 AM
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I try to never mess with women younger than me.....that will probly change when I get old
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 08:10 AM
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I say since youre 19 make sure she is 17 , 16 will get you 2 yrs.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 08:16 AM
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Under 16. That's only 3 years, but when your 19 it doesn't matter. Once you get over 21 then there's a bigger difference.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 08:35 AM
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How young is too young?

I go by this saying....

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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 08:39 AM
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For me...just a romp in the sack, 18. For dating, 22-23, must be a college graduate.

For you, 16 isn't too young, even though it may be illegal. I used to date a 16 year old when I was 19. Although, she did lie to me about her age. hmmmm...
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 08:41 AM
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19yrs old LOL..
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 08:50 AM
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I go by this saying....


i'm not as clean...

"Old 'nuff to bleed, old'nuff to breed"
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 08:51 AM
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Originally Posted by phipark
For me...just a romp in the sack, 18. For dating, 22-23, must be a college graduate.

For you, 16 isn't too young, even though it may be illegal. I used to date a 16 year old when I was 19. Although, she did lie to me about her age. hmmmm...
i don't think ignorance is a sound defense.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 08:54 AM
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Originally Posted by Titand19
... makes me wish i could just go tot a third world country and bang some young poon...
I just checked out this website that tabulates the age of consent worldwide http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm:


Canada, Philippines, Mexico, Panama, Uraguay, Zimbabwe -12 yrs (males) , 15-18 yrs (females)
Spain, Nigeria, South Korea, Burkina Faso - 13 yrs. (both gender)
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 09:02 AM
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Originally Posted by CUNextTuesday

"The best thing about high school girls is I keep getting older and they stay the same age."


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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 09:05 AM
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Originally Posted by mrdeeno
i'm not as clean...

"Old 'nuff to bleed, old'nuff to breed"
"Old enough to crawl, she's assuming the position."
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 09:53 AM
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My friend's lil sister had a buch of friends over last night while we were drinkin before goin out to the bar...they're all about 16-17, so not so bad.

My other buddy's sis is like 15, but I'd never go for that - wrong on many levels.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 10:37 AM
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Originally Posted by gary_william
damn you for tempting me with a topic like this.

'too young' to me is more a matter of maturity (both yours and hers) than age. if she is mature enough to understand the actions and repercussions, then she is 'old' enough. if she is 25 and still doesn't know enough to insist on a condom every time, then she is not "old" (read: mature) enough for me.
In your case her insistance has less to do with maturity and more to do with self preservation.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 10:59 AM
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 11:12 AM
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i was watching TV with my little cousins, and they were watching that show on Nickelodean that had Britney Spear's sister in it.

I'm like, "How old is she?" and my cousins are like, "14."

I'm like, "JEEZ, I gotta stop watching these kids shows!" (while thinking to myself, "I gotta watch more of these kids shows!"
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 11:39 AM
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This is really two different questions, but a lot of people mix them up.

Q1. How young is too young to date/have sex with?
Q2. How young is too young to "appreciate" witout being a pedo?

Q1 has a lot more to do with the guy's age and the mental maturity of the girl. Most would agree that she should be at least 18. Q2 has more to do with when a girl physically matures. I don't know what Britney's sister looks like, but if she has boobs and curves and generally a woman's body, I don't see why there's a big problem with appreciating what you see (especially if it's on TV - might be a bit creepy to stare at a young girl in the mall or something). If you think a flat 11 year old his hot, you've got SERIOUS issues. Guys that have sex with 16 or 17 year olds have big time judgement problems, but it's stupid to call them a pedophile.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 11:52 AM
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Being 25, youngest I would go is 19, prefer no younger than 20 though.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted by cTLgo
Being 25, youngest I would go is 19, prefer no younger than 20 though.
You wouldn't have a problem dating someone that couldn't go to a bar with you and your friends? I know I couldn't.
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