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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 02:22 AM
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What went wrong...

So you get into a fight with your girlfriend, she hangs up on you then texts you saying talk to me when you stop being a dick. You wait 2 days for things to cool off and think about things. You try to initiate a conversation online by saying hi and she doesnt respond, then you say, "well I guess your not talking to me" to which she replies, "no im not", "bye", ''i'm still not ready to talk to you and the fact that i took you 2 days to talk to me, says a lot." Then puts up an away message, to which you respond, "You sign off on me, then text me telling me to talk to you when I stop being a dick and expect me to just talk to you right away like nothing happened? I just wanted to wait till things cooled down a bit but I guess your still not ready. I guess thats how its going to be, just blame me for everything. " She signs off
Analyze and discuss please.
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 03:19 AM
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The world doesnt revolve around her ass, kinda weak that she cant take a 2 day breather to keep the heat from blowing in your faces.
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 06:29 AM
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Just say fuck her, she will get really antsy if you just shrug it off and may even apologize to YOU LOL
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 08:14 AM
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how old are you and your gf?
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 08:22 AM
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sounds like you need to move on
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 08:36 AM
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Originally Posted by SG81
how old are you and your gf?
This was the first question that came to mind.

Sounds to me like maybe you need to talk face to face. This online crap is great, but not for resolving conflicts. Just my
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 08:41 AM
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If I remmber correctly you're in the LDR while you're at school in AZ and she is in Wisconsin. So that'd put these two around 20 y/o.
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 08:47 AM
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Originally Posted by anothercls
If I remmber correctly you're in the LDR while you're at school in AZ and she is in Wisconsin. So that'd put these two around 20 y/o.
From his post, I would say 16. Maybe they go to two different high schools.
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 08:56 AM
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Originally Posted by phipark
From his post, I would say 16. Maybe they go to two different high schools.

https://acurazine.com/forums/dating-relationships-14/long-distance-317866/

This also gives a little bit of background into the relationship.
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 09:25 AM
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unless she's a supermodel I say fuck her, she sounds like a little kid arguing about some bs. AZ has all the hot bishes.
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 09:29 AM
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Move along nothing to see ...

Hopefully, you are going to be getting tail all of your life, so drop this one and move along.

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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 10:11 AM
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I have learned, that you can't stress girls too much. You can never explain them, so don't bother trying. They are crazy, they say one thing but want another. Kick her to the curb, there is always, and I mean ALWAYS better out there.
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 10:12 AM
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Im 22 and shes 20, the fight actually started cause I broke up with her when I went home for the weekend. The next day I, being the idiot that I am was in Madison for the Michigan game and being the drunk bastard that college football days seem to make me decieded to see what she was doing and call her. I wanted to see her one more time she was still upset about the day before and didnt want to see me, shes crying and making me feel like shit and Im like WTF I thought you were the one who wanted to go on a Break and see eachother when we are in town and well guess what im in town. Yuup I can admit part of it was my fault but hey, lets be grown up about this and atleast get in a break up fuck before we move on( I didnt say this but was kinda what I was thinking.) The relationship is pretty much over for now, I just have trouble calling her my ex and would still like to be on a friendly basis with her as she was one of my good friends before we started dating.
p.s. She apologized this morning and said she would call me later. lets see what she has to say.
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 10:34 PM
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make her be the bad guy. and then make her "pay" and "apologize" angry sex.
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Old Sep 28, 2005 | 10:41 PM
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Honestly, if you're in a relationship where you are getting in fights that require you to wait 2 days before even starting an online conversation with her you need to move on. Trust me. It really isn't worth dealing with that kind of drama. Unless you just banged her younger sister/best friend there's nothing you should be fighting about that makes you need to stop talking for 2 days. Trust me. There's girls out there that won't surround you by drama and once you find one don't let her go.

Move on.
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Old Sep 29, 2005 | 12:58 AM
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Im moving on. Lets see whats around the corner. Hopefully a hotty that wont put me 2nd to everything else in her life.
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Old Sep 29, 2005 | 02:17 AM
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Don't hold your breath. In my experience women like your ex are selfish brats. Best you close that chapter in your life and move on.
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Old Sep 29, 2005 | 03:07 AM
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Originally Posted by FuriousGeorge83
Im moving on. Lets see whats around the corner. Hopefully a hotty that wont put me 2nd to everything else in her life.
you in AZ and you worrying about some random broad out here?

with the quality of chicks out here im glad you moved on. there are so many other fish in the sea home boyyyyyyyyyyy
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Old Sep 29, 2005 | 08:02 AM
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i once had a really selfish gf. even when we were breaking up i still wanted to be with her, for some strange reason. now i can't figure out why the hell i was with her in the first place. i now consider that relationship a waste of time. but, you live and learn.

now my current gf is the best thing to come into my life. trust me, just move on and you'll find someone better
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Old Sep 29, 2005 | 08:33 AM
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Originally Posted by FuriousGeorge83
Im moving on. Lets see whats around the corner. Hopefully a hotty that wont put me 2nd to everything else in her life.
that's how i feel most of the time with my b/f....sucks.
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Old Sep 29, 2005 | 08:39 AM
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Originally Posted by FuriousGeorge83
Im moving on. Lets see whats around the corner. Hopefully a hotty that wont put me 2nd to everything else in her life.
Well, that was easy.

Now Amoeba needs to take notes.
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Old Sep 29, 2005 | 08:42 AM
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You waited 2 days before trying to talk to her agian Anyone with any experience dealing with women knows thats a big mistake.

And what ever happened to the phone, do people still use the damn thing.
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Old Sep 29, 2005 | 06:15 PM
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This is why I have an emotional attachment to my car and not people.
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