So Im having trouble with a long distance relationship. I started going out with a girl that I worked with about half way through the summer and everything was great. We get along great and all but now that we are both back in school, it just seems way too stressfull to try and stay together. It wasnt as bad when I came out here and she was still on break but now that shes back in school too (in madison #1 party school) it seems like its gonna be really hard. I think we talk way too much. I've talked to her everyday for the last 2 weeks for atleast an hour everyday and our conversations are becoming pretty boring. I dunno how to tell her that I dont wanna talk so often without her getting angry at me. Any suggestions on how to deal with long distance relationships and on the over talking thing? I dont wanna break up with her cause shes way cool but I dunno. Any help or suggestions are welcome.

 

Dont be a fucking pussy. Just break up with her now...Like you said...the conversations are getting boring...so pretty soon you'll eventually break up. All the scattered ass around campus and you want a fucking g\f...I dont understand the urge...I guess that was reason why I ended up the way I am.

Like I've mentioned in previous threads...When you're young

Sex > Relationships.

 

LOng Distance relationships are very hard , if you are having issues already I think it is better to brake up with her . Unless you really love her . Being bored on the phone is normal It happens to me all the time .

 

How old are you?
This is what's going to happen and just deal with it.

-She's going to be away and you guys are gonna talk and it's gonna suck.
-She's gonna fuck a bunch of other dudes confess her love for you but it won't work.
-When she comes home you will pretend that everything is ok, but the underlying thought of her blowing some other dude will piss you off.
-basically you will just fuck her while she is home and have a completely fake relationship.

Like Xen said
Don't be a pussy break up now. Fuck other ho's. Fuck her while she's home and do NOT tell her about the other bitches. This will make her feel like a slut and be your concubine.

oh yeah if you're fucking her without a rubber now, you should start using one.

 

LD relations are for losers and solders overseas. So if you aren't a soldier overseas, you suck.

 

haha ok Im going with Titand19's suggestion cause thats pretty much exactly what I was thinking.

 

Oh the advice the people give in these types of threads...

Long distance relationships are not for everyone. It takes a particular type of personality to sustain a long distance relationship and it sounds to me like you are not of that type of personality. It also sounds to me like your relationship has become boring and stagnant, which usually is an indication that you should probably end this particular relationship.

Honestly, if you don't see this relationship working out, you might as well end it now. No point dragging on something that is just going to result in more discomfort for you and the other person.

 

What type or personality is that ??

 

It's this simple, if you see yourself w/ this girl 10 years from now, try to work out the relationship. If you don't, get out.

 

I Know I should just break up with her but still wanna "see her" when I get back and/but it would kill me to know that shes sucking/fucking some other dude. I actually just got off the phone with her and well lets just say I dont think things are gonna last too much longer. She pretty much left it up to me to carry the conversation and then was like ok well nice talking to you. I was like what? and she replies well if your not gonna talk... What kind of bullshit is that? Kinda sucks cause I really thought she was way cool and that we got along pretty well.

 

I hate dudes that say that.

Why ?....Is this bitch the hottest chick you've ever hooked up with. Some of you guys make me think you're gonna marry the first chick who lets you fuck her. Get over it, there are more bitches out there.

 

You tell'em Xena!

 

 

Its eaiser to hook up with an ex than to look for new pussy. Especially when Im only gonna be in town for a week or two.

 

I abide by the ex doesnt exist rule...so I wouldnt know. Sounds like you need to step up the game.

 

If you're gonna keep her around make sure you use the rubber and make sure there are monetary benefits. But like Xen has stated, once an ex, always an ex.

 

If you cant carry a conversation with her anymore then i think the relationship is over.


What does that have to do with being far apart though?

 

Its not that I cant carry a conversation with her, its just hard to talk to someone, anyone everyday for hours. anyway, we've been limiting our convos to about 10 mins-15 mins and its been alot easier. We get along absolutly great when we are together and spent alot of time together during the summer and its just tough cause we've only been goin out a month before I had to leave for school.

 

I guess I should have mentioned that we went to the same hs(didnt know her then), worked together, and became pretty good friends before we started dating so it would be kinda hard to do the your dead to me schtick.

 

Sounds to me like you're just making excuses now. If you don't want to talk to somebody you don't, plain and simple, none of this "but we have a history" bs.