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Old Jun 10, 2010 | 03:45 PM
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So she loses interest when you start being nice.. sounds like you need to be ass to tap that ass. What's the problem? btw.. biggest douche move you can make will be to PM us nudes. I'm Paypal Verified as well.
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Old Jun 10, 2010 | 03:46 PM
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Banging her isn't the problem, just the on/off-ness of it all. Every girl I'm not interested in staying with more then a day, wants to get married but the ones that I actually like, just want to have fun. Current girl (pic) I treated terrible in the past and she wanted me, left her for another girl a few years ago, she asks me out recently, have great time, I actually am nice, she doesn't seem to want me.

Back to hanging and banging
in another thread in d&r i made reference to a girl in high school i told "i loved me too" when she said i love you to me. we had hooked up, but i wasnt really attracted to her too much so i kind of just let it fizzle out and then i had another relationship for a few yrs. after that ended i ended up really getting my appearance up lost a lot of weight and really looked more appealing than ever (i guess). she saw me at community college yrs later and texted me out of the blue basically telling me how good i look and all of that. basically wanting me. we ended up hooking up once, and then she was real distant after that.

girls dont forget that shit. consider it payback. take the sex for what it is and move on. you probably are like me in the sense where i used to find interest in the least desirable girls to date just because you like the challenge of getting them to love you or just only wanna be with you and nobody else.

but you are probably really impatient like me and take it as disrespect and bitchiness when they act like themselves and realize quickly you really dont want to play the chasing game and are left scratching your head.

You will meet someone equally crazy about you as you are to them, and it is when you least expect it.

My current gf (well ex atm) came into my life at a time i was looking to "dip in some strange" and nothing more if you know what i mean. But we fell hard for each other right away, and it was equal, there were no games what so ever. I love her for that, because it made me realize all i ever wanted was someone who wanted me as much as i wanted them without having to hide behind childish games.

as corny as it sounds, save your heart for the girl who isn't afraid to put her cards on the table, it really shows maturity, and she is probably a keeper if she is willing to put her guard down for you. until then, have fun.

sorry i probably rambled a lot haha
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Old Jun 11, 2010 | 11:25 AM
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Originally Posted by 1StGenCL
Banging her isn't the problem, just the on/off-ness of it all. Every girl I'm not interested in staying with more then a day, wants to get married but the ones that I actually like, just want to have fun. Current girl (pic) I treated terrible in the past and she wanted me, left her for another girl a few years ago, she asks me out recently, have great time, I actually am nice, she doesn't seem to want me.

Back to hanging and banging
that;s the mentality.. why force urself? why are u in a rush? may be mr.nice guy isn't working for u with the girl u truly love..

just enjoy life and bang the hell out of them.. if u don't want her, u can pass her along to me. kthxbai!
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Old Jun 15, 2010 | 10:27 PM
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Winner, Winner, Chicken Dinner!

Since this thread is so fun and I feel the need to share my shitty dating life online, current girl while once all over me has been kinda ignoring me. After a few stand ups, I haven't been too quick to respond to her. Today she texts Hey and I say hi, she says something else, I don't answer, then she says look im not ignoring you, just lots going on, we talk a bit she tells me she's not ready to "settle down" I say ok, and then she says.....................I think I'm pregnant.
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Old Jun 16, 2010 | 12:30 AM
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shes not pregnant, she is seeking male attention since apparently all the other guys she is seeing have lost interest so she's seeking it from you, because you're the nice guy who will allow her to manipulate you a little more than anyone else will ( i dont mean that as an insult by the way, i know it can probably come off like a dick on the internet). she gives you just enough to keep you interested, but once she reels you back in she'll start ignoring all over again. Not your fault, but you played right into her hand by responding. nobody is so busy that they cant say hey sorry i cant talk right now, or hey sorry i was busy yesterday.

run man, run fast. shes an immature girl. nobody needs that crap.
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Old Jun 16, 2010 | 08:16 AM
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Como se dice?.... You're fucked holmes.

If it was me I'd push to keep the kid. She might be BS'ing you but from the likes of this chick, I don't think she is. Just because she's late doesn't mean she's pregnant. I've had gf's skip a cycle. If she's really concerned go buy an EPT kit for her.

Also.. don't tell me you didn't use a condom or trusted that she was on BC.

If you did use a condom, make sure you're the guy she should be telling she's pregnant instead of... it's over. Don't be an ass about it though. I hope everything works out.

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Old Jun 16, 2010 | 02:30 PM
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Two words: paternity test
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Old Jun 18, 2010 | 10:23 AM
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Two words: paternity test
My thoughts exactly. See, I must like the drama ha
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Old Jun 18, 2010 | 11:03 AM
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Old May 2, 2011 | 06:38 PM
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Updates??? i want more!!!!

The ultimate advise - Whoever cares less hold the power in a relationship. It doesn't matter if you want ur ex back or not. They are all the same.
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Old May 2, 2011 | 08:58 PM
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Year old? Since last update..??
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Old May 2, 2011 | 09:03 PM
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Old May 3, 2011 | 08:58 AM
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Hanging and bangin but not her and the girl was not preggo. I think I posted a pic or two of the "preggo" before, if not I can dig some up. Bitch be crazy
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Old May 3, 2011 | 09:06 AM
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nudez bro?
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Old May 5, 2011 | 06:58 AM
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aye fuck man, the first post is the same shit I went thru a couple weeks ago!!! She also lives in West Palm; those West Palm bitches are fucked up...
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Old May 11, 2011 | 08:01 PM
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Yes, they def are fucked up. noodezzzz eh...

Think I posted this one before but it's uploaded so...

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Old May 13, 2011 | 09:23 AM
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Old May 13, 2011 | 09:42 AM
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Not digging the face for some reason but that body is smoking.
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Old May 13, 2011 | 10:07 AM
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we want

stop holding out.
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Old May 13, 2011 | 11:05 AM
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Originally Posted by doopstr
Not digging the face for some reason but that body is smoking.
That would be the nose

Clear here, well assuming you notice she has a face and that nose (this one I think I posted before too)
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Old May 13, 2011 | 12:31 PM
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I would still hit it.
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Old May 13, 2011 | 02:05 PM
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I would still hit it.
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Old May 24, 2011 | 09:32 PM
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first of all stop drinking together its okay to have a few drinks but not enough to pass out be coherent this is your life we are talking about go into this clear headed and not on a buzz or whatever its called nowadays, and ask her straight up do you want to continue where we left off or do you want him, cause all I see happening is more drama and possibly a fight between you and that other dude like you always see on cheaters.

Be a man ask straight up, she might like you ever more that way since you are being strong.
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Old May 24, 2011 | 10:43 PM
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^we're on episode 40 now, not 37.
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Old May 25, 2011 | 08:24 AM
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Originally Posted by OperationDarkie
first of all stop drinking together its okay to have a few drinks but not enough to pass out be coherent this is your life we are talking about go into this clear headed and not on a buzz or whatever its called nowadays, and ask her straight up do you want to continue where we left off or do you want him, cause all I see happening is more drama and possibly a fight between you and that other dude like you always see on cheaters.

Be a man ask straight up, she might like you ever more that way since you are being strong.
Reading > you
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