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Old 02-13-2009, 03:57 PM
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Originally Posted by 97BlackAckCL
I freaking HATE hallmark day
Why do you hate it? I like it, you make the woman feel special and she shows her gratitude. Nothing wrong with that.
Old 02-13-2009, 04:56 PM
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Originally Posted by GIBSON6594
Why do you hate it? I like it, you make the woman feel special and she shows her gratitude. Nothing wrong with that.
dnt know about him.. but i dont like being FORCED to do nice shit for a girl especially when they know its coming. its better as a surprise for me
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Talking

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He's just not a romantic kinda guy, and that's okay. But he's my best friend, we do everything together, from car shows to shoe shopping, I love the guy, I'm not going to just leave him. I told him a few years ago that I'd rather he gave me 1 rose/month than a dozen roses on VDay, and, of course, it didn't work, but I tried. I know there are tons of guys and I haven't been the greatest girlfriend because of that, but I know, when the going gets tough, he's the guy I want by my side. I see him pretty much every day, we are together almost every holiday and I always learn new things because of him. I've become more patient, calm, and mature because of him, so I'm not going to leave him because he hasn't necessarily caught up with me on the age thing. I get hit on by older guys all the time and I figure it's because I have my life fairly mapped out, and by the time guys seem to be 32, they have it all mapped out, too. But he does know I'm not going to wait around forever. He's coming to the meet but I will totally kick your ass if you tell him I said anything bad about him on here hahaha
SB is in LOVE.
I read that like 3x.
Just the choice of words is what got me. "I'd rather he gave me 1 rose/month than a dozen roses on VDay"..." I've become more patient, calm, and mature because of him, so I'm not going to leave him"
HHH
Old 02-13-2009, 05:23 PM
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Originally Posted by JediMindTricks


you're supposed to wait after valentine's day to pick up a gf.

noob. :shakehead

I just realized there is sooo much to learn on this forum.
Old 02-13-2009, 05:56 PM
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Old 02-13-2009, 06:49 PM
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Only been dating this girl for about a month but we like each other so I figured why not. I work nights on the weekend so sometime in the afternoon we'll hit up one of her favorite retail stores (where I know an employee that will hook me up) and I'll tell her she can pick out any 3 things. Then maybe grab a bite to eat.
Old 02-13-2009, 08:13 PM
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Old 02-13-2009, 10:57 PM
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dinner in sac ;] hope all goes well
Old 02-13-2009, 11:16 PM
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Old 02-14-2009, 08:14 AM
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My girl and I mutually agreed that V-day is canceled this year.
Old 02-14-2009, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted by PimpCL23
dnt know about him.. but i dont like being FORCED to do nice shit for a girl especially when they know its coming. its better as a surprise for me
Do you buy her a birthday gift or a christmas gift (if you celebrate)?
Old 02-14-2009, 04:38 PM
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Originally Posted by a2ndragoon89
dinner in sac ;] hope all goes well
Where are you eating?
Old 02-14-2009, 04:38 PM
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Got stood up.
Old 02-14-2009, 05:42 PM
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going to a music festival in downtown LA w/ the new chick. pre-gaming w/ some champagne. then drunken/sloppy sex.
Old 02-14-2009, 08:11 PM
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Old 02-14-2009, 08:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Trackruner228
Got stood up.
Did you really??
Old 02-15-2009, 12:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Trackruner228
Got stood up.

That's sucks. Tell the bitch to go jump.
Old 02-15-2009, 12:21 PM
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Originally Posted by nbennettksu
Did you really??
Originally Posted by TS_eXpeed

That's sucks. Tell the bitch to go jump.
Thanks I had a good night anyway. At least I was able to add to the FML thread. Besides I saved the money I would have spent on dinner.
Old 02-15-2009, 05:00 PM
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Nothing like a good Valentine's Day meal, fucking and sucking to make the next couple of days off from work feel real swell!

My hats off to all those guys and gals who are also as priveleged as I am! I better not be alone in that dammit...
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steak, wine, sex, sleep
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I will get mine tomorrow....my man has been working all weekend (nights).
Old 02-15-2009, 05:47 PM
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Originally Posted by darksom1
Nothing like a good Valentine's Day meal, fucking and sucking to make the next couple of days off from work feel real swell!

My hats off to all those guys and gals who are also as priveleged as I am! I better not be alone in that dammit...


Nope not alone in that. I think Vday is retarded but i took her to a nice dinner got her a nice gift then it was my turn in the nice hotel room
Old 02-15-2009, 06:40 PM
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Originally Posted by RMATIC09
steak, wine, sex, sleep
Crazy wild sex, clams, steak, crab cake, salad, baked potato, crazy loud fucking argument about nothing , movie "Taken", then sleep...all in that fucking order!
Old 02-15-2009, 11:50 PM
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took close to a dozen jello shots with a buncha others unlucky enough to have no date on lover's day.

long story short, probably had as good a time as you folks
Old 02-16-2009, 10:46 AM
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Nice dinner/desert, gift (chocolates and snuggie), sleepover!(her mom was at boyfriends for long weekend).

Mike
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Originally Posted by darksom1
Crazy wild sex, clams, steak, crab cake, salad, baked potato, crazy loud fucking argument about nothing , movie "Taken", then sleep...all in that fucking order!
ouch to the argument....

nothing like good food though....
Old 02-16-2009, 11:48 AM
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mmm...

took her out to dinner @ the fanciest restaurant in town... where i had to dj for the night... while i played dinner music i just got a handjob for a good hour and a half. good quality time.

and.... then i got some buns
Old 02-16-2009, 11:54 AM
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Originally Posted by Acuraluvr
mmm...

took her out to dinner @ the fanciest restaurant in town... where i had to dj for the night... while i played dinner music i just got a handjob for a good hour and a half. good quality time.

and.... then i got some buns
I am going to assume you mean off and on over an hour and a half period...otherwise I don't believe you...
Old 02-16-2009, 12:03 PM
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Originally Posted by darksom1
I am going to assume you mean off and on over an hour and a half period...otherwise I don't believe you...
haha... quite off and on... but good nonetheless
Old 02-16-2009, 03:31 PM
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Had the worst V-day ever

Just got married 2 weeks ago, so our first V-day as husband/wife. I decided to treat to try an impress her by making dinner and dessert.

Fucked up the Apple Cobbler by over-cooking it

Fucked up the Ahi Tuna burgers by under-cooking them (she said 'the bread is tasty though')

During dinner, we watched 'Funny Games', which is the worst possible date move to watch

FML
Old 02-16-2009, 04:13 PM
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Originally Posted by bkknight369
Had the worst V-day ever

....(she said 'the bread is tasty though')
It sounds like your wife forgave you, and if that's the worst V-day ever, you're in pretty good shape. Congrats too!

Mine was unremarkable and inexpensive-- married to a down-to-earth woman for the last 14+ years-- so no complaints.
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umm dinner with shitty ass calimari, no wine/beer, a walk in the fucking cold, ice cream, movie, hug

but damm i still like the girl!
Old 02-16-2009, 05:25 PM
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Originally Posted by 05TL*6-SPEED*
umm dinner with shitty ass calimari, no wine/beer, a walk in the fucking cold, ice cream, movie, hug

but damm i still like the girl!
Like yourself more...
Old 02-16-2009, 10:39 PM
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Originally Posted by darksom1
Crazy wild sex, clams, steak, crab cake, salad, baked potato, crazy loud fucking argument about nothing , movie "Taken", then sleep...all in that fucking order!
wait, why are there more events AFTER the words 'crazy wild sex' ?
Old 02-16-2009, 11:21 PM
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Originally Posted by 03bl AC k CL
wait, why are there more events AFTER the words 'crazy wild sex' ?
Because I only put that there to let you know I scored on V-Day (twice actually)...dinner was later that nite before V-Day became Fight Night and we broke up! I was a gentleman though and didn't talk during the movie...neither did she... Hahahaha!
Old 02-17-2009, 09:47 AM
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took the gf to a nice steak dinner and went to a musical afterwards. she loved it and had fun, so it's all good.
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^What show did you go see?

I worked really late. I knew better than to try to make reservations anywhere, but I was hoping to come home and make a nice meal together with some wine and good music. I suck.
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legally blonde.

i thought it was better than expected. it was cheesy like the movie, but it had its moments. she loved it, and that's all that really mattered in the end, i suppose.
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Originally Posted by JediMindTricks
legally blonde.

i thought it was better than expected. it was cheesy like the movie, but it had its moments. she loved it, and that's all that really mattered in the end, i suppose.
You're sweet. A couple of our techs at work went to see that, and loved it.
Old 02-17-2009, 12:41 PM
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Hmm, let see..

I surprised my gf with a dozen tulips in the morning. I was going to cook breakfast, but she wanted to go on a trip. So, we decided to take an impromptu trip up to the mountains to see snow (those who don't have it love it, lol). I took her out for lunch and dinner, then we spent the night at a vacation house my parents own up there. It was pretty fun.


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