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Old May 13, 2009 | 03:27 PM
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Some lovemaking info

I wanted to add some positions to my arsenal and really spice things up. I was hoping for a good book/website to get some ideas. I get her off already but I really wanted to try new stuff and mix it up. So obvious stuff like missionary, doggy, etc is not necessary.

I was also interested if any of you guys tried "tools" such as cock rings or those liquids that KY has been coming out with lately. We tried the vibe ring when it first came out a few years ago and it was ok. I was thinking cock ring to last a little longer (does it really work) and was wondering if those liquids were BS.
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Old May 13, 2009 | 11:27 PM
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Go to Urban Outfitters and look for this book called 'Position of the Day' prepare to laugh your ass off.
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Old May 14, 2009 | 10:08 AM
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Ok but is it informative?
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Old May 14, 2009 | 03:07 PM
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After some searching wikipedia has some info on some positions. Anyone try the lateral one?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_sex_positions
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Old May 14, 2009 | 09:28 PM
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ky his and hers is great. its like super silky,great for foreplay and when u get to fuckin and they mix it turns into super-slippery.

see if shes into using a toy on herself while u do anal in the missionary position..(if ur into that kind of stuff).
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Old May 14, 2009 | 09:29 PM
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Ok but is it informative?
Of course it is!
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Old May 14, 2009 | 09:45 PM
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Astroglide > KY. KY tends to leave a gummy feeling as it dries.

I have nothing bad to say about cock rings; they definitely increase stamina.
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Old May 15, 2009 | 09:36 AM
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Like by a lot or did he just stretch out a few more minutes?
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Old May 15, 2009 | 10:10 AM
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Originally Posted by deltaboxxx
see if shes into using a toy on herself while u do anal in the missionary position..(if ur into that kind of stuff).
Instead of the missionary position try this with her lying on the edge of the bed while you're standing on the floor ..... it works so much better and the visual aspect is incredible.
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Old May 15, 2009 | 12:47 PM
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to add to my last post..the vibration pulses all the way through,and it feels good for you also.
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Old May 15, 2009 | 03:53 PM
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Originally Posted by bugeye
Astroglide > KY. KY tends to leave a gummy feeling as it dries.

I have nothing bad to say about cock rings; they definitely increase stamina.
I've used astroglide before, but it was silicone based, I'd much rather use something that is water-based and won't kill you to get in your mouth


a good position for getting deep is like doggy style, but yuo get on your feet instead of your knees, helps you get in there real good. Theres also a way to do this with the missionary position, very deep, you gotta be gentle or have a girl who likes it rough and deep for this to be effective.
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Old May 15, 2009 | 04:05 PM
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Originally Posted by bugeye
Astroglide > KY. KY tends to leave a gummy feeling as it dries.

I have nothing bad to say about cock rings; they definitely increase stamina.


+1 for Astroglide. Used KY for awhile, but it dries up and becomes sticky.
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Old May 15, 2009 | 05:57 PM
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ky his and hers dosent get sticky if she naturally gets wet on her own..it keeps it super silky. it feels good for u and her (tingly/hot/minty)
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Old May 15, 2009 | 06:15 PM
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I'm a fan of Wet Platinum, water based, and doesnt get sticky
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Old May 15, 2009 | 07:57 PM
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Originally Posted by Doom878
Like by a lot or did he just stretch out a few more minutes?
I'd say 10-15 minutes, which is better than nothing.

Originally Posted by Gnate
I've used astroglide before, but it was silicone based, I'd much rather use something that is water-based and won't kill you to get in your mouth
Good point. I made that mistake once.
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Old May 16, 2009 | 01:52 AM
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are u serious dude? just twist her around and try positions out... why the fuck would you need a book, and if you must have a book karma sutra duh......
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Old May 16, 2009 | 02:28 AM
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at above post. if your going to be a dick, at least spell shit right.

one of my personal fav's get her to lay flat on her stomach and arch her back so her ass sticks up a bit. kneel above her and hit it from a high angle.. this pounds most girls right were it counts and you get to pull her hair
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Old May 16, 2009 | 07:26 AM
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Originally Posted by Anhedonia
at above post. if your going to be a dick, at least spell shit right.

one of my personal fav's get her to lay flat on her stomach and arch her back so her ass sticks up a bit. kneel above her and hit it from a high angle.. this pounds most girls right were it counts and you get to pull her hair
Pillow under her hips works great for this too! And you want a wild ride? While holding her hair, bend down and whisper in her ear, "baby, this is the worst f** I've ever had " then Hold On!!!

Sorry, couldn't resist. No personal experience with that last part (whaddya think, I'm crazy??), it just reminded me of that joke.
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Old May 16, 2009 | 10:00 AM
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Originally Posted by Anhedonia
at above post. if your going to be a dick, at least spell shit right.

one of my personal fav's get her to lay flat on her stomach and arch her back so her ass sticks up a bit. kneel above her and hit it from a high angle.. this pounds most girls right were it counts and you get to pull her hair
you talking about BC2G's post? I didn't see any misspells
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Old May 16, 2009 | 03:26 PM
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Originally Posted by Shalooby
Pillow under her hips works great for this too! And you want a wild ride? While holding her hair, bend down and whisper in her ear, "baby, this is the worst f** I've ever had " then Hold On!!!
...i think you're supposed to tell her you've been f***ing her sister
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Old May 16, 2009 | 06:53 PM
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Originally Posted by Gnate
you talking about BC2G's post? I didn't see any misspells
It's Kama, not karma.
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Old May 16, 2009 | 09:04 PM
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Originally Posted by wndrlst
It's Kama, not karma.


and "you", not "u".
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Old May 17, 2009 | 02:46 AM
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Exactly.

I don't tell girls they suck, instead I tell them I've never met a girl who can ride well. seems to do the trick every time.
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Old May 17, 2009 | 09:55 AM
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positions are ok.. but can you make her squirt? huh? can you?
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Old May 17, 2009 | 12:20 PM
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All women can. Some more than others. There are certain places, points, etc that are pretty specific in order to get this to happen. Once it does they sort of resemble
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Old May 17, 2009 | 12:26 PM
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Originally Posted by Anhedonia
at above post. if your going to be a dick, at least spell shit right.

one of my personal fav's get her to lay flat on her stomach and arch her back so her ass sticks up a bit. kneel above her and hit it from a high angle.. this pounds most girls right were it counts and you get to pull her hair
I have to disagree. My favorite is to be on the bottom lying on my back. And than have the girl at an upright angle. It makes the view a lot better. :wink:
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Old May 17, 2009 | 12:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Shalooby


All women can. Some more than others. There are certain places, points, etc that are pretty specific in order to get this to happen. Once it does they sort of resemble
its fsking great!
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Old May 17, 2009 | 01:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Trackruner228
I have to disagree. My favorite is to be on the bottom lying on my back. And than have the girl at an upright angle. It makes the view a lot better. :wink:
well yeah, then you can also get your thumb on her go button. i just suggested one position
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Old May 18, 2009 | 08:28 AM
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are u serious dude? just twist her around and try positions out... why the fuck would you need a book, and if you must have a book karma sutra duh......
You're partially right. I was reaching for a condom and ended up hitting it at a funky angle. She went bonkers so I rolled with that. However it's always a good idea to get as much info as possible. Didn't you have to read a book to get your GED?

If you look up Kama Sutra books, there's like 4352541234132 versions. A lot of them talk about BS like how to treat the chick to get her in bed, how to manage your harem, and all kinds of BS that don't apply.

FYI, my extended research into this subject was extremely beneficial as I might have to implement The Method.
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Old May 18, 2009 | 10:49 AM
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Good luck soldier, stories are expected upon return.
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Originally Posted by Doom878
FYI, my extended research into this subject was extremely beneficial as I might have to implement The Method.
Lol i know what Method you're referring too
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Old May 18, 2009 | 01:32 PM
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Old May 18, 2009 | 02:14 PM
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Is it true that Astroglide is a bitch to clean? We've strictly used KY which is easy to clean.
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Old May 18, 2009 | 02:34 PM
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My SO and I moved from Astro to the KY His and Hers, she says the KY cleans up much easier. I have used a cock ring for enhanced pleasure, but never for longer lasting. Have you thought about just taking her like a gangster? Shover her up against a wall, drop the pants and go to town? In my experences, women like to be handled rough, even if they dont seem like they would, they usually do.
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Old May 18, 2009 | 03:10 PM
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I should've specified. My question regarding lube was strictly for anal. We use natural for regular. I do take her like a gangster sometimes.
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Old May 18, 2009 | 04:17 PM
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Urban Tantra is a good book for tips and some positions. Lube wise, use anything water based.
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good lube for anal is your tongue..if ur dirty (like me)
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Whatever you do don't use the KY Warming Lube. It's sticky as hell and the warming sensation is more like a burn. IMO chicks don't really like it.

For anal are you going bareback or with a jimmy? If using a jimmy, I recommend topical anesthetic, i.e. lidocaine, betacaine, or some variant. It works really well in that area because the rectal mucosa is so thin and will be a more pleasurable experience for Mrs. Doom. You can get 4% lidocaine OTC as LMX4. For higher strengths, you need a prescription.

Whatever you do, don't use it if going bareback. Your unit will get all numb and it's a forgettable experience deprived of any meaningful sensation.

For duration, 1/4 tab Levitra works best for me
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Whatever you do don't use the KY Warming Lube. It's sticky as hell and the warming sensation is more like a burn. IMO chicks don't really like it.

For anal are you going bareback or with a jimmy? If using a jimmy, I recommend topical anesthetic, i.e. lidocaine, betacaine, or some variant. It works really well in that area because the rectal mucosa is so thin and will be a more pleasurable experience for Mrs. Doom. You can get 4% lidocaine OTC as LMX4. For higher strengths, you need a prescription.

Whatever you do, don't use it if going bareback. Your unit will get all numb and it's a forgettable experience deprived of any meaningful sensation.

For duration, 1/4 tab Levitra works best for me
LMSBO...Rick... ur da man!... when I was a resident, I made my own anal lube using prescription grade (hospital) lidocaine, a silicone based lube and some sterile water... kept it in a syringe with a cap on it... Best stuff evar! Numb unit is FTL ... but if you do make your own, and go bare, adjust the amount of lidocaine...or do a pre treatment of lube with your fingers or an anal plug (small one) and wait for a while...

...and ur rite about the warming stuff... and the heat just keeps on going... doesnt stop for a while...
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