Dating & Relationships Love sucks. Now you can cry about it…

Shy guys get no play!

Thread Tools
 
Old 02-04-2004 | 06:38 AM
  #1  
TLD's Avatar
TLD
Thread Starter
Mixed Martial Artist
 
Joined: Dec 2003
Posts: 2,040
Likes: 0
From: NYC
Shy guys get no play!

I've been reading too much nonsense on here about how guys are shy and don't know what to do and they want to wait for the girl to make a move. Well I have news for you shy guys. Shy guys get no ass! Girls don't like shy guys! Now don't get me wrong, while I'm a firm believer in girls loving confident guys, don't cross the line and get cocky. I just say that so I don't get flamed by certain female posters. Anyway, change your ways, shy guys, or be prepared to have long periods of loneliness!
Old 02-04-2004 | 07:51 AM
  #2  
liquid_x's Avatar
Drifting
 
Joined: Oct 2001
Posts: 3,499
Likes: 0
From: Miami, FL
preach on
Old 02-04-2004 | 09:08 AM
  #3  
Gilgamesh's Avatar
Safety Car
 
Joined: Aug 2002
Posts: 4,954
Likes: 22
From: SLC, UT
Old 02-04-2004 | 09:11 AM
  #4  
esCarbonie's Avatar
Safety Car
 
Joined: Nov 2001
Posts: 3,601
Likes: 0
From: Albany, NY
somewhat BS... plenty of girls dig the quiet shy guy thing... If you can turn off the shyness and be a mack once you get them where you want them, the shygame will do a lot for you.

I scored many a chick with this tactic...
Old 02-04-2004 | 09:17 AM
  #5  
mantis23's Avatar
Moderator Alumnus
 
Joined: Mar 2001
Posts: 17,856
Likes: 0
From: Carrollton, Texas
Also keep in mind there is a thin line between confidence & arrogance.
Old 02-04-2004 | 09:29 AM
  #6  
ChrisKelly5's Avatar
Acurazine OG.
 
Joined: Apr 2002
Posts: 4,673
Likes: 0
From: Jacksonville, Florida
FUCK THAT SHY SHIT... MOST GIRLS NOW A DAYS WANT SOMEONE WHO IS CONFIDENT AND SUCCESSFUL (sorry, but it's true)

As Mantis said though... don't mistake confidence for cockyness.
Old 02-04-2004 | 09:47 AM
  #7  
mesmerize's Avatar
*~ i am a girl ~*
 
Joined: Aug 2003
Posts: 694
Likes: 0
From: Columbia, SC
Originally posted by esCarbonie
somewhat BS... plenty of girls dig the quiet shy guy thing... If you can turn off the shyness and be a mack once you get them where you want them, the shygame will do a lot for you.

I scored many a chick with this tactic...
kinda true... but in my opinion, "quiet" and "shy" mean two different things. if i think a guy is shy, it's cuz he seems overly insecure/socially inept/intimidated by people/etc... not especially good qualities to have a guy who seems shy isn't gonna keep a girl's attention for very long because of those things. just from my experiences, i'd say it's kinda hard to have a meaningful conversation with a guy who is excessively "shy".

on the other hand, guys who are just "quiet" (but still obviously capable of being sociable) can do very well with girls cuz it makes them a lil more interesting... you feel like there's more there than meets the eye, and that can be a very attractive quality in some people.

but that's just the way i see it

* sara *
Old 02-04-2004 | 09:59 AM
  #8  
soopa's Avatar
The Creator
 
Joined: Apr 2000
Posts: 37,950
Likes: 8
From: Albany, NY
id say i can be shy....... but i guess by saras description im more towards quiet.


but i do plenty well for myself.


i have confidence tho... i just dont go trying to prove it to everyone like some of you loud guys do.
Old 02-04-2004 | 12:58 PM
  #9  
esCarbonie's Avatar
Safety Car
 
Joined: Nov 2001
Posts: 3,601
Likes: 0
From: Albany, NY
I guess I mean quiet then
Old 02-04-2004 | 01:27 PM
  #10  
Scooter's Avatar
'Cooter
 
Joined: May 2001
Posts: 11,172
Likes: 0
From: Shitside, Queens
Originally posted by soopa
id say i can be shy....... but i guess by saras description im more towards quiet.
i was extremely quiet in grammar school, never hanging out with anyone...even the teachers told my folks to interact more...and i always did well with my grades (E's and A's), so kids thought i was a snob as a result.
Old 02-04-2004 | 01:37 PM
  #11  
soopa's Avatar
The Creator
 
Joined: Apr 2000
Posts: 37,950
Likes: 8
From: Albany, NY
what does any of that have to do with this?!
Old 02-04-2004 | 02:25 PM
  #12  
Arram's Avatar
Burning Brakes
 
Joined: Aug 2002
Posts: 848
Likes: 0
From: Houston
nah shy gets you mad play... one of my friends is real shy but gets the hottest girls

edit: yeah what sara said about quiet
Old 02-04-2004 | 02:40 PM
  #13  
ViperrepiV's Avatar
sup
 
Joined: Jan 2004
Posts: 2,147
Likes: 1
From: NYC
yeah, quiet isnt bad....you dont have to be the loudest one there. but u have to be able to hold a convo....sometimes the girl sucks, so u have nothign to say to her. forget those bitches :pfawk:
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:15 PM
  #14  
TLD's Avatar
TLD
Thread Starter
Mixed Martial Artist
 
Joined: Dec 2003
Posts: 2,040
Likes: 0
From: NYC
Originally posted by esCarbonie
somewhat BS... plenty of girls dig the quiet shy guy thing... If you can turn off the shyness and be a mack once you get them where you want them, the shygame will do a lot for you.

I scored many a chick with this tactic...
I've never met a girl in my life who liked shy guys. I've met some who claimed they liked shy guys, but were swept off their lying feet by the next confident guy who came their way, namely me. Keep using that shy tactic and see how it "does a lot for you". Actually, it will do a lot for you, it will get you ignored, laughed at, dissed by females. Maybe you're right, shy tactics get you a lot...of lost opportunities.
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:21 PM
  #15  
soopa's Avatar
The Creator
 
Joined: Apr 2000
Posts: 37,950
Likes: 8
From: Albany, NY
Originally posted by Batin Dean
I've never met a girl in my life who liked shy guys. I've met some who claimed they liked shy guys, but were swept off their lying feet by the next confident guy who came their way, namely me. Keep using that shy tactic and see how it "does a lot for you". Actually, it will do a lot for you, it will get you ignored, laughed at, dissed by females. Maybe you're right, shy tactics get you a lot...of lost opportunities.

LOL. ive known pete my whole life....... that kid has never had a problem getting what he wanted... and hes def queit.


you sound bitter... i think you were a `shy` guy who got dissed... so now your like the typical loud guy... starving for attention.


girls can smell your fear. loud or not
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:22 PM
  #16  
esCarbonie's Avatar
Safety Car
 
Joined: Nov 2001
Posts: 3,601
Likes: 0
From: Albany, NY
Originally posted by Batin Dean
I've never met a girl in my life who liked shy guys.
OK then.
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:22 PM
  #17  
esCarbonie's Avatar
Safety Car
 
Joined: Nov 2001
Posts: 3,601
Likes: 0
From: Albany, NY
Originally posted by soopa
LOL. ive known pete my whole life....... that kid has never had a problem getting what he wanted... and hes def queit.


you sound bitter... i think you were a `shy` guy who got dissed... so now your like the typical loud guy... starving for attention.


girls can smell your fear. loud or not
das mah neezy

Tramp Post tomorrow night
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:28 PM
  #18  
TLD's Avatar
TLD
Thread Starter
Mixed Martial Artist
 
Joined: Dec 2003
Posts: 2,040
Likes: 0
From: NYC
Shy tactics might allegedly work in no ass towns like Albany, but don't try that shit in the NY. Shy niggas get eaten up alive here so don't diss the man of knowledge, diss yourselves for living in upstate New York.
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:31 PM
  #19  
esCarbonie's Avatar
Safety Car
 
Joined: Nov 2001
Posts: 3,601
Likes: 0
From: Albany, NY
Originally posted by Batin Dean
Shy tactics might allegedly work in no ass towns like Albany, but don't try that shit in the NY. Shy niggas get eaten up alive here so don't diss the man of knowledge, diss yourselves for living in upstate New York.
this guy is a funnyassed Jersey donkey
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:33 PM
  #20  
TLD's Avatar
TLD
Thread Starter
Mixed Martial Artist
 
Joined: Dec 2003
Posts: 2,040
Likes: 0
From: NYC
Originally posted by soopa
LOL. ive known pete my whole life....... that kid has never had a problem getting what he wanted... and hes def queit.


you sound bitter... i think you were a `shy` guy who got dissed... so now your like the typical loud guy... starving for attention.


girls can smell your fear. loud or not
Listen, shy soopa, I'm trying to help these young cats here by filling them with some great knowledge. How are you gonna diss the words of the wise man? You have a lot to learn, son, and one of those things is to respect your very wise elders.
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:34 PM
  #21  
soopa's Avatar
The Creator
 
Joined: Apr 2000
Posts: 37,950
Likes: 8
From: Albany, NY
Originally posted by Batin Dean
Shy tactics might allegedly work in no ass towns like Albany, but don't try that shit in the NY. Shy niggas get eaten up alive here so don't diss the man of knowledge, diss yourselves for living in upstate New York.
lol... you live in jersey for one.

two... you act like we never been to NY(C)

three... woman are universal.

four..... ive gotten women in manhattan.

five..... only stupid dirty slut whores like loud guys...

a good looking girl chimed in on this thread and backed up my position........ what more do you want?

you dont know shit!
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:40 PM
  #22  
TLD's Avatar
TLD
Thread Starter
Mixed Martial Artist
 
Joined: Dec 2003
Posts: 2,040
Likes: 0
From: NYC
Originally posted by soopa
lol... you live in jersey for one.

two... you act like we never been to NY(C)

three... woman are universal.

four..... ive gotten women in manhattan.

five..... only stupid dirty slut whores like loud guys...

a good looking girl chimed in on this thread and backed up my position........ what more do you want?

you dont know shit!
1) I live in NYC, fool!

2) class trip huh?

3) WOMEN DON'T LIKE SHY GUYS!

4) you don't have to lie

5) not only are you the loud guy, neither nice girls nor sluts like you.
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:41 PM
  #23  
ViperrepiV's Avatar
sup
 
Joined: Jan 2004
Posts: 2,147
Likes: 1
From: NYC
Originally posted by soopa


five..... only stupid dirty slut whores like loud guys...



i wanna see a pic of this good looking girl though, im curious



u just gotta be yourself, but be confident in yoursef, not try to be some overcompensating asshat
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:41 PM
  #24  
soopa's Avatar
The Creator
 
Joined: Apr 2000
Posts: 37,950
Likes: 8
From: Albany, NY
batin dean == battin on 6 months without any ass
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:42 PM
  #25  
soopa's Avatar
The Creator
 
Joined: Apr 2000
Posts: 37,950
Likes: 8
From: Albany, NY
Originally posted by ViperrepiV


i wanna see a pic of this good looking girl though, im curious



u just gotta be yourself, but be confident in yoursef, not try to be some overcompensating asshat
exactly.



and the girl is mesmerize... scroll up... click her www link:
http://www.geocities.com/mesmerize915/



you would hit it.
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:43 PM
  #26  
TLD's Avatar
TLD
Thread Starter
Mixed Martial Artist
 
Joined: Dec 2003
Posts: 2,040
Likes: 0
From: NYC
Originally posted by soopa
batin dean == battin on 6 months without any ass
What a fuckin idiot! How does Monday sound to you, moron?
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:43 PM
  #27  
esCarbonie's Avatar
Safety Car
 
Joined: Nov 2001
Posts: 3,601
Likes: 0
From: Albany, NY
does everyone in Jersey think NJ=NY? bumassed fuckin state
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:45 PM
  #28  
soopa's Avatar
The Creator
 
Joined: Apr 2000
Posts: 37,950
Likes: 8
From: Albany, NY
Originally posted by Batin Dean
1) I live in NYC, fool!
then take New Jersey out your location. frontin ass beyotch
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:45 PM
  #29  
soopa's Avatar
The Creator
 
Joined: Apr 2000
Posts: 37,950
Likes: 8
From: Albany, NY
Originally posted by Batin Dean
What a fuckin idiot! How does Monday sound to you, moron?
sounds good...

but i got some last night... and i didnt have to call 1-900-UGLYBITCHES to do it.

ya nasty trollop
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:46 PM
  #30  
TLD's Avatar
TLD
Thread Starter
Mixed Martial Artist
 
Joined: Dec 2003
Posts: 2,040
Likes: 0
From: NYC
Queens, NY, you cow fucking idiots. I used to live in Jersey. How stupid are you upstate clowns?
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:46 PM
  #31  
TLD's Avatar
TLD
Thread Starter
Mixed Martial Artist
 
Joined: Dec 2003
Posts: 2,040
Likes: 0
From: NYC
Originally posted by soopa
sounds good...

but i got some last night... and i didnt have to call 1-900-UGLYBITCHES to do it.

ya nasty trollop
esCarbonie doesn't count.
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:48 PM
  #32  
soopa's Avatar
The Creator
 
Joined: Apr 2000
Posts: 37,950
Likes: 8
From: Albany, NY
Originally posted by Batin Dean
Queens, NY, you cow fucking idiots. I used to live in Jersey. How stupid are you upstate clowns?

not so stupid as to forget check your IP address and see that it does not trace to Manhattan.

(or Queens)

even tho Queens is a fuckin joke.
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:51 PM
  #33  
soopa's Avatar
The Creator
 
Joined: Apr 2000
Posts: 37,950
Likes: 8
From: Albany, NY
mmm hmm. thought so.....

NEEEEEEXXXXT!
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:51 PM
  #34  
bkknight369's Avatar
Safety Car
 
Joined: Jan 2002
Posts: 3,991
Likes: 15
From: Renton, WA
Originally posted by soopa
not so stupid as to forget check your IP address and see that it does not trace to Manhattan.

(or Queens)

even tho Queens is a fuckin joke.
bahaha PWNED
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:52 PM
  #35  
ViperrepiV's Avatar
sup
 
Joined: Jan 2004
Posts: 2,147
Likes: 1
From: NYC
owned
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:54 PM
  #36  
soopa's Avatar
The Creator
 
Joined: Apr 2000
Posts: 37,950
Likes: 8
From: Albany, NY
Originally posted by Batin Dean
Queens, NY, you cow fucking idiots. I used to live in Jersey. How stupid are you upstate clowns?
Also funny

you registered 2003-12-26... and put Jersey as your location.

now you claim you live in Queens barely a month later...

and now your some `city` expert.

heh

meanwhile... you have never once logged in from a NY Metro IP address. hmmmmmmmm
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:54 PM
  #37  
Gilgamesh's Avatar
Safety Car
 
Joined: Aug 2002
Posts: 4,954
Likes: 22
From: SLC, UT
Originally posted by soopa
exactly.



and the girl is mesmerize... scroll up... click her www link:
http://www.geocities.com/mesmerize915/



you would hit it.


^^^^Wow...as if we needed more proof...don't fuck with Adam yes massa, whatever you say massa
Old 02-04-2004 | 03:59 PM
  #38  
mantis23's Avatar
Moderator Alumnus
 
Joined: Mar 2001
Posts: 17,856
Likes: 0
From: Carrollton, Texas
Old 02-04-2004 | 04:00 PM
  #39  
esCarbonie's Avatar
Safety Car
 
Joined: Nov 2001
Posts: 3,601
Likes: 0
From: Albany, NY
someone got a little quiet REAL fast
Old 02-04-2004 | 04:04 PM
  #40  
ViperrepiV's Avatar
sup
 
Joined: Jan 2004
Posts: 2,147
Likes: 1
From: NYC
Originally posted by soopa

you would hit it.
yes i would


Quick Reply: Shy guys get no play!



All times are GMT -5. The time now is 05:18 AM.