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Old Jul 2, 2024 | 07:07 PM
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Is there a dating manual for recently divorced men? I have a feeling I'll be in this subthread a bit. Three dates with three women after being married for 27 years. I am trying to get the first one off my back. It's going to be fun isn't it. Laters
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Old Jul 3, 2024 | 09:40 PM
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Dicks out for Harambe, is always the answer!
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Old Jul 4, 2024 | 04:50 PM
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I thought it was hock toey
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Old Jul 5, 2024 | 08:38 AM
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Old Jul 18, 2024 | 08:56 AM
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Reddit has so many subreddits on dating. Let us know if you need any tips (no pun intended ). I've been through that and it was a fun experience.
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Old Jul 22, 2024 | 06:27 PM
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Thanks. I've had 4 dates with 3 different women and right now I'm home alone. So it's going great.
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Old Jul 23, 2024 | 09:11 AM
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Good job. That's half the battle that you're getting interest. I got friends that haven't been on a date in years and they try.
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Old Aug 1, 2024 | 06:47 PM
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You need to get a PlayStation 5.
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Old Aug 3, 2024 | 02:21 PM
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Old Aug 8, 2024 | 06:44 AM
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The great Whiskers is divorced, no way!? Does this mean you aren't getting the newest Apple devices on release day?
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Old Aug 8, 2024 | 10:25 AM
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It's true. I still will get the newest device but now won't need to hide it.
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Old Aug 8, 2024 | 10:59 AM
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It's true. I still will get the newest device but now won't need to hide it.


Best wishes on your endeavors back in the dating pool!
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Old Aug 8, 2024 | 07:38 PM
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It's true. I still will get the newest device but now won't need to hide it.
AND you can kiss chicks at dinner with no fear of your wife getting angry. Plus Paxil induced days are over!
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Old Aug 11, 2024 | 06:44 PM
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AND you can kiss chicks at dinner with no fear of your wife getting angry. Plus Paxil induced days are over!
And forget anniversaries!
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List your PW skills and that will drive the ladies nuts.
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Old Mar 27, 2025 | 07:19 PM
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List your PW skills and that will drive the ladies nuts.
They love that!
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Old Mar 28, 2025 | 05:32 AM
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List your PW skills and that will drive the ladies nuts.
Ha! I did find someone. Its pretty incredible so far. Ill show her my posts tonight in bed. Thanks guys!!
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Ha! I did find someone. Its pretty incredible so far. Ill show her my posts tonight in bed. Thanks guys!!
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Old Mar 28, 2025 | 04:18 PM
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Ha! I did find someone. Its pretty incredible so far. Ill show her my posts tonight in bed. Thanks guys!!
It must be working! I saw Fb and was scratching my head and then put the pieces together. I hope all is well.
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Old Apr 6, 2025 | 09:03 PM
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It must be working! I saw Fb and was scratching my head and then put the pieces together. I hope all is well.
Its going very well. She is great.
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Ha! I did find someone. Its pretty incredible so far. Ill show her my posts tonight in bed. Thanks guys!!
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Old May 7, 2025 | 08:00 PM
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Its going very well. She is great.
Good to hear. I was surfing fb a while back and saw a change of scenery and then a new girl and was like I got divorced too. Weird stuff.I wouldn't have ever guessed it.
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So....this wouldn't be AZ without asking for pics (of her) and I think you know what happens if you don't post the pics.
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She is an ASU graduate
She is an ASU graduate
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Dannnnng, gorgeous and time for that Whiskers fellow to deliver
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Oh yeah, i married up.
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cliffs: I grew apart from my ex. I settled for a long time and of course didn't want to break things off many times through the 28 years.There were opportunities but i didn't want to hurt my ex, but i guess i did it in a big way almost 2 years ago. The thing is, that my current wife and i met through running. It was never planned and we really didn't have feeling up until a certain point. Then we were both like, uh oh. We both divorces our spouses and married each other.
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Old May 9, 2025 | 05:29 AM
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cliffs: I grew apart from my ex. I settled for a long time and of course didn't want to break things off many times through the 28 years.There were opportunities but i didn't want to hurt my ex, but i guess i did it in a big way almost 2 years ago. The thing is, that my current wife and i met through running. It was never planned and we really didn't have feeling up until a certain point. Then we were both like, uh oh. We both divorces our spouses and married each other.
We have a lot in common.
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Almost 2 months in and its been pretty incredible. We have great chemistry and a lot of things in common. Having a sex life after over a decade doesnt suck either.

Christa and I




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We have a lot in common.
big 🍆?
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Almost 2 months in and its been pretty incredible. We have great chemistry and a lot of things in common. Having a sex life after over a decade doesnt suck either.

Christa and I

This is awesome, glad to see you happy man!
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whoa big news!!!

been a while, how have you been?? are you still somewhat in the area?? should try and catch up for a beer or lunch...
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big 🍆?
She has nice boobies
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Old May 9, 2025 | 11:36 AM
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whoa big news!!!

been a while, how have you been?? are you still somewhat in the area?? should try and catch up for a beer or lunch...
I'm in South Jersey now.
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I'm in South Jersey now.
Grew up down there, I wonder if they were ready for you.
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
I'm in South Jersey now.
PM sent, no noods yet though
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