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Old Jan 7, 2016 | 10:16 AM
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I'm confused right now. But congrats!!
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Old Jan 7, 2016 | 11:59 AM
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Yes congrats!! I like how you handled it. Weddings can be very expensive and generally generate a lot of stress. Sounds like you'll have some nice drama-free memories.
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Old Jan 7, 2016 | 01:05 PM
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My sister just got married last year. What a nightmare process. Glad you were able to avoid the wedding.
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Old Jan 7, 2016 | 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Doom878
My sister just got married last year. What a nightmare process. Glad you were able to avoid the wedding.
when are you getting married?!??!?!??!?!?!?!??!
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Old Jan 7, 2016 | 01:07 PM
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two of my friends got served divorce papers in Nov.....
I either am not gonna get married or have her sign a prenup!
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Old Jan 7, 2016 | 01:15 PM
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Originally Posted by justnspace
when are you getting married?!??!?!??!?!?!?!??!
Moving in together in March

Originally Posted by justnspace
two of my friends got served divorce papers in Nov.....
I either am not gonna get married or have her sign a prenup!
GL on the prenup. And that doesn't help on stuff you get while married. And if you have kids child support will kill you.
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Old Jan 7, 2016 | 01:45 PM
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Originally Posted by projektvertx
I'm confused right now. But congrats!!
Oh shit. I thought this was my thread. My bad.. lolol
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Old Jan 7, 2016 | 01:50 PM
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Oh shit. I thought this was my thread. My bad.. lolol
I'm just happy rockycawk got out I have no problem with wedding talk
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Old Jan 8, 2016 | 09:00 AM
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Originally Posted by projektvertx
I have no problem with wedding talk

on that note;

Originally Posted by Doom878
GL on the prenup. And that doesn't help on stuff you get while married. And if you have kids child support will kill you.
but doesnt it make things easier, if that were ever to happen?
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Old Jan 8, 2016 | 10:10 AM
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Originally Posted by Doom878



GL on the prenup. And that doesn't help on stuff you get while married. And if you have kids child support will kill you.
Yes, child support and divorce fees are expensive. It's cheaper just to kill her.

Originally Posted by imj0257
Oh shit. I thought this was my thread. My bad.. lolol
Thought so. LOL
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Old Jan 8, 2016 | 10:40 AM
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Originally Posted by justnspace
on that note;



but doesnt it make things easier, if that were ever to happen?
Personally I have no experience with Prenups. It's kind of a slap to the face of your fiance. Plus I've heard them getting overturned in BK court anyways.
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Old Jan 8, 2016 | 10:59 AM
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I dont think it's a slap in the face. its a tool to help protect both parties.
it's an Honest plan, JUST IN CASE it doesnt work.
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Old Jan 8, 2016 | 01:45 PM
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Women don't think logically broski. WHAT DO YOU MEAN JUST IN CASE IT DOESN'T WORK!!?!?!?!?
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Old Jan 8, 2016 | 02:13 PM
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i forgot. women are illogical.

we are not supposed to understand women...just love them.
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Old Jan 8, 2016 | 03:16 PM
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They were made for us to.......I better stop
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Old Jan 8, 2016 | 07:35 PM
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Old Jan 10, 2016 | 11:28 PM
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A contractual agreement to the terms of a divorce prior to a wedding is the ultimate betrayal to the sanctity of marriage IMO. WTF is that?


People should stop. Collaborate and listen. Before they get married. Pre-nups are BS.
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Old Jan 11, 2016 | 07:13 AM
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well, when you put it that way.....


can you tell I'm single?
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Old Jan 11, 2016 | 08:22 AM
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no comment
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Old Jan 11, 2016 | 01:48 PM
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Originally Posted by justnspace
well, when you put it that way.....


can you tell I'm single?


I expect your next post to be a new thread full of incoherent rambling.
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Old Sep 27, 2016 | 03:24 PM
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Am I the only one who misses the rocky boy entertainment train?
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Old Sep 27, 2016 | 03:30 PM
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YES!!!


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Old Sep 27, 2016 | 03:31 PM
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Old Sep 27, 2016 | 03:34 PM
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the agreement is unanimous.
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Old Sep 27, 2016 | 03:35 PM
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Originally Posted by oo7spy
YES!!!


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Old Sep 27, 2016 | 03:37 PM
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I hate that guy more than everyone with a 3G TL hates RL09. Combined. I hate that guy more than Mr. Maker hates whiskey dick. More than Michael J. Fox hates teaching his son how to aim a rifle.
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Old Sep 27, 2016 | 03:42 PM
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damn that's bad
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Old Sep 27, 2016 | 03:46 PM
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Man, That's a lot of hate Bond,

You should talk to a shrink
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Old Dec 15, 2016 | 10:25 PM
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Fast forward over a year later, dating a completely different girl. Things are looking much better with this girl, and she's much simpler. Before anyone asks, no, I don't got noodzzz.
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Old Dec 16, 2016 | 10:48 AM
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^ All that matters is does she let you ?
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Old Dec 16, 2016 | 10:58 AM
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Originally Posted by projektvertx
Fast forward over a year later, dating a completely different girl. Things are looking much better with this girl, and she's much simpler. Before anyone asks, no, I don't got noodzzz.

You're not doing it right..
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Old Dec 16, 2016 | 10:58 AM
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Originally Posted by projektvertx
Fast forward over a year later, dating a completely different girl. Things are looking much better with this girl, and she's much simpler. Before anyone asks, no, I don't got noodzzz.

You're not doing it right..


how can you be sure she's a girl
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Old Dec 16, 2016 | 11:15 AM
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I have the nudes
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Old Dec 16, 2016 | 11:15 AM
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^ All that matters is does she let you ?
What mama don't know, won't hurt her
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Old Dec 16, 2016 | 11:16 AM
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where's rockycawk and his 9.2/10 bitchhess.. RDX elitism.
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Old Dec 16, 2016 | 01:08 PM
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Ain't nobody need that rockycawky dude when she let's you do the surprise buttsecks
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Old Dec 16, 2016 | 01:36 PM
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she let's you do the surprise buttsecks.. it wouldn't be a surprise then would it.. you're not good at this.
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Old Dec 16, 2016 | 02:27 PM
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It surprised him that she let him, dummy.
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Old Dec 16, 2016 | 02:49 PM
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The surprise : 'she's' a he!



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Old Dec 16, 2016 | 03:14 PM
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^Pretty sure I'd be getting the surprise buttsecks then, you got it flipped
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