two pretty close friends of mine just got engaged on xmas. Yay right, NOT!! 20 and 19 are the ages, and they'll lsat a year if that.
anyway i don't want to get in the middle of it and suspect there's nothing i could do anyway, but one of mary's friends IM'd me and said if i really care about her, i'll get her away from him before he kills her heart and soul
WTF?!?!?! i don't know who it is that IM'd me - i was asleep at the time - so that's weird - but WTF could i do anyway
if they really care enough about each other to get married, they're not going to listen to anyone, right?

 

Dont touch it. If according to you theyre not going to last anyway, then either way shes going to get a broken heart.

one way shell realize her mistakes on her own, the other shell be pissed at you for interferring.

If people get on them and say it wont last and they shouldnt get married, its going to make them want to stay together to prove something, even if shes completely unhappy, because she wont want people saying 'I told you so'

On the other hand, I got engaged when I was 19 and im doing just fine.

 

You don't want to have anything to do with that.

 

19 and 20 is TOO young. i'm 28 and am going to wait to marry my g/f of 8 years

 

 

Okay,
cool. everyone seems to agree with me.
thanks homies and rachael < if sp sorry

 

you got it

 

If she's not your girl then don't step in. Your male friend will feel like you backstabbed him so it's definitely better to stay out of it.

 

that isnt the answer to all of lifes problems joe hahahahahaha

 

yes it is

 

to the

and on what rai said, thats some dam good advice. You'll only get blamed.