There is no way I'm getting those 2 together. They both know what the other looks like thanks to the beauty of video, but they've never met and they never will.

 

Do you and "your boy" share your homemade porn videos with each other?

 

I showed my girl the video of a bunch of us including the wife doing the electric slide at the friend's house during a Christmas party. The wife wanted to see what my girl looks like so I showed her a video of my girlfriend (non porn).

 

Your bud sounds a bit skivvy; physical violence in a marriage is usually not a great sign, suggests he has poor anger management skills and a low self-esteem. That, combined with, at one point, his egging you on to kiss his wife suggests he has some complex feelings going on..... We know that she doen't have any qualms about insulting her marriage vows, and the question from the neighbor might suggest that you're not the first dude she's hit on...... may be a really neurotic pattern between the two of them, and were I you, I'd stay the hell away from both.

If ya gotta spend time with this guy, do it with your gf in tow. Make it a foursome..... if your gf is at all territorial, she'll square off wifey in a trice, whether she knows about hte previous shit or not.

Telling a physically violent guy with low self-esteem that his wife is making deep panting sounds in your direction is just an invitaiton for some form of bizarre acting out on his part, either with his wife, or iwth you, or both.

And frankly, I think its time to invest in cable....... Their marriage is headed nowhere good, the atmosphere in the home must be poisonous and tension-laden, and why would you want to get down and try to relax in that siutation - all for a sports channel?

In truth, I think it's probably time to invest in cable. Then, if you value this guy's friendship, invite him to your place for "boys night onoly, no wives, no gf" and socialize on your turf, not his. THe wifey can go off with the carwash guy down the street or whatever.....

 

The wife beater never suggested I kiss his wife, he wasn't around when she did that. Wife beater was at home on the couch while the wife and I went around the block to the block party. The one who dared the wife to kiss me was a male neighbor who thought she and I were actually a couple until I cleared it up for him. Armed with this new info, the neighbor decided to test the woman so he dared the married wench to kiss me. That's the way it went down, ric.

 

sorry, misread. Still, I think the gist of what I said still applies. Guys who beat up on their wives have their own raft of shit to deal with. May be a nice bud, but I'd see him under controlled circumstances (away from his wife, and preferably on your turf....)

 

That's terrible that he beats up his wife....

Have you ever tried to make him stop? Does he think it's no big deal when he does it? Is alcohol involved when he does? How often does he hit her?

*side track*

I think guys in general should do more to make domestic violence socially unacceptable and embarrassing for the men that do it.
It's a horrible thing that never goes away, you deal with it FOR LIFE when it happens to you...

 

He doesn't do it in front of me, but when he gets verbally abusive, I tell him to stop or I'm leaving because I don't want to see that BS. I've never witnessed him hitting her, but she told me he hits her and I told her it was terrible and that there's no excuse for it. I just hope she realizes that sleeping with me, if that's what she intends to do, would only make things immensely worse. I think she realizes that I'm not down with the program because when I turned her down on her walk proposal, she got really sad and went upstairs. I hope she straightens herself up because it won't be me, but she's gonna wind up banging someone other than her husband.

 

good to hear it...

Good man

 

With that new info it looks like, in her eyes, you're a good guy that's defending her and being more of a man than her husband. She's coming to you since she's obviously unhappy in her marriage and sees you as a better person

 

yes...if she's not oridinarily a ho bag, that's probably why she's hitting on you...
but
she'll probably stay with current husband and have a miserable life, or find a different wifebeater to take care of her if she doesn't get some serious help...


I realize this guy is your friend, but what would you do if he hit her in front of you?

 

I realize that you made this thread expecting different responces then what you got, but I agree with most people that the issue of him hitting his wife is probably more important then her coming onto you. Also, Mike 3.0 was right on the ball. You seem to be pretty straight, not putting up with that shit. I dont see what more you could realistically do. I would put distance between both her and him.

 

Bros Before Hos. (dammit, Jim, When Will They Learn?)

 

UPON FURTHER REVIEW,

 

 

OK OK, here she is, dammit!

 

I say don't say shit about nothing. Yeah these fools here will tell you to tell him but fuck unless you have video tape of it, don't say shit. People in love don't want to hear shit from no one, TRUST ME, if you say it she can deny it and if he is hung up of this chick he won't believe you anyways. Let's say he does believe you, if dude is violent he is either fucking her or you up or both.

Heres the solution...slowly stop being friends with this dude and pull out man. You are going to end up fucked somewhere down the line anyways.

 

i dont see no pic

 

That's pretty decent advice, dude. I wasn't going to tell him no matter what anyone here said anyway. I think this situation can die down, but if his wife keeps hitting on me, I'll take your advice and stop hanging out at that house altogether.

 

The only problem with keeping your mouth shut is this guy is your friend and is married to someone who's faithfulness is obviously in question. If she's willing to hit on you, I wouldn't be surprised if she's sleeping with other guys, making your friend look like a chump.

 

She probably is, but as long as it's not me, I'm walking around with a clear conscience.

 

sounds like it's time for a threesome.

remember, it's only gay if the balls touch.

 

You know this makes sense and it sounds good on paper but truth is some guys are irrational when it comes to love and unless he has hard tangible proof it will be a battle of he said she said. This is a tough call man I say just leave it alone and high tail it to a new friendship

 

I was just thinking of something while reading this...

You claim that you went to a block party AROUND THE BLOCK from your friend's house, so can't word get back to your boy that a witness saw his wife with another man (you), doing flirtatious things? Were her actions that obvious to other people that maybe it could get back to your friend? Since people were even thinking that maybe the woman was with you, then maybe word could get back to your friend about the ass-groping and whatnot. I'd be careful if I were you - it seems like your friend's drunken wife was being overly flirtatious rather close to home.

 

That is a yes and no answer. Yes in that the neighbors definitely saw some crazy behavior by the wife and no in that in his neighborhood, the neighbors only seem to interact with the people from the same block and because it was around the block, they never speak although they certainly could in the future.

 

This is a forum that my friend doesn't read or has even heard of. I have no reason to make this up.

 

good luck with ur situation, i hate drunk bitches that try to fuck with ur mind, and they try to talk to you the next day and shit