I was hanging out with my boy's wife, just around the corner from their house where a block party was being thrown. My boy was sitting at home watching TV and we simply wanted to check out the party, but it got pretty weird. The wife started dirty dancing with me, placing my hands on her ass and tits (no bra by the way) and was getting too flirty all night. She then starts holding my hand and interlocking fingers with me. She introduced me as her boyfriend to her neighbors so I just went with the flow, thinking she was just playing around. Well, one neighbor took her seriously and asked me if I was hitting it, and I told him no way, that's my boy's wife. He then dared her to kiss me and she plants one on my lips. He told her to give me a "real kiss" and then she stopped herself, but only because she thought I'd stop her which I probably would have. I stopped by the house again recently and she wanted to take another walk to which I declined. She was drunk that night and I never pulled a move on her, but I'm gonna have to stay away because she's getting too close for comfort. I need to find a way to hang out with my boy without giving his wife any opportunities to be alone with me.

 

ask your boy to your place, so you dont even have to worry about the wife.

 

He's the one with all the good cable channels.

 

well then that wont work. I am sorry dude. Was the wife drunk at the party as well. Does it only happen when she is drunk??

 

Yeah, she was drunk and she was trying to get me drunk too.

 

does she she look good at least?

You are a good friend for not making more of this situation.

 

well being a girl i know usually when girls get drunk they are the hole "ilove you" drunk. so what i would suggest is to stay away when she is drunk or if you find your self in a possion when she is drunk and trying again, then be firm with her and be like you are drunk and you are married to my boy. Most women will get the hint.

 

She's definitely hittable, but not for me because of obvious reasons. She calls me quite a bit on my cell too, but I never thought anything of it until now. I've gotta keep my distance from that woman.

 

You're going to have to tell your friend about this. Not because you want to piss him off, but you don't want her telling him that you've been hitting on her. He'll be pissed at you either way, though.

 

I'm definitely not gonna tell him. As long as I'm not the one making moves, I've got nothing to explain.

 

Unless she tells him that you were hitting on her. Then if you say "No, she was hitting on me." Then he'll ask why you didn't tell him when it happened. And then you have nothing else to say.

 

Damn bro, thats a tough situation. I don't know whether or not it would be good to tell your boy. The are advantages and disadvantages but every person is different so you dont know how he will react. All I can say is stay away and if she trys it again you need to say something to her.

 

If she claims I was hitting on her, I wouldn't bother accusing her back. I have no need to defend myself on a lie. I'd tell my boy that his wife is lying and won't even mention the details of her drunken acts. I don't worry about what if when it comes to lies, I worry more about what if when it comes to actually getting physical.

 

Sounds like you really need to keep your distance before you "allow" something to happen.

 

Now you're blaming me. OK, maybe I could have been more restrictive toward her, but damn it, I'm the guy. If I start pushing her away physically, I'm gonna offend her so I did allow her to hold my hand and stuff, but if she ever tries to French kiss me, I'm gonna stop her.

 

I wasn't blaming you, just cautioning you. However, from your last post it sounded as if you have thought about it and perhaps even rubbed out a few while thinking about her.

 

My girlfriend "rubbed it out", thank you, and my friend's wife was definitely not on my mind. And before you ask, no, I didn't tell my girlfriend.

 

Why not offend her? She's your boys old lady. What's more important?

If you were a real friend you'd have squashed that shit when it started or, at the very least, now have the balls to air the situation to your man.

 

The fact that you also have an old lady makes your actions 10x worse.

What would be really funny is if that girl finds a way to tell YOUR girl that you led her on...then you'll have wished you were honest in the first place.

 

Sounds easy, doesn't it? Do you really think it's a good thing to tell one of your good friends that his wife is making moves on you? The best thing I could do is to let her be and that's what I'm doing.

 

Last time I checked you started this thread asking for advice.

 

thats a wrong move man, she'll get to him before you do.

 

Looks like he wants to hit that shit.

 

Hoho! Jatt, what up bro? Long time no see. You know I can't tell him, bro, it's what I'd tell people to do and it's what I know is the right thing to do. If I were giving someone else advice, I'd say, "don't say anything to your boy and don't hang out with the wife again".

 

I would say tell him before he hears a different story from his neighbors who all saw you two together.

Or just straight up tell the hoe that you dont feel comfortable with all the touching.

 

Reverse roles. Would you want to know?

 

I was just wondering how I could keep hanging with my boy while his wife is still present. I never said I would tell him anything.

 

ya but what if she tells him and blames it on you? Your answer was "I wouldn't bother accusing her back".

You got to tell your friend man, or elsehe won't trust you anymore and you'll lose the friendship.

 

but he doesn't want to tell him.

 

Sack up. Don't act like you're the only guy she'd do this with either. If not you, there'd be some other guy and then your buddy will still get fucked over. Just tell him shes a little too flirty and he should keep an eye on it

 

Did I forget to mention that he smacks her up? Yes I did and I'm not gonna be responsible for her getting a beating. I'm not afraid of him coming after me physically, but I don't want him hitting her because of her drunkenness.

 

In that case just fuck her then.


What answer do you want?

 

Great friend. I think you should let the abusive relationship continue on Your friend is a punk bitch

 

 

Hey Jes, I didn't ask the question of whether I should tell him or not. The thread was more about how we should go "around" her drunken flirting while I'm hanging with my friend.

 

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You'd be better off with both of them out of your life

 

Well i was in the same boat before but i just kept my distance from her. Just keep your buddy around when you go to his house. Its not hard to block the woman out. IMO

 

Now that's what I'm talking about. Did your buddy's woman finally back off?

 

Yea she got the hint and stopped trying. For a awhile she would just leave when i came over. I still never told my buddy.

 

I don't know how you could be friends with someone you know smacks his woman around. Do you really need to watch the "good cable channels" that badly?