ok so lets discuss the following scenario:

background: girl 1 and girl 2 are first cousins, both are younger then I, girl one being 23, girl 2 being 21.

you go out with girl number 1, all is good yada yada, date for 2-3 months, hook up, dont fuck as she's a virgin and wants to wait till marriage. at the end of the 3rd month, she tells you that she wants to start talking to her ex and do dinner and hang out with him..she's instantly banned (dumped) after she thinks thats an ok thing to do.

girl 2:

so a while after girl 1, you start hanging out with girl 2. you get drunk, make out with her on her birthday and are semi-banned from the "group" for a few months. a few months later, everyone in the group calls and says come out yada yada and you do. you end up bringing another girl, and girl 2 gets jealous and calls you out on it and wants to start hanging out. you start hanging out with girl 2 again, and she/you both get drunk and start making out at a club one night..things are pretty good and you talk everyday and hangout, but pretty much hookup only on the weekends (th,fri,sat) and kiss not in public. girl 2 then tells you that her ex saw her one night she was out with you and told her that he misses her and wants her to go to NYC to visit him for spring break. She has already told you that her parents wont let her leave the city on "vacation" or anything of that sort unless her two other female cousins come. (so basically same thing as girl 1) she is unsure if she is going to go or not, but decides that we shouldn't "hook up" anymore..

what would you do with the girl? this does tie in with the other thread that i created about leaving the "click" and finding a new group of girls to hang with as it seems as cousins are, they are all nuts, or are young and dont know what they want. This girl is a 9 and shes perfect for me, but i'm unsure if i should waste my time or not as i've already been down this path with her cousin and it ended up pretty bad..

ideas, suggestions, bullets for my gun, or a baseball bat to break some knees, would be appreciated :P LOL
thanks!

 

Drop both of them, too complicated.

 

Exactly. Their both still interested in their X's. Why bother.

 

Not worth it. Move on.

I want to know what darksom1 would do, though.

 

damn i love how the mods are all over my posts :P

wait, is that a good thing or a bad thing? lolol

 

Ignore them, move on, bait your hook for the next catch.

 

plenty of other fishes out in the sea...

 

What is not being understood here is "why" you are hooking up with the girls.

If you are hooking up with the girls to put notches in your belt, then why do you have to kick them to the curb? Dammit, let me explain something here...

Emotion and FUCKING, do not go together. The reason why guys get it twisted, is because they make emotional decisions about pussy. You make emotional decisions about your lady. Everybody else is fucking! I can fuck everybody at that table and still sit there and have a beer with them! You will be surprised that some women can handle that scene better than men do! Let the girls who have exes that they want to get back with go. If they call you - fuck them in the ass fa sho! Then go back to your hole...simple...stop getting emotional about PUSSY!

If you meet a total stranger in a club and dance the night away, she gives you her number, she is hot as hell, you go on another date or two, go back to your place and fuck her - do you love her? Can you not do without her? NO!! Because all you were doing is fucking her! Guys don't we hate it when women do that after we fuck them for the first time early on and they catch feelings??? I hate that shit. That taking things out of perspective shit! It is what it is...a fuck, until otherwise notified!

Love and emotions: My wife, lady, gf, or significant other.

Fucking and smashing: My maid, my ex's sister, my teacher, the meter maid putting a ticket on my car, the broad across the street with the big titties, the broad with her man (who just went home) and she walks up to the bar, grabs my dick and says in my ear: my husband went back to the hotel and my flight leaves in the morning for us to go back home - think you can fuck me well by then? Get the "fucking" point?

I'm a cocksman! A lot of people come on here talking shit about this and that. But pussy is pussy is pussy is puzzzay to me! If I love you, I am the man you want in your life - bar none! But If I am living the single life - oh man, stand the fuck by because I am bringing strong, titanium-tipped dick! Emotions not included...or optional!

I could care less if the broad has an ex she likes. I immediately shift her number to the "DIFF" category. No, not for difficult, but Dial It For Fucking!! That goes for girl 1 & 2. If I WANT them for a relationship, then I drop them. But if I want to give their pussy a deep tissue massage when they are free...they are very much fuckable!

I have two women friends that know me thru and thru...they will tell you that I am not playing! So I ain't just talking shit fellas, I live what I type!

Peace2fingaz!

 

hit it 'n quit it, say you never did it...

 

You shouldn't be messing around with your first cousins.

 

Way too much drama for one person. I think you need to just meet more low maintainance chicks.

And you know the rules man....

 

it all depends on what you're trying to go for... if you're going for a relationship then kick them to the curb... but if not why the hell would you get rid of them? let them do what they want cuz you'll be doing the same..

 

Drop them both and be wary of incest by proxy.

 

Blood is thicker than water......Move on man

 

lol not my first cousins..the girls are first cousins LOL!! DO I LOOK LIKE WATER-S?!?!?!

 

pics pics pics...lemme see what i can come up with
the ex



in the hunt, or maybe not anymore....





anyways as a update:

she text me yesterday as i haven't spoken to her since sunday..she's like how you doing yada yada, and she asked me if i'm going to this event tonight (which a lot of people i know are going to) and i told her i was undecided.. i really dont know if i should go or not, as im not really in the mood, but i know if i do go theres a high probability we will end up hooking up, or breaking it off clean and for good. i'm not sure what i want to do, but i kinda feel like sending her a random text message that says "i'm not homer" which she will be like wtf, and i'll be like, i dont make the same mistake twice and see what she says from there..

should i just say fuck it and move on or should i attempt to work things out? i know a lot of you have said just move on, and one of my good friends said the same thing, but i like this girl, more so then girls i just fuck..and no, we haven't fucked yet..

 

Does that mean she will give up the goods soon? Or is she a "V til marriage" just like her cousin?

 

no, she bangs lol

 

You're playing this just right - for instance you haven't spoken to the one girl since Sunday so she reaches out to you. Just keep it casual like that and they'll be back for more. Unless of course you want a serious monogomous relationship = doesn't seem like it though

 

Go out tonight, find out whether she is going to NY. If she is going, then you know she isn't the one for you, so bang her. If she isn't going, then she may be the one for you, so bang her.

 

i wouldn't mind a serious relationship as its nice to have someone thats real..and its been a while so i think i'm ready to start..the only problem is that i dont want to force it..you can't make a square peg fit in a triangle type hole..

ideas? lol

 

you just want the bang bang bang pics...lol

 

Meh. It just seems that you do want something with her, so try. If she isn't ready for a serious relationship, then just hit it and move on then find your new group of friends. If she might be ready for something more serious, then a good dicking might be just what she needs to convince her you're the right man.

 

But do you think she wants a serious relationship or is she just looking for a good time with you?

 

^^ unsure. if i knew that i'd be ahead of the game..but i dont and she doesn't talk about it..i think i'm just gunna lay low for a few days and see what happens..i'm sure i'll get a call tonight or tomorrow from her, if not then i guess shes not interested and i'll move on

 

If you want a relationship then I wouldn't lay low. If you want a relationship you need to put yourself out there. Call her up. You need to let her know your interested. Only if you do this-putting yourself and your intentions out there for her-and then find out she isn't interested, which I doubt this would happen, then move on-versus waiting for her to all and guessing she isn't interested. Look at it this way, all it took was for her ex to call and say he misses her and she is thinking up getting back with him. This girl is looking for someone to pursue her, maybe she want a relationship as well. Only one way to find out. Balls in your court........

 

By the way my wife wants to know what makes her a 9 and not a 10?

 

although i was considering going after what you said 65 Fury, it looks like i'm not gunna go. I just dont feel up to seeing a buncha my ex girlfriends as well as this new chick. i'll just hit her up tomorrow and lay it out and see what happens, worst case im back to where i am now. as they say, nothing ventured, nothing gained.

oh and for your wife, the only reason i view this girl as a 9 rather then a 10 is due to the fact that shes young and i feel shes a little emotionally immature. i, myself am very logical when it comes to all aspects of life (being in IT, i guess thats just how i am) so when i look at a relationship, i analyze the situation/problem and go after it from different angles, just as i would at my job. maybe im the one in the wrong and i need to change my sense of being? i'd actually like to hear your wifes input on that one..maybe black and white with just a little gray doesn't cut it these days..

 

for hooking up with girls with ex's actively trying to get back with them refer to one of the many "My cars been keyed/tires slashed/windows broken/etc." threads

your acura > girls w/ baggage.

remember that.

 

^^^^

This is why I stopped dating young chicks when I got out of college. The drama drives me nuts.

 

update:
so i hit her up this morning to find out what the deal is..andddddd,

the outcome is unknown. she likes me but doesn't know what she wants, it sounds to me like shes confused. i asked her about her ex and she said he is out of the picture. i cant get a straight answer out of her, and her last text was "i dont want to get into this anymore, lets just leave it"

as to that, i think i'm just not gunna call her or anything and see what happens, if i lose her i lose her cuz i'm not going to force anything upon anyone.. i know some of you will come back and say you have to put yourself out there and try, which i believe i've done considering i told her how i feel about her, and that i'm looking for a girlfriend and not a hookup..and considering i can't get a straight answer out of her, i think that will have to suffice for now. Only time will tell, and i'm a believer that whats meant to happen will..or wont for that matter
what do you guys feel about that? am i playing it right?

the strangest shit is that random girls i can do whatever i want, i dont ask any questions of anyone and i know how to play it..with girls that i like i'm like lost and i dont know how to move forward..

 

You tried and she said she doesn't know what she wants - I agree with you don't push it - that comes off as needy which from reading your posts you are not. Sounds like you know what you need to do

 

65 so what did your wife say as far as the other post before the update? just want to have a womens point of view here as well

 

To me when someone says "I like you, but I don't know what I want...." it usually means one of 2 things.

1. She doesn't want a relationship.

2. She will date you, but you will end up dealing with a lot of unwanted drama.

Either way, if I were you, I would sit back and see what she does.

 

3. I actually don't really like you much if at all.

 

and fucking
i'm in a similar situation but a little bit different, but essentially the same. fucking hate feeling like this. i got no advice i say move on, i try and tell myself that but it doesn't work....

 

I was trying to be nice. Much like she is trying to be nice.

 

truth hurts sometimes..but i what i dont get if she didnt/doesn't like me, why would she hook up with me? i swear girls are strange as fuck...anyways, my boy and I have decided to oust that group..we aren't gunna kick it with them anymore, or better put, we are gunna lay low for a month or so, we wont contact them unless they call/text us first..and see what happens..sometimes its the time apart that brings things together..or makes you forgotten LOL

 

come on guys, show of hands how many of us have hooked up with girls we didnt like...

 

You guys reaaallllyyy do not want my opinion on all of this whining over chicks...