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Old Mar 14, 2008 | 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted by AkuraCLS
truth hurts sometimes..but i what i dont get if she didnt/doesn't like me, why would she hook up with me? i swear girls are strange as fuck...anyways, my boy and I have decided to oust that group..we aren't gunna kick it with them anymore, or better put, we are gunna lay low for a month or so, we wont contact them unless they call/text us first..and see what happens..sometimes its the time apart that brings things together..or makes you forgotten LOL
Dude....you think guys are the only one that likes sex. Hate to break it to you, but some chicks will hook up with you even if they don't/didn't like you just as much as you would hook up with them without liking them.

Trust me, it ain't the worst thing in the world. It happens.

I still say just lay back and see what happens. If she likes you then it will turn into something. If she doesn't then you are in for some good sex with no strings.
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Old Mar 14, 2008 | 07:20 PM
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Originally Posted by darksom1
You guys reaaallllyyy do not want my opinion on all of this whining over chicks...
..all of us really want to hear it though
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Old Mar 14, 2008 | 09:04 PM
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Originally Posted by 03bl AC k CL
come on guys, show of hands how many of us have hooked up with girls we didnt like...
how about couldnt stand? lol
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Old Mar 17, 2008 | 06:43 PM
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update round 2:

so i got a text from the chick last night wanting to go to dinner with the "group" so i told them maybe..i got a call from another chick that wanted to hang so i went out with her. girl/group1 went to dinner and texted me but i didn't text back, as i was out with the other chick.

this morning girl1 texts me "can you not text message me back anymore?" so i texted her i was busy and how was dinner, and what is she up to. she simply said dinner was good, and sent another text, "mmhmm" so i text her back can i get a translation? and she said no translation, going to gym, ttyl. i didn't text her back and she sent me a text "so is this how its going to be between me and you from now on? i knew you were going to act differntly but i thought things would be the same for the most part. i thought you would want to still hang out but i get the feeling that you dont even want to be friends"

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i haven't texted/called this chick since the last update..if she texts me, i respond, but i dont initiate.

anyways, i sent her a message back and told her that she isn't a priority in my life anymore so i wont drop plans to hang out with her as there is no point in doing so..



annyways, i'm still lost as to handle this situation. i still like the chick but i'm tired of the games and bs, either she wants to be together or she doesn't. Is it so wrong to look at the world as black and white?
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Old Mar 17, 2008 | 06:44 PM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
Dude....you think guys are the only one that likes sex. Hate to break it to you, but some chicks will hook up with you even if they don't/didn't like you just as much as you would hook up with them without liking them.

Trust me, it ain't the worst thing in the world. It happens.

I still say just lay back and see what happens. If she likes you then it will turn into something. If she doesn't then you are in for some good sex with no strings.

i'd agree, if we were fucking..but we werent...just making out..
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Old Mar 17, 2008 | 07:22 PM
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Originally Posted by AkuraCLS
update round 2:

so i got a text from the chick last night wanting to go to dinner with the "group" so i told them maybe..i got a call from another chick that wanted to hang so i went out with her. girl/group1 went to dinner and texted me but i didn't text back, as i was out with the other chick.

this morning girl1 texts me "can you not text message me back anymore?" so i texted her i was busy and how was dinner, and what is she up to. she simply said dinner was good, and sent another text, "mmhmm" so i text her back can i get a translation? and she said no translation, going to gym, ttyl. i didn't text her back and she sent me a text "so is this how its going to be between me and you from now on? i knew you were going to act differntly but i thought things would be the same for the most part. i thought you would want to still hang out but i get the feeling that you dont even want to be friends"

side note:

i haven't texted/called this chick since the last update..if she texts me, i respond, but i dont initiate.

anyways, i sent her a message back and told her that she isn't a priority in my life anymore so i wont drop plans to hang out with her as there is no point in doing so..



annyways, i'm still lost as to handle this situation. i still like the chick but i'm tired of the games and bs, either she wants to be together or she doesn't. Is it so wrong to look at the world as black and white?
When you participate in the game, then you ARE playing the games. If you want normal, then just act normal and leave the gaming to her. Women act coy to feel you out and sometimes string you along to gauge your stamina in putting up with their shit and how much you actually "like" them. If you want a relationship with a woman, let her know what you are and are NOT willing to accept. If they comply, then you proceed. If they don't...then you don't. But there is a gray line whenver you participate in the game, and then want out in the middle. So don't go there, let this one come to you. She will find you, and display her cards good or bad...you'll be able to make your choice then. Her text messages say that she is still interested. Want her on your terms? Then do "you" and not "her".

Assertiveness for what you want, and the mental to stand pat if you don't get it, will win the day here...not SMS...
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Old Mar 18, 2008 | 09:05 AM
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Originally Posted by AkuraCLS
i'd agree, if we were fucking..but we werent...just making out..
OK....then step up your game.
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Old Mar 24, 2008 | 06:44 PM
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update:

i'm fucking stupid as fuck. i wont go into what exactly happened but i shoulda done something i didnt..

GGGGGGRRRRRRRr fuck! whyyyyyyyyyy am i so stupid?!?!?!
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Old Mar 24, 2008 | 07:04 PM
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Originally Posted by AkuraCLS
update:

i'm fucking stupid as fuck. i wont go into what exactly happened but i shoulda done something i didnt..

GGGGGGRRRRRRRr fuck! whyyyyyyyyyy am i so stupid?!?!?!
Don't tell me you didn't strap up with a skeezer??? Dammit! You know we got a creed we live by playboy!!!

Did she at least suck everything off? Don't tell me you wore the disease home with you???
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Old Mar 24, 2008 | 07:16 PM
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lol nah no sex was had, but i gave up a opportunity for REALLY stupid reasons..
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Old Mar 24, 2008 | 07:19 PM
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Turned out to be a tranny?
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Old Mar 24, 2008 | 07:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Mockenrue
Turned out to be a tranny?
Now, now Mockie...that would be a gooooodddd reason! Now if he THOUGHT it was a tranny and it was all woman, with strong features....then that's stupid! Was it that? Or was it really a tranny like Mockie said? Why are you with trannies anyway? How come you picked a tranny over that other chick with a ex? Ok, I give up...how come you didn't fuck the tranny?
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Old Mar 24, 2008 | 07:49 PM
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Originally Posted by AkuraCLS
lol nah no sex was had, but i gave up a opportunity for REALLY stupid reasons..
See Pose 47.
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Old Mar 24, 2008 | 07:55 PM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
See Pose 47.
Even for the tranny?
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Old Mar 24, 2008 | 08:02 PM
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LOL funny ass guys, and no shes not a tranny..you guys are fuckin hella dirty! go change ur name to always dirty #2
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Old Mar 24, 2008 | 08:09 PM
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I wouldn't disrepect the deceased.
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