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Old Sep 9, 2004 | 03:24 PM
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I think I'm in love.

I love her, but from what her friends says, if I tell her, she'll freak out. We've been together for a month now and I'm ready to tell her. How much longer should I wait? I love her smile, her beautiful brown eyes, personality, everything! (Oh, and by the way, I weighed myself this weekend... 200lbs, what the hell happened).

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Old Sep 9, 2004 | 03:31 PM
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she looks about 11...maybe its just the picture
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Old Sep 9, 2004 | 03:38 PM
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she's cute...looks like she knows how to get freaky too
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Old Sep 9, 2004 | 03:38 PM
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Originally Posted by go4heat
she looks about 11...maybe its just the picture
She just turned 18 on Sunday. She's only 5 feet tall.
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Old Sep 9, 2004 | 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted by 2004MT6TL
I love her, but from what her friends says, if I tell her, she'll freak out. We've been together for a month now and I'm ready to tell her. How much longer should I wait? I love her smile, her beautiful brown eyes, personality, everything! (Oh, and by the way, I weighed myself this weekend... 200lbs, what the hell happened).

why would she freak out if you tell her? I mean if she really cares about you, you shouldn't have a problem.

BTW, wern't you the one trying to sell his 04TL. Maybe you should tell her before you sell. j/k. good luck.
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Old Sep 9, 2004 | 04:24 PM
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good.. did u tell her yet?

and dont forget to
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Old Sep 9, 2004 | 04:31 PM
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dude, a month is not long enough to say you "love" someone. maybe if you were friends for so many years before you got with her, but a month? your friend maybe right, she may freak out. try using a different word, try "enjoy". you "enjoy" her, you "enjoy" being with her.

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Old Sep 9, 2004 | 04:37 PM
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Originally Posted by w1n78
dude, a month is not long enough to say you "love" someone. maybe if you were friends for so many years before you got with her, but a month? your friend maybe right, she may freak out. try using a different word, try "enjoy". you "enjoy" her, you "enjoy" being with her.

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Well, I guess "love" means different things to many different people. To me, I'll probaly say it to every girl I really love and date for over a couple of months. To others, maybe only 2 people in their life.
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Old Sep 9, 2004 | 04:44 PM
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Dude any other pictures

j/k man that's your girl much respect hope things work out for you, but ease off the LOVE word, too soon, and too young, listen to lykis 97.1fm learn something from the professor from 4p-8p
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Old Sep 9, 2004 | 04:48 PM
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Tell her you appreciate her, you like her, you want to be with her for a long time.

Its way too early to say you love her, that takes so much time and trust first.
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Old Sep 9, 2004 | 06:41 PM
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Only things I say now are; "You're great." "You're the best." "You make me so happy." "You're wonderful." etc, etc. I need something else to say, it's getting old.
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Old Sep 10, 2004 | 02:57 PM
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Have you tried... your farts smell good??? lol... that always makes them laugh... kinda sick though... But really... you want to know if she like you as much as you like/love her??? Here's a test that works... lol...

THE TRUE LOVE TEST!!!
When you and her are on the couch/bed/floor with a blanket over both of you... pull the blanket over both of your heads all the way so none of your bodies are visable... Then fart the worst fart you can... if she pulls the blanket from over her head and screams and runs off... she does't like you... if she sits there and kisses you or whatever then its love...

I'm married and i know...lol...
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Old Sep 10, 2004 | 08:42 PM
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HAHA what happened to chrstine or is that chrstine?
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Old Sep 11, 2004 | 10:00 AM
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Originally Posted by SRK85
HAHA what happened to chrstine or is that chrstine?
i dont see no difference between chrstine and chrstine above

yeah i want to know what happen to other girl?
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Old Sep 11, 2004 | 02:06 PM
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Originally Posted by AcuraTLjatt559
i dont see no difference between chrstine and chrstine above

yeah i want to know what happen to other girl?
Christine is out of the picture. This is Ashley.
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Old Sep 11, 2004 | 06:27 PM
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She's real cute... 1 month is just enough time to say "I love you"... that's how long I used to wait before I said those magic words. Your a lucky man... I am falling out of love with my gf...
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Old Sep 11, 2004 | 07:00 PM
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HAHA doesnt matter dude they both are/were goodlooking so its all good.
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Old Sep 13, 2004 | 12:16 AM
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I dont wanna seem funny, but at first when I saw that pic, I thought u were trying to be R Kelly, she looks young like 10 or something, but I guess its just the picture.

Its Infactuation my friend, I been thru it, thought I loved her, but its not true love
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Old Sep 13, 2004 | 11:17 AM
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Originally Posted by 2004MT6TL
I need something else to say, it's getting old.
Prob. not the best reason to say "I love you" to a girl. I think those words mean more to women than they do to men, and if you were to break up with her, it will probably come back to bite you in the ass...she will probably say "but you told me you LOVED me!" and burst into tears...'cause that's generally what I do, lol.

If you are really into a girl, sometimes you don't have to say anything at all. But if you are running out of things to say, compliment the specifics, e.g., her hair, things about her personality, etc.
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Old Sep 30, 2004 | 10:50 PM
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hmm 1 month is too short to say "i love u" in my opinion. you can always say something close to that like this: "if i told you i love you in few months from now, would u believe me?" or some shiet.
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Old Oct 4, 2004 | 09:01 PM
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Dude, if she lets you put in her butt....Then you can tell her. LOL
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Old Oct 5, 2004 | 01:45 AM
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any update?
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Old Oct 5, 2004 | 08:12 PM
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one month and this nigga wants to profess his love??? man, what a fag.... I though guys were scared to say I love you???
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Old Oct 5, 2004 | 08:14 PM
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she is cute though...
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Old Oct 10, 2004 | 04:09 AM
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Originally Posted by 2004MT6TL
I love her, but from what her friends says, if I tell her, she'll freak out. We've been together for a month now and I'm ready to tell her. How much longer should I wait? I love her smile, her beautiful brown eyes, personality, everything! (Oh, and by the way, I weighed myself this weekend... 200lbs, what the hell happened).

well i hope ya taste the milk before ya buy the cow ? one month way too soon !
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Old Oct 18, 2004 | 11:03 AM
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yo its too soon.. dont do it.. I mean. dont get me wrong. i know you might feel it. But you said it yourself. To you it might mean something else since you stated that you say it to all the girls that you have been with for a month or 2. So its probably not REAL LOVE. its just a " damn i LOVE being with this girl" and tthats it.. not IN LOVE!!
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Old Oct 18, 2004 | 11:05 AM
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BTW... what beach is that. that shit has too many rocks to be on the ground or walk barefoot. WTF... how do you do it? the beaches here in miami are all sand..
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 01:23 PM
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LOVE IS A WORD THAT IS THROWN AROUND TO MUCH
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Old Nov 12, 2004 | 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted by 2004MT6TL
Only things I say now are; "You're great." "You're the best." "You make me so happy." "You're wonderful." etc, etc. I need something else to say, it's getting old.
I said these same things to my...............................car! Dude you need to chill out, you got a 04 TL and you wanna go through all this with a girl that just turned 18...

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Old Nov 20, 2004 | 08:26 PM
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Dont rush!!
I learned that the hard way a couple months ago. She wont even talk to me now!!
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Old Nov 30, 2004 | 12:29 AM
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Originally Posted by GunnmeTaLCURA04
BTW... what beach is that. that shit has too many rocks to be on the ground or walk barefoot. WTF... how do you do it? the beaches here in miami are all sand..
Ventura (50 miles north of Santa Monica), we have a south facing beach with some of the roughest waters in the world. There are sandy beaches north and south of us. If you think that is a lot of rocks, you should see the mounds of boulders after storms. BTW... I broke up with her, bitch was still going out with her ex-boyfriend, thanks for the advice.
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Old Nov 30, 2004 | 08:40 PM
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I just came across this thread and I am getting red x's on 2004MT6TL's avatar and his posted pics. The weird thing is everyone else can see except me. Does anyone here know why I am getting it? Its weird b\c majority of posted pics I can see, but there also a few that those red x's show up. Thanks...
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Old Dec 2, 2004 | 07:57 PM
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No one can marry in their early 20"s. Dont give up your life for some girl. Ive seen too many people throw away colleges and their life for some girl. But in the end the girl leaves and you wasted your life. Wait a little bit and if you still love eachother then get married. But if she just turning 18 and your 19 thats way too young.

EDIT: I didnt read all the messages. Damn that sucks what a bitch. o well fuck her and move on their is still plenty of hot girls in cali.
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Old Dec 3, 2004 | 12:30 AM
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wait 3 months, thats how long i waited and got good action that nite
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