SRK85

Due to lack of interesting topics in the dating and relationship. Anyways theres a cute girl here in my program from Alabama and I want to make a move. However I still can't tell if this girl likes me, she usually mean to me in playful why and always gets close to me anytime we walk anywhere. Anyways I figured I would create another thread about this. You can flame me, make fun, give me advice, or even encouragement. I don't are but the lack of quality of topics is killing me. Also I plan on asking out on a date tomorrow.

SwervinCL

Well, asking her on a date would probably be a good first step in finding out her feeling sfor you.

Give us an update when you get one.

teh CL

iTrader: (1)

yea man go for it and see what happens, what do you have to lose

crazyasiantl

iTrader: (7)

go for it..the worst thing that could happen is that she'll say no. if thats the case, see if theres anyone else that catches your attention

Gnate

iTrader: (10)

do it. Chew it.

RMATIC09

Just make it clear that you are physically interested in her, which you will by asking her out. The longer you wait, the longer you increase your chances of ending up on the ladder.

97BlackAckCL

iTrader: (6)

Friends ladder FTL, make sure u make your intentions clear like rmatic said and hopefully she feels the same way

Scottman111

And keep in mind that no matter how pro-active you are, some girls just might not be interested in you in that way. It happens to everybody, so don't sweat it and move on asap to another prospect if that is the case. Just read the signs and trust your instincts.

Anyways, why are you hitting on an Alabama girl when you are surrounded by millions of Polish skanks!?!

teh CL

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CL-Slick

iTrader: (7)

Dude, seriously just ask her what she thought about Alabama's football team. Most people from Alabama, that's all they talk about. From there get to know some more about her!

litesout

^Obligatory

Just do it. How's she supposed to know you're interested if you don't? And if she's interested, great. If not, well at least you know.

phee

iTrader: (5)

start by asking her to take some pitures for you.

then post them on acurazine.

we will decide if shes worth it

CLtotheTL32

iTrader: (3)

^

Go for it man. Like others have said, you have nothing to lose. If she's as interested as she seems, she won't turn you down

SRK85

Polish girls aren't here yet because classes don't start until October 1st.

teh CL

iTrader: (1)

you make a move yet or what?

SRK85

Not yet my professor is still not back from some conference so the class we have together was canceled today. So tomorrow I will right after my 5 hour class. But don't worry it will be done by the end of week.

Scottman111

So she has a class with you every day? That could suck now and in the future.

SRK85

No we only have one class together currently and that class takes place twice a week.

teh CL

iTrader: (1)

5 hour class??

and i thought my 3 hour classes were bad enough

SRK85

Professor had class scheduled for today but canceled it now we have make up class tomorrow right after our normal class.

Scottman111

What University are you at?

teh CL

iTrader: (1)

i getcha and that blows lol

SRK85

Jagiellonian University in Krakow, Poland

doopstr

Ask her out next time you see her. Make sure you at least get a kiss out of her before the date is over.

amisconception

The fact that you're asking for advice about her specifically shows to me that your desire for her is too high, and your judgment is probably cloudy.

Is she on a ballet or fashion forum asking about when some guy (you) is going to ask her out? I bet you not. Think about that next time you hesitate to get a girl's number, ask her out or generally just take this all too serious.

You want to be the guy that she thinks about, that she wonders if you're into her or not. You want her to be anxious, nervous, and generally uneasy but filled with desire and interest. Know that when you're asking about a particular girl, in this way, the balance of power is in her favor. You have to overcome a substantial mental block here, and that's your lack of self-confidence.

What you can do, in the future, to make the most out of picking girls up, is crash and burn (if it ends that way so be it), and then ask a friend or forum members for advice on how you could have improved the interaction to best maximize future results.

Most people that ask for advice on a specific girl never get that girl. Keep that in mind and try to internalize the reason for why that dynamic practically always turns out the same way.

Advice in a nutshell: Be cocky and funny, don't be overly nice just because you think that's what girls like, by your best self, and minimize collateral damage by not asking her out in front of other girls in your class that may interest you.

teh CL

iTrader: (1)

nicely put..

aznboi2424

iTrader: (10)

that nice shit dont get you nowhere. Believe me, 20 years of being nice has only gotten me a crap load of girl friends. Girls like confidence is key, although it looks like the girl is pretty into you already.