Dating & Relationships Love sucks. Now you can cry about it…

Hot chick with kid: Should I go for it?

Thread Tools
 
Old 12-10-2008 | 04:08 PM
  #81  
imj0257's Avatar
Thread Starter
Q('.')=O
iTrader: (1)
 
Joined: Feb 2008
Posts: 23,524
Likes: 721
From: DFW, TX
Originally Posted by Mike 350Z
Did she give you her # before or after you tipped her?
Before. I see where you are going with this... lol
I gave her something like a $5 tip on a $20 tab. 25% is good enough to me, if she was expecting more, too bad. But like dark said, she did text me back, but only after the first time

Originally Posted by darksom1
o tell you the truth, unless she told him and he didn't post it, I believe he can still hit it...


...naaaaahhhh...lol
naaa

Last edited by imj0257; 12-10-2008 at 04:11 PM.
Old 12-10-2008 | 07:19 PM
  #82  
darksom1's Avatar
~Da Nocturnal Cheetah~
 
Joined: Aug 2006
Posts: 6,798
Likes: 4
From: Germantown, MD
Originally Posted by imj0257
Before. I see where you are going with this... lol
I gave her something like a $5 tip on a $20 tab. 25% is good enough to me, if she was expecting more, too bad. But like dark said, she did text me back, but only after the first time


naaa
I tip 20%. Some women I dated tip lower. Why are women like that? Hahaha...
Old 12-12-2008 | 12:46 AM
  #83  
poisx7's Avatar
Three Wheelin'
iTrader: (1)
 
Joined: Nov 2003
Posts: 1,558
Likes: 4
From: DARK ALLY
Originally Posted by amisconception


First of all, it's just a phone number man. Girls give out phone numbers to a lot of guys, especially if they're smart and attractive. Let's focus on building some more comfort, rapport, and attraction by asking her out on a fun date. Don't get ahead of yourself and start picking out your favorite Sade records.

Most hot girls can afford to string along beta-males to supplement ther income (via free dinners/xmas gifts/etc.). They validate her ago, and serve as an emotional tampon for times when her alpha-male asshole fuck-buddy stands her up.

If she's hot she commands a certain amount of male attention she could use to advance whatever goals she's willing to accomplish. She doesn't just sound hot she also sounds very feminine (cute and girly) - the type to get the avereage guy to fall for her in no time (assuming she's not psychotic or too calculating). She would be dumb to squander her power (her looks) on you for no particular reason. She's near the peak of her sexual marketability (21 years old is young). Do you really think women aren't calculating or at least somewhat conscious of their marketability?

Anyhow that's just basic hot girl dynamics.

Unless you're a bad ass alpha male with no problem pumping and dumping then I would say just have fun running game on her. Children complicate matters to an extent that would otherwise cause a perfectly desirable man to run as fast as he possibly could. I personally would not let myself get close to her. I would be very cautious of her behavior in relation to what she wants from men.
great advice.
Old 12-12-2008 | 10:41 AM
  #84  
Miisz Chelly's Avatar
Filipina
 
Joined: Aug 2008
Posts: 95
Likes: 0
From: Woodbridge, VA
Oh my. Is this how men really feel?
Old 12-12-2008 | 11:06 AM
  #85  
darksom1's Avatar
~Da Nocturnal Cheetah~
 
Joined: Aug 2006
Posts: 6,798
Likes: 4
From: Germantown, MD
Originally Posted by Miisz Chelly
Oh my. Is this how men really feel?
Give us your counter to what Amis said...
Old 12-12-2008 | 01:34 PM
  #86  
imj0257's Avatar
Thread Starter
Q('.')=O
iTrader: (1)
 
Joined: Feb 2008
Posts: 23,524
Likes: 721
From: DFW, TX
Ha, went back there last night with my buddy to watch more football and basketball. We are talking with this new waitress and then I learn she and I went to the same high school and grew up near one another so we start talking more about random stuff (but I didn't really hit on her cus she was 19 and my friend was like na that is too young don't even try lol). Anyways as we are chatting that girl from last week shows up in regular clothes to get her check and sees us talking and comes and chats with the girl and takes a seat at our table. So she says heeeyyyy and I'm like hi and keep chatting with the other waitress and watching the game and she keeps interrupting us and trying to join the convo, but failing. Some girls are just impossible to understand.
Old 12-12-2008 | 04:14 PM
  #87  
ZeroCL's Avatar
W WHIP.
 
Joined: Jun 2006
Posts: 3,859
Likes: 1
From: 412, PA & always ballin in FLO RIDA.
so then stop being a douche and hit it.

then post pics. havent you learned already? shes chasing YOU now, so now its your turn. dont fuck it up.
Old 12-12-2008 | 04:14 PM
  #88  
Mike 350Z's Avatar
Suzuka Master
 
Joined: Aug 2003
Posts: 5,124
Likes: 0
From: MD
Edit: meant for OP: ^^^Not really, she saw you flexing your pimp muscles now, so now she wants in on that

BTW, don't listen to your boy...nothing wrong with 19 yr olds
Old 12-12-2008 | 04:18 PM
  #89  
greco9885's Avatar
Drifting
iTrader: (1)
 
Joined: Oct 2008
Posts: 2,587
Likes: 2
From: long island, new york
im 20 and i hate 18/19 year olds...they are dumb and you cant even go anywhere with them(events that are 21+ aka all good clubs)

edit: i know im 20 but i still get in for 21 because i work at alot of clubs and met alot of people through my work
Old 12-12-2008 | 04:46 PM
  #90  
imj0257's Avatar
Thread Starter
Q('.')=O
iTrader: (1)
 
Joined: Feb 2008
Posts: 23,524
Likes: 721
From: DFW, TX
na im not gonna go after her shes not worth it.
Old 12-12-2008 | 05:48 PM
  #91  
ZeroCL's Avatar
W WHIP.
 
Joined: Jun 2006
Posts: 3,859
Likes: 1
From: 412, PA & always ballin in FLO RIDA.
Originally Posted by greco9885
im 20 and i hate 18/19 year olds...they are dumb and you cant even go anywhere with them(events that are 21+ aka all good clubs)

edit: i know im 20 but i still get in for 21 because i work at alot of clubs and met alot of people through my work
then be a boss and get them in as 21. thats what i do.

haha no, seriously. although most girls I talk to are 21+ and I'm 19. Yeah..i dont know how that works.
Old 12-12-2008 | 05:59 PM
  #92  
greco9885's Avatar
Drifting
iTrader: (1)
 
Joined: Oct 2008
Posts: 2,587
Likes: 2
From: long island, new york
keyword in my post: hate
Old 12-12-2008 | 06:27 PM
  #93  
ZeroCL's Avatar
W WHIP.
 
Joined: Jun 2006
Posts: 3,859
Likes: 1
From: 412, PA & always ballin in FLO RIDA.
well besides that they are 'dumb', not being able to go to clubs with them seemed like more of a reason why you 'hated' them. Thats why I said what I said.
Old 12-12-2008 | 07:20 PM
  #94  
darksom1's Avatar
~Da Nocturnal Cheetah~
 
Joined: Aug 2006
Posts: 6,798
Likes: 4
From: Germantown, MD
Originally Posted by imj0257
na im not gonna go after her shes not worth it.
Go after her?

I think you got confused along the way here. The initial thing was to go have sex with her. All of your reasons for not getting with this girl revolve around deeper thoughts. You are not interested in the type of broad she is. You don't care that she has a kid...just hit it!! Her, the 19 year old...somebody...just hit it...stop caring so much about them and their flaws and just smash them!

If you go in to a Pizza Hut, and there is this fine ass waitress in there giving you the eye, you don't take into account where she works, how many kids she has, her IQ, and all other things that I would label extrinsic, and not fuck her!!! She wants to have sex with you! Stop sizing her up and just do it...

By the way, freezing the broad out of the convo shows her that she struck a negative chord with you in the way she handled you. Not a good move, and not called for. I see no reason why you can't fuck them both. Especially since one is chomping at the bit...
Old 12-12-2008 | 09:10 PM
  #95  
greco9885's Avatar
Drifting
iTrader: (1)
 
Joined: Oct 2008
Posts: 2,587
Likes: 2
From: long island, new york
i should clear up what i said...id bang a 18/19yo girl but nothing more...and i agree with darksom...original girl gave u a "play" because she didnt just walk in and ignore u
Old 12-12-2008 | 09:25 PM
  #96  
Cocoa's Avatar
2600lb CL
iTrader: (2)
 
Joined: Nov 2003
Posts: 9,941
Likes: 112
From: TX
When you see a $20 bill on the floor, do you pick it up?

You can do it! All night longgggg!!!!!
Old 12-12-2008 | 09:28 PM
  #97  
Cocoa's Avatar
2600lb CL
iTrader: (2)
 
Joined: Nov 2003
Posts: 9,941
Likes: 112
From: TX
You have my number dont you? We can get together for the Giants/Cowboys game. My friend and I haven't decided on which bar to go. Guess this one could be worth it
Old 12-12-2008 | 09:48 PM
  #98  
darksom1's Avatar
~Da Nocturnal Cheetah~
 
Joined: Aug 2006
Posts: 6,798
Likes: 4
From: Germantown, MD
Originally Posted by Cocoa
You have my number dont you? We can get together for the Giants/Cowboys game. My friend and I haven't decided on which bar to go. Guess this one could be worth it
Somebody go fuck this girl and represent AZ dammit!
Old 12-12-2008 | 10:02 PM
  #99  
ZeroCL's Avatar
W WHIP.
 
Joined: Jun 2006
Posts: 3,859
Likes: 1
From: 412, PA & always ballin in FLO RIDA.
Originally Posted by darksom1
Somebody go fuck this girl and represent AZ dammit!
and atleast get pictures so we can see what all the bitchin is about.
Old 12-13-2008 | 12:58 AM
  #100  
imj0257's Avatar
Thread Starter
Q('.')=O
iTrader: (1)
 
Joined: Feb 2008
Posts: 23,524
Likes: 721
From: DFW, TX
lawl. let me go stalk myspace and see if i can find her and if she has a pic hah. oh man....:
Old 12-13-2008 | 11:48 AM
  #101  
anarchy[sear]'s Avatar
KICKED IN THE BALLS
iTrader: (1)
 
Joined: Aug 2008
Posts: 1,225
Likes: 0
From: San Diego, CA/Pittsburgh,PA
Originally Posted by imj0257
no i didnt actually say "whatever" i said something like "ahh cool well have fun at the party". i know, lame. but ive never hit on a hooters type chick before lol
Your reponse to her was a close ended statment. "ahh cool well have fun at the party" WTF what did you want her to say back to you??? Girl "ok i will" then what are you gonna say to that. You always want to keep conversation going somehow if you are interested.

I do agree with most pick up the phone after a couple text, text her or something and say I'll call you sometime this week to see if you want to go out and do something. QUIT GOING TO HER WORK TO TRY TO ASK HER TO DO SOMETHING!!!!!!!!!
Old 12-13-2008 | 08:01 PM
  #102  
1Louder's Avatar
Old Man Yelling at Clouds
 
Joined: Apr 2007
Posts: 16,973
Likes: 7,362
From: Seattle, WA
Originally Posted by Miisz Chelly
Oh my. Is this how men really feel?
To say that all women fit that description would be overstating it by quite a bit. However they are out there - probably more than anyone would care to admit.
Old 12-13-2008 | 10:35 PM
  #103  
Razzi's Avatar
T-Swzy
 
Joined: Jun 2007
Posts: 2,575
Likes: 0
From: Saint Paul, MN
Originally Posted by imj0257
lawl. let me go stalk myspace and see if i can find her and if she has a pic hah. oh man....:
dude are you seriously 24? call her up, say you don't remember whose number that is, have her send you a pic so you can confirm who you're talking to. something

you got 1 hot piece of ass who gave you a number. you played it, as most would agree, wrong, but it seemed to work. maybe she took it as you were playing hard to get. maybe it's been so damn long since she got some, every guy whom she mentions a kid to freaks out and runs away, and all she wants is some loving.

then you got this 19 year old you're also chattin with, and you also have a boy with you. at the worst, you'd have foursome. as far as i can tell, there's no difference between a 19 and a 21 year old when they're horizontal and screaming obscenities.

just play it. talk to her and take her out to a cheap movie. completely uninteresting one where the only other activity would be to...ahem..

worst case scenario, you're back to square one. i mean damn, procrastination is just like masturbation man. it seems like a good idea at the time, but in the end you're only fucking yourself.
Old 12-15-2008 | 10:28 AM
  #104  
imj0257's Avatar
Thread Starter
Q('.')=O
iTrader: (1)
 
Joined: Feb 2008
Posts: 23,524
Likes: 721
From: DFW, TX
Annddd here we go. guys... wow. im not fucking calling her up or texting her again. i've got better stuff to do than try to get with her; like going out to bars and talking with other girls that don't have kids. yea it could have been one night with a hot piece of ass but it has passed and there will be plenty more chances in the future. k bi.
Old 12-26-2008 | 12:48 PM
  #105  
JT Money's Avatar
Drifting
 
Joined: Jan 2005
Posts: 2,435
Likes: 0
From: Charlotte, NC
Word of wisdom in this thread .I'm facing somewhat similar circumstances. However, critical errors will not be made and victory pictures shall be posted. . . .
Old 01-01-2009 | 10:49 AM
  #106  
davidspalding's Avatar
Make a hole, coming thru!
 
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 2,945
Likes: 15
From: Somewhere between 70 and 125 mph
Some GUYS are just impossible to understand

Originally Posted by imj0257
Ha, went back there last night with my buddy to watch more football and basketball. We are talking with this new waitress and then I learn she and I went to the same high school and grew up near one another so we start talking more about random stuff (but I didn't really hit on her cus she was 19 and my friend was like na that is too young don't even try lol). Anyways as we are chatting that girl from last week shows up in regular clothes to get her check and sees us talking and comes and chats with the girl and takes a seat at our table. So she says heeeyyyy and I'm like hi and keep chatting with the other waitress and watching the game and she keeps interrupting us and trying to join the convo, but failing. Some girls are just impossible to understand.
WTF? Sounds like she wanted to talk to you. And your problem with this is...? Get over yourself and give the girl a chance.

I must've missed the post where you divulged that this girl has bad breath or is a known slut or has an overpowering need to turn potential bfs into surrogate Daddies.
Related Topics
Thread
Thread Starter
Forum
Replies
Last Post
rockyboy
2G RDX (2013-2018)
171
08-04-2024 10:35 AM
SidhuSaaB
3G TL Problems & Fixes
18
05-30-2020 12:40 AM
mlody
5G TLX (2015-2020)
85
12-04-2019 02:11 PM
Kres43
1G RDX (2007-2012)
3
10-03-2015 07:16 PM
hashbrown
4G TL (2009-2014)
2
09-29-2015 12:13 PM



Quick Reply: Hot chick with kid: Should I go for it?



All times are GMT -5. The time now is 08:24 AM.