Hot chick with kid: Should I go for it?
12-05-2008, 10:53 AM
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Hot chick with kid: Should I go for it?
Went up to Winghouse last night to watch football n have some beers with a buddy (btw for those that don't know, winghouse is basically a hooters but imo better food, more tvs, better beer specials). Anyways our waitress, who said she is 21, and I were talking a lot and we definitely hit if off. So then, and I dunno how this came up, she says she has a kid (dunno how old) and I was thinking ahh umm hmm. But she was so hot and I was in that mood that I was like fuck it and asked for her number, which she willingly gave 
. She doesn't seem like the slutty type (could be wrong cus of the kid 
) but she is that awesome mix of cuteness & hotness into one. Anyways, should I actually try to get with her or not? I was just thinking maybe a bang here a bang there but def dont wanna get too close cus of the kid.
BTW: I DO NOT HAVE PICS SO DON'T ASK LAWL
Any input?
. She doesn't seem like the slutty type (could be wrong cus of the kid ) but she is that awesome mix of cuteness & hotness into one. Anyways, should I actually try to get with her or not? I was just thinking maybe a bang here a bang there but def dont wanna get too close cus of the kid.BTW: I DO NOT HAVE PICS SO DON'T ASK LAWL
Any input?
12-05-2008, 10:58 AM
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Yes....God yes.
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12-05-2008, 12:04 PM
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Be aware that many have probably hit it and quit in in front of you so bag it.
12-05-2008, 12:32 PM
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You probably will be among a line of others, be careful.
12-05-2008, 12:54 PM
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I'm Down Right Fierce!
In the not so wise words of the DR troll, "Dayam sun, if that was me, I'd be all up on dat azz. You best be all up on dat azz in two minutes or else I'll be on it fo sho."
Edit: But in all honesty, Kens right. I'm willing to bet there are more guys out there.
Edit: But in all honesty, Kens right. I'm willing to bet there are more guys out there.
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12-05-2008, 06:11 PM
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First of all, it's just a phone number man. Girls give out phone numbers to a lot of guys, especially if they're smart and attractive. Let's focus on building some more comfort, rapport, and attraction by asking her out on a fun date. Don't get ahead of yourself and start picking out your favorite Sade records.
Most hot girls can afford to string along beta-males to supplement ther income (via free dinners/xmas gifts/etc.). They validate her ago, and serve as an emotional tampon for times when her alpha-male asshole fuck-buddy stands her up.
If she's hot she commands a certain amount of male attention she could use to advance whatever goals she's willing to accomplish. She doesn't just sound hot she also sounds very feminine (cute and girly) - the type to get the avereage guy to fall for her in no time (assuming she's not psychotic or too calculating). She would be dumb to squander her power (her looks) on you for no particular reason. She's near the peak of her sexual marketability (21 years old is young). Do you really think women aren't calculating or at least somewhat conscious of their marketability?
Anyhow that's just basic hot girl dynamics.
Unless you're a bad ass alpha male with no problem pumping and dumping then I would say just have fun running game on her. Children complicate matters to an extent that would otherwise cause a perfectly desirable man to run as fast as he possibly could. I personally would not let myself get close to her. I would be very cautious of her behavior in relation to what she wants from men.
12-05-2008, 06:38 PM
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Thanks for the wise words amis. I know it is just a number and I'm not getting my hopes up. I don't plan on anything serious or to spend money on her - I'm in it for the 
. If anything I'd take her out one night, nothing expensive, and see where it goes from there. But maybe it is just me, but she honestly didn't seem like the type of girl that would use a guy for $. I know that type you are talking about and I've had a few experiences with them myself, but she seemed more natural and down to Earth. Then again, I could be wrong. Oh well, I guess we'll see.
. If anything I'd take her out one night, nothing expensive, and see where it goes from there. But maybe it is just me, but she honestly didn't seem like the type of girl that would use a guy for $. I know that type you are talking about and I've had a few experiences with them myself, but she seemed more natural and down to Earth. Then again, I could be wrong. Oh well, I guess we'll see.
12-05-2008, 08:08 PM
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Stop all of this planning and thinking. If you like her then try to fuck her. If she doesn't go for it then move on. There is nothing to talk about here. Makes no difference if they have a kid or not. If you think you can fuck her then go for it. If not, then back off.
Funny as shit if all she wanted to do is fuck you and is wondering why you haven't called her yet...women do that too you know...except they lose interest after a while...
Good luck!
Funny as shit if all she wanted to do is fuck you and is wondering why you haven't called her yet...women do that too you know...except they lose interest after a while...
Good luck!
12-05-2008, 08:16 PM
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Note: In the last year...I have fucked two broads with 3 kids, and one broad with 2 kids. One of the broads with 3 kids, I have never met her kids. Met the other one's kids sparingly, and I am very close to the 2 kids of the other chick. Pussy was good all the way around from all. No love affair.
A good mother is not going to let you come around her kids straight out the gate anyway, so you may be worrying about nothing here.
She just may want to have some fun man. Imagine that...Get in where you fit in...
A good mother is not going to let you come around her kids straight out the gate anyway, so you may be worrying about nothing here.
She just may want to have some fun man. Imagine that...Get in where you fit in...
12-05-2008, 10:04 PM
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<---- just came here to read darksom1's posts. 
12-05-2008, 10:23 PM
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I will never ever stand in the way of a dude getting his man! Responses are gonna be positive reinforcement when it comes to getting up in dem guts!
Doesn't matter at all about the kid. He isn't interested in a relationship with her because she has a kid, so the kid doesn't matter.
Thus, on with the show...for after all...there is no one that the proper attitude can't render fuckable!
Doesn't matter at all about the kid. He isn't interested in a relationship with her because she has a kid, so the kid doesn't matter.
Thus, on with the show...for after all...there is no one that the proper attitude can't render fuckable!
12-05-2008, 11:32 PM
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Well I'ma call her tomorrow. But then again she said she is working tomorrow. So should I text her instead since she prolly can't answer her phone on her shift? Paging darksom...
12-05-2008, 11:54 PM
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Nothing about you were thinking about her or stuff like that. 
Tell her to hit you back or call you when she gets a chance! 
She will appreciate it breaking the monotony of dudes trying to grab her ass in the bar!
12-06-2008, 12:32 AM
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Yes, but only because she likes you and has shown at least some interest at this point. If you do text her, make it something funny. Nothing about you were thinking about her or stuff like that. Tell her to hit you back or call you when she gets a chance!
She will appreciate it breaking the monotony of dudes trying to grab her ass in the bar!
Nothing about you were thinking about her or stuff like that. Tell her to hit you back or call you when she gets a chance! She will appreciate it breaking the monotony of dudes trying to grab her ass in the bar!
My thoughts exactly. Its cool to text, but don't sound too desperate or like you have nothing else to do but think about her or she'll sense weakness/desperation and you'll never have any leverage. I get a lot of attention from women by being funny (according to them) and by being honest for the most part. When the time is right, let her know what you want and what you don't want, if she wants the same...good deal
If not, don't waste anymore time, move on, but don't burn that bridge, she might change her mind later and give you what you want if play it right.
12-06-2008, 10:17 AM
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been there, done that. 2 of my exs had kids. if a girl has a kid, shes not g/f material. i'm not gonna father some kid that i didn't create. thats just baby daddy drama bullshit! no thanks. sure ill hit it, but thats it. right now i'm talkin to a chick that has a kid but im only in it for the vag lol
12-06-2008, 04:40 PM
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Dooo it! You got nothing to lose. Just don't get emotionally attached unless you want an "instant family." I wouldn't even spring for dinner the first date, meet up for drinks and keep it on the d.l.
12-06-2008, 11:16 PM
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I went back tonight cus they were showing the de la hoya pachiouaouacua fight and texted her but she said she didnt want to wrk that night to deal with all the bullshit that guys bring in for fight nights. w/e. she says shes goin to a friends party im like w/e cool have fun. - no reply back from that
fail already? or is there still a chance?
fuck it i dont care
fail already? or is there still a chance?
fuck it i dont care
12-07-2008, 02:56 AM
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~Da Nocturnal Cheetah~
Did you really say w/e to all her responses? It is ok to think that, but it is not ok to say it to someone you are just meeting that you want to have sex with. Especially someone hot. I'm not saying run after her, just don't give the impression that you are disinterested. Why try at all if that's so, see the point? When you have a hot chick working in a Hooters type place show you interest, I don't think it's in your best interest to show no interest, not if you want her to remain interested...
You don't have to jump all over her, but you don't have to give the impression that you don't care either. Why one extreme or the other anyway? Is there no middle ground? Yes! Let's see: not interested - middle ground - in love. Know what the middle ground is? Fucking. Get in where you fit in...
12-07-2008, 10:26 AM
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