Alright, to make a VERY VERY long story short (some of the TSX guys might remember what I'm talking about), I had a thing for this girl towards the end of school last year, and we ended up going to the same college. Now, over summer I tried to get into contact with her a couple of times to no avail. I'd seen her at school a couple of times, and each time she seemed rather eager to until I died, but schedules didn't allow it. I hadn't seen her in about four months, and figured she was out of my life for good, probably for the better.

Today, I'm walking to my next class and who do I see? Yep, it's her talking to someone else. I did my best to just keep walking past her (not very easy with my size), not even looking in her direction, but she bascially jumped in front of me and pulled me over to her. She held out her arms and I gave her a hug, and it turns out we were walking the same direction . So when everything is said and done I'm left with a kiss and her new phone number.

Question is, should I just continue to go about my business and ignore the fact that today ever happened, or should I give it another shot? She joined a sorority, I can't believe that it's Tri Delt, but whatever, so I mean that could be oppotunities to see her. I do still like this girl, even though I don't want to admit it, but I'm just not sure if it's worth trying to rekindle anything.


Any thoughts/comments/opinons?

 

just call her and let her take your virginity

 

You're single and in college.

Why would you want to deal with someone that blew you off before?

Take things as they come. If she wants you she'll find you. It doesn't sound like an effort should be made from you to her.

IMHO, I'd concentrate on the other million women walking around campus.

 

obvioiusly she's interested in someway, romantic or not. she did talk to him and kiss him and hug him and gave him her number. so she either wanna be friends or more than friends. what harm is there if he keeps in touch and see where it goes?

minchy cannot focus on the thousands of girls around him. he's just not capable.

 

Well, she did initiate today's conversation......I would have honestly just kept walking had she not stopped me

 

ok, the hug/kiss/number combo is a good start but doesn't necessarily mean she wants something more. You're doing better than most guys who reallly like a girl and blow things out of proportion.

I'd say take things slow as to not scare her off and just see what happens (find a place where you can meet her and her friends with you and your friends at some party or something). If she's diggin you then press a little harder, ask her if she wants to hang out.

best advice i can give you is just be chill and if she really wants more she will make a move probably.

 

Is this true?

Minch, you're in college. Enjoy it!

 

Minch... use her. Then don't talk to her again.

It's college, and chicks like that aren't worth the time... use her for a nightcap.

Junkster, who learned not to be lured into a chase game with a woman

 

Sheesh...

All I can say is that when I first met girls in college, they all said they already had bfs "back home" and were not interested in dating. Less than 2 wks later, all these girls had new bfs. So keep your mind open!

 

You are in college, stop looking for marriage material and just

 

Dude, Minch...this is the tale that never ends...

Regardless, give it a shot. Worst comes to worse, she's not interested in a relationship so you two stay friends.

Besides, you're in college now. What have you got to lose? There are plenty of girls anyway.

 

go for it. DUH.

 

Do it Minchy You really don't have anything to lose if you're just looking to get laid. Just be careful where your feelings are concerned

 

Go for it dude, you have nothing to lose from it; if anything you have something to gain a lot of other girls, sorority. Give her a call tell her you want to hang out. See where it goes. If you guys end up being friends move on to some of her sorority sisters.

good luck man

 

 

beware the attention whore minchy...

give her another shot, but if she flakes on you drop her like a bad habit

 

Meh, I'll call her in like a week...........

 

Try not to say things like "history is an endless waltz" if at possible in the conversation...or any conversation

Otherwise. Go get em Tiger

 

Well, minch, you do have very good skills, so I think there is a definite possibility. I'd try to fuck her, and see where it goes. You're in college now, you gotta just go for it.

Remember, the word for you is 'LEGS'. Now go try to spread the word.

 

Eh...give her a call... If you don't get a hold of her, leave her a message with your # and wait for her to call back. If she doesn't, I'm sure you two will talk again at school...don't sit and wait for her though, just continue on with what you're doing until you two talk again.

 

Straight to the A

 

Damn, shouldn't he at least buy her dinner before that?

Go for it - maybe not in as crass terms as has been posted, but she blew you off once, she will again. Hit it and forget it unless she really means something to you, then buyer beware.

 

Get her drunk have sex with her for old time sakes and then just ignore her.

 

so that's the only way you get to score huh?

 

Lol are just have sex with her. Without the drunkness

 

word the that

 

For those that care (probably no one at this point), I've seen her at least once a week since starting this thread, for just a brief conversation in the halls, and I gave her a call this afternoon and left a message. If she calls back, yay, if not, :whocares:

 

yay, at least u got up the courage to call