Oh SHit!! She wasn't im class, I forgot to let ya'll know. I was Pissed, I was looking forward to seeing her there

 

I met my husband at a club. 9 years, 2 beautiful kids, and a lot of shared success later... Just sayin.

 

^i like jane, already.

 

LMAO I mean, There are decent people who go to the club. I am one of them... Its just the setting and meeting someone you want somewhat of a future with is hard to meet at these places. I don't say its Impossible, I just say its hard to do. Cause all the good ones are usually taken and with there men at the clubs.

@Just... I see her today, Hopefully I can snag a pic

 

^its because of the setting. bars and clubs are meant for hookups..


dont get introuble trying to take that pic, we're just joking....
but if you can!

 

Ha Ha, Cool. Yeah Its gonna be weird me asking for her pic but my phones shutter is on silence so if i can get a chance Ill take one for the Team and snap a shot!

 

I've never understood the "don't think you're going to meet a good person at a bar or club" mentality.


How many "socially normal" people of age do you know that haven't been to a bar or club in their life?


You can tell a whole lot about a person by looking at them, and even more by talking to them for a few minutes. Very easy to spot the good from the bad.


(And Mafyoso I'm not trying to single you out on this because I've heard people say that a million times)

 

I understand. This is what I see at the Club... Good Looking Sexy Girls acting a fool and dancing sometimes real slutty all over man after man. I see this A LOT, I go clubbing maybe 3-4 times a week and sometimes to 2-3 clubs in a night. I do this cause my boys are promoters and get me in free when ever I go hang out with them. My opinion is that I rather see these same girls else where. Somewhere there isn't alcohol or even other guys tryna pick up the same girl at the same time. Im not tryna knock all girls that go clubbing and say its all of them, But a majority of the pretty ones I may say. I just rather meet someone outside the club where we are both sober and aren't like wild animals tryna get into each others pants because of the alcohol. That's all and i totally agree with you. I love to observe a female and really see her personality like you said. You really get a good understanding by doing this. But the girls I do observe at clubs don't really grab my attention except sexually when shes showing all her goods. Bars and Lounges are better tho, Because everyone is in a more laid back mood, but Clubs it sometimes a different story.

 

well said, you sir are respectable

 

^^Off Topic Real quick but Man I love your Avatar, I hope that's you lol

 

Well said son.

 

I hear ya, and agree with everything


I'm not much of a club person (never really was), but your last sentence is very true.

 

And the thread title keeps reminding me of the beginning of "Over Now" by Alice in Chains

 

You go to clubs 3-4 nights a week? If the majority of your nights are out at a place where you DON'T want to meet a girl, perhaps that is the majority of your problem.

 

^

 

I'm not trying to be mean but just saying if he wants to increase his chances of meeting a quality person the OP needs to go out to places where a 'quality person' would be.

 

This is Very True...

 

Thanks, it's not me, but I absolutely love it. And a number of people on here have been making me do that daily

 

^^ LMAO Yea They do be getting some Crazy ass Thoughts in their heads and decide to throw them up on here. At least we can get a good laugh every so often