I am totally in love with this waitress yet everytime I am around her, I act like a total dork... She is soo freaking beautiful- naturally... this is the girl that would look absolutely beautiful waking up next to in the morning.

We have been talking for a couple of months... She came over to my mini-mansion (for the first time) the other night and we played a couple of games of pool. She had gotten off of work early and it was 12:30am so she only stayed until about 2:30. I am usually so fucking smooth but I was just uncomfortable all night... WTF is wrong with me???

I can't seem to show my confidence... i'm a fucking pussy around her... god damnit

At this point, what should I do?

 

Stop being a bitch ! Man-up and tell her how you feel and the effect she has on you.

 

Fly her to vegas and do what you did with the last chick!

 

wheres your ex wife in all this? who you said not to long ago that you still have feelings for and would like to be with again someday? where is your baby? and the mother of this child? and of course there were other things in your life recently that probably still weigh heavily on your mind. you probably have too much goin on in your life right now to deal with even more situations like this. its probably for the best you havent connected with this woman, for her...and for you. you should probably take your time and remember that your life is about to change in drastic ways for the rest of your life. when that child is born, your life as you know it is over. whether you have custody or not, whether you and the woman choose to raise this child in a broken home situation or not, there are many reasons, it seems, given the few details here and there of your life that you share on this forum, that you should be paying more attention to than chasing even more tail.

 

DR. Jim is at it again

 

yea actually that might be a good idea... i dated this guy for a while who acted very much like you described... i thought he was cool & everything, but whenever we were alone he almost seemed kinda shy or something... even though i knew he wasn't a shy person at all.

i couldn't figure out what was going on... then finally he told me that i kinda intimidated him for some reason. so we talked about it & eventually the whole uncomfortable-ness thing went away and everything was cool.

i was glad he said something about it though... cuz honestly i was starting to think he was just weird or didn't really like me or something!

 

My Ex and I decided it would be better if we didn't talk as much. As hard as it may be, things just aren't right for us right now. I have to accept that she is 2,000 miles away and free to date whomever she desires. She realizes the same thing about me.

As far as Lori (pregnant) goes, we talk for at least an hour, if not more, on a daily basis. She is seeing guys- which I am totally OK with since we already decided we are not having a relationship. But, she is an awesome friend.

I realize my life is going to change, but that doesn't mean I have to be a hermit and not date anyone. Jamie knows all about Lori- and maybe that is why things have not progressed with us. I'm really not sure.

 

Unfortunately, we are not dating! I have told her how I felt and she hasn't said much in return- but she continues to call me and talk to me a lot. It seems she is just stalling. Maybe she doesn't want to get into a relationship because it seems like she would never have time.

 

Ash..

Do you feel better now that you explained yourself atr your session with Dr. Jim ?

 

 

Just by reading this thread alone it seems like you come with alot of "baggage." The girl might like you a lot but is not wanting to deal with all of your drama.

 

sadly i think these are both very strong possibilities in your case...

 

^^^ Naw, I just got a divorce last week and I have no ladies in my life.

 

get her drunk.

 

have a few drinks to loosen up bro

 

Well, I talked with her on YM last night and she had her web cam setup. I basically told her how much I like her and how beautiful she is. She said she is intimidated by me... Anyways, she was also honest with me and told me that she has been missing her Ex pretty bad and she wants to get back with him.

I'm glad she was honest with me.

On a second note, the manager of the place where she works gave me her phone number on Wednesday night. I called her and she asked me out to the Shell Open golf tourney on Sunday. She is a cutie and very nice too...

I guess things tend to work themselves out.

 

Ok, but....

 

"Sam Jackson beer! Made painstakingly by me! Samuel L. Jackson! It'll get ya drunk! You'll be fuckin fat bitches in no time.....you might even fight a nigga or two!"



Sorry

 

hey just relax when your are around here things will be great from there and read my post plz and give me advice tys

 

Ash: I wish I had your troubles..

Good luck bro. You'll do just fine.

 

So far so good... I'm dating the manager and she hooks me up with free food and booze

 

hahhalol....free loader