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Old Aug 27, 2013 | 07:21 PM
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I like that idea Crazyasaintl, except for one part, I'd have to then buy her a pizza if she says yes.
Buy her a slice
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Old Aug 27, 2013 | 07:59 PM
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Maybe I should've used red text. Of course I'd pay for her pizza. Haha
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Old Aug 27, 2013 | 08:13 PM
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Old Aug 27, 2013 | 08:50 PM
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No more subtle. Confidently get across what you want without scaring her off. You're dancing on the friend zone fence. She either wants more or doesn't. You need to find that out sooner than later.
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Old Aug 27, 2013 | 10:03 PM
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Did you mean no, more subtle or don't be subtle anymore? Lol
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Old Aug 27, 2013 | 10:22 PM
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^fine line.


Dont catch crabs.
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Old Aug 27, 2013 | 11:58 PM
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 07:18 AM
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Originally Posted by rossv1
Did you mean no, more subtle or don't be subtle anymore? Lol
Everything I've read points to the fact she's into you and you are into her. I don't think any "obvious" moves are really necessary to clear things up - seems like both of you are on the same page. Now is not to risk a douche bag move.

I think if you want a next move, ask her out and say "just the two of us". Make it clear you want a one-on-one date. That will get the idea across without worrying about which lady part to try and touch next. That will happen soon enough.
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 08:08 AM
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^fine line.


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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 08:13 AM
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Keep us posted, don't be a typical thread starter!
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 08:25 AM
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Originally Posted by rockstar143
Keep us posted, don't be a typical thread starter!

That and


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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 08:33 AM
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Originally Posted by rossv1
I like that idea Crazyasaintl, except for one part, I'd have to then buy her a pizza if she says yes.
A $5 pizza is a small price to pay.
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 08:40 AM
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 08:53 AM
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If you want a piece, you have to buy a piece
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 08:57 AM
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 09:10 AM
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Well said, Ack!
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 09:27 AM
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 09:32 AM
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 09:40 AM
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Remember... if all else fails......that is if she's into that...
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 09:41 AM
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I could only imagine how bad that shit would smell. Literally.
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 09:44 AM
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Chances are she's not even into that. I know maybe 2-3 girls that actually like that. You're on your own with making that decision, Jack.

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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 10:02 AM
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Originally Posted by rossv1
Did you mean no, more subtle or don't be subtle anymore? Lol
Originally Posted by oo7spy
Confidently get across what you want without scaring her off.
Originally Posted by 1Louder
Make it clear you want a one-on-one date. That will get the idea across...
You need to know what you want between the two of you, and then, you need to make sure she knows that too. Insinuating or leaving room for anything else could lead to the exact opposite of what you want and waste your time.
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 10:17 AM
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Originally Posted by oo7spy
You need to know what you want between the two of you, and then, you need to make sure she knows that too. Insinuating or leaving room for anything else could lead to the exact opposite of what you want and waste your time.
This. Ross just go out on date one-on-one, sit an chat and go from there. It's obvious that you two are into each other.
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 11:33 AM
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Chances are she's not even into that. I know maybe 2-3 girls that actually like that. You're on your own with making that decision, Jack.
Slow down dude, he can't even kiss the girl. He needs to find out if she's DTF and work that in later down the line
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 11:40 AM
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They do give out lube for free at the clinic on campus....
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 12:11 PM
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Originally Posted by 97BlackAckCL
Slow down dude, he can't even kiss the girl. He needs to find out if she's DTF and work that in later down the line
Yeah I know. Ross has pretty much received the same advice about taking it slow and yada yada, so by now he should know what to do. I just decided to throw that it in.

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They do give out lube for free at the clinic on campus....
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 12:33 PM
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If all else fails Asstroglide
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 12:39 PM
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Seriously just lol'd at Asstroglide.
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 12:57 PM
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I bet I know who it is. She cute
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 01:02 PM
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See the Facebook pic?
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 01:03 PM
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 01:20 PM
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 01:39 PM
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Heading there now

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GGGAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH

I thought we were friends on there!

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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 01:41 PM
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Ahh to be 20, horny, and completely lack a shred of sexual confidence.
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 01:45 PM
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Add me. Lol
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 01:47 PM
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Heading there now

Edit:

GGGAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH

I thought we were friends on there!
It's actually pretty amazing what you can find out about people on FB and not be friends with them....

Scary even.
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 02:02 PM
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^^having this guy looking into you on fb is scary.
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 02:03 PM
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Originally Posted by 97BlackAckCL
Slow down dude, he can't even kiss the girl. He needs to find out if she's DTF and work that in later down the line
They shouldn't even kiss until they are married. I read that somewhere...
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Old Aug 28, 2013 | 02:04 PM
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Originally Posted by 97BlackAckCL
If all else fails Asstroglide
I see what you did there....
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