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Old 08-26-2013, 10:43 PM
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Wait, wait, wait. Where are the mods? This thread has nothing to do with Acuras.
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Old 08-26-2013, 10:46 PM
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Originally Posted by sixsixfour
if she really wanted you, she wouldnt have danced with some random guy when she was hammered and would have danced with you.
That means nothing, expecailly when they are drunk. Girls love to dance, he probly wasn't a dancer so she dance with any dude available. it means nothing. I've dance with plently of dudes girlfriend, when the song is over , i go on about my business. its very common. my cousin does not dance, so I've dance with his wife, does that means shes into me? lol..


As for the original poster... Shes obviously into you...... you havent fucked her yet? dude you both are in college, its time for party and sex. And never get a girl shitface drunk cause now your the babysitter.
And you post better drunk then when I am sober. lol
Old 08-26-2013, 10:55 PM
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I don't dance. Unless I'm absolutely fucked up. I'd much rather just sit back, talk, and most importantly drink. She did ask me to dance with her before we went out and I said basically the same thing, unless you get me shitfaced I rarely dance.

My plan wasn't to get her that drunk, just loosen her up. When I'd finish my drink I'd ask if she was okay or wanted another so I'd get her another. Figured she knew her limit so I wasn't too worried about it. Little did I know.....

Haven't fucked her yet. Lol.

And thanks. It really helps because I can get drunk as shit, write a paper, and not be so incoherent that I have to basically redo it. Lol
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My Mother used to give me everclear when I had a sore throat. She was like " it kills everything".

And PS, get your best dating advice from Justin. He's got game.
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Originally Posted by rossv1
What can I do to be more forward but still keep it somewhat subtle? Haven't had to go through this shit with a girl in a few years.
"When in doubt, whip it out..." - Whiskers
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Old 08-27-2013, 09:25 AM
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Originally Posted by rossv1
Wait, wait, wait. Where are the mods? This thread has nothing to do with Acuras.
You want me to close?

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Not before he gets his muffins!
Old 08-27-2013, 09:29 AM
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Muffins!
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Well, I'm assuming she's not over 50 so I didn't wanna call them flapjacks!
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Old 08-27-2013, 09:38 AM
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LOL at the Acura comments.

Do you know how to cook? Make something good, cause then you will have her on your turf , and you can DICKtate the rules
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Then, at the end of the night:
"Hey Brittany, how my dictate!?!?:"
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Well, if I'm leaving this thread open, it's only right

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Hi, Ross!
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I might have to whip it out on the random. If she asks what the fuck I'm doing, Azine told me it would work.
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Hi, Ross!
Originally Posted by rossv1
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Old 08-27-2013, 10:04 AM
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Well I've got class. Still open to more thoughts and suggestions.
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Originally Posted by MySoCalLife
That means nothing, expecailly when they are drunk. Girls love to dance, he probly wasn't a dancer so she dance with any dude available. it means nothing. I've dance with plently of dudes girlfriend, when the song is over , i go on about my business. its very common. my cousin does not dance, so I've dance with his wife, does that means shes into me? lol..

you got it mixed up. its not you wanting to dance with the girl, its the girl dancing/wanting to dance with you. its one thing if they're just letting you dance with them (common), its another if they're the one approaching you and intentionally dancing with you. there's a difference.

alcohol lowers inhibitions. if they're *in* to you, they would be more flirty towards you, not try and make you jelly by grinding on some other dude. sure if a random dude approaches them (your case), of course they'll grind away. but if they're really in to some other dude in the same vicinity, they'd grind with him and not you.

OP - just dont over think it.
Old 08-27-2013, 10:27 AM
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True. But a little earlier in the night when I was up at the bar getting more drinks, some random guy came by and started hitting on her. I come back and she shoots me the "wtf" look so I tell in a less confrontational way, get the fuck out if my seat. Lol.
As soon as he got up she's all "I was hoping you'd come back soon. He was weird as hell"

Just gives me another impression she's not doing this all for attention because if she was I'd think she'd had been more open to the attention she was getting from the random guy coming up to her.
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good, she's not a thot.
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Thot?


Seems like you're the resident dating expert Justin. What's you're take on all of this?

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some new term that the colored kids are using.

That Hoe Over There.
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It seems to me you are dealing with a "good girl". Maybe I just went to school where the vast majority of women were raised to be intelligent, self-respecting, and confident, but more times than not, the girls from my Alma Mater weren't necessarily "easy". I am fully aware that some of them were, and I am also fully aware that not all places are like College Station. (I have an uninformed assumption NJ girls are easier.)

My point is that a "good girl" isn't a "hoe", and she isn't going to let you "hit it and quit it" all in a day's (night's) work. It's going to take a little to get in close, and once there, she will probably expect more than casual interaction afterward to not be labeled a "player". If you are up for that and you think that y'all have enough in common to be "together" for more than a week, then this can be the best thing possible. I had to explain to a roommate once the difference between "playing" and committing. When you commit to something, 99% of the time you are gonna get way more fun than looking for new flings every night. You also know what kind of fun you are getting and not wondering what's on your junk in the morning like Justin. However, when you commit, you have to sacrifice something, sometimes a little, sometimes a lot. You don't get your cake and eat it too.

I realize that I could be completely wrong since I have no idea who she is, but that is the impression I get from your description. If you are going for a touchdown, make sure you understand the playing field.
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Originally Posted by rossv1
Seems like you're the resident dating expert Justin. What's you're take on all of this?
And there goes the thread
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Old 08-27-2013, 12:00 PM
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Well, he didn't give crabs to himself. Lol
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True, he got them from a transvestite hooker...
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You're in there dude. Just keep doing what you're doing. But if another girlie starts flirting with you, you're not tied down either. Always keep your options open.
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wth is goin on here?
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So I guess next time we all go out I should make it blatantly obvious I'm into her or keep it subtle?
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Hang and bang, hang and bang. Do it
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Originally Posted by rossv1
So I guess next time we all go out I should make it blatantly obvious I'm into her or keep it subtle?
physical contact is important!
make her laugh! and then a little touch here. and a little touch there.
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Originally Posted by sixsixfour
1)you got it mixed up. its not you wanting to dance with the girl, its the girl dancing/wanting to dance with you. its one thing if they're just letting you dance with them (common), its another if they're the one approaching you and intentionally dancing with you. there's a difference.

2)alcohol lowers inhibitions. if they're *in* to you, they would be more flirty towards you, not try and make you jelly by grinding on some other dude. sure if a random dude approaches them (your case), of course they'll grind away. but if they're really in to some other dude in the same vicinity, they'd grind with him and not you.

OP - just dont over think it.
1) Girls have ask me to dance and nothing more. sometimes they are into me and i take the opportunity as it comes. Sometimes, the girls just want to dance, its their thing. lol

2) the original poster never said anything about his girl grinding a dude.
And every girl i dance with that has a man, they never grind with me. My night will end shortly if I ever grind with any dudes girlfriend, vice versa.


If i ever try to get with a girl, take her out clubbing and she grind some random dude, to me, now shes just someone i would just fuck and not get into a relationship with her. any future plan with her is now over. she just made the fuck buddy list and nothing more.
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ask her if she wants to get a pizza and fuck. If she says no, ask her why she doesn't like pizza

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Originally Posted by rossv1
Well, he didn't give crabs to himself. Lol


hahahahaa
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I like that idea Crazyasaintl, except for one part, I'd have to then buy her a pizza if she says yes.
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Originally Posted by justnspace
physical contact is important!
make her touch you here. and a little touch there....


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