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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 10:45 AM
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In Exactly One Month...

...she'll own half of everything I have. My house, my furniture, my robot collection.












Seriously, I'm freaking nervous.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 10:55 AM
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Calm down thats what PreNups are for

Hey I have 94 days
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 10:55 AM
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so is this a good time to ask for pics of tina?

but seriously. congrats, man! you guys have been engaged for awhile, huh?

how are the wedding plans coming along?

and when are you getting that FX50?
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 10:59 AM
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Originally Posted by JediMindTricks
so is this a good time to ask for pics of tina?

but seriously. congrats, man! you guys have been engaged for awhile, huh?

how are the wedding plans coming along?

and when are you getting that FX50?
There are pics of her...somewhere.





Wedding planning...? She's planning...I'm just agreeing.

As for the new vehicle, we're hoping for it to be sometime in the fall. The FX is not a for sure...also in play for around the same pricerange is a loaded Q5, C63 AMG, MX45AWD, and Lexus GS...So, lots to consider still. Gotta make it past the 15th first. And pay it off.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:04 AM
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:07 AM
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and +1 for more pics of Tina.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:08 AM
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You'll have a blast.

What are you nervous of?
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:14 AM
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Originally Posted by dom


and +1 for more pics of Tina.
More...??! How many do you need...?

You didn't say the magic word.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:16 AM
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Originally Posted by Street Spirit
You'll have a blast.

What are you nervous of?
Not nervous of being married...my initial comment was said in jest.

I'm nervous about surviving the day. Just thinking about the entire process from Church to reception is giving me the heebie-jeebies...
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:17 AM
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Don't let her paint your robots' toenails


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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:19 AM
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Robots don't have toes!



...unless it was designed from the Bay-Hasblo-TF movie robot-turding shop.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:23 AM
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You mean Bayformers?

You'll have a blast
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:24 AM
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Here's hoping I can stay sober enough for most of the evening...that's another one that worries me.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Yumchah
Here's hoping I can stay sober enough for most of the evening...that's another one that worries me.
When the hell did you become whiskers?

Have one or two but take it easy. Its the guests and bridal parties job to get hammered at a wedding, not the bride and groom.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:27 AM
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Originally Posted by Yumchah

Seriously, I'm freaking nervous.
LOL... it goes so fast... you will look up a be like, oh dude, and I have been married almost 2 years....just like that.... like alot of things in life, it hurts more at 1st and then gets better....Weddings are just a pain... period.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:30 AM
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Make sure you feed your wife during the reception...chances are she won't have time to eat and she'll be cranky towards the end.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:33 AM
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Originally Posted by TSX 'R' US
Make sure you feed your wife during the reception...chances are she won't have time to eat and she'll be cranky towards the end.
this is such good advise. my girl gets real cranky with no food in her belly
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:37 AM
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I wonder what are the odds that she'll become Bridezilla...? She is usually so nice and patient...
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:39 AM
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You guys live together already right?

Then you have nothing to worry about.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted by Yumchah
I wonder what are the odds that she'll become Bridezilla...? She is usually so nice and patient...
Very LOW... if she hasn't broken loose on you yet, she most likely won't... and LOL on the feeding her comments... she will be looking for a full meal later that night... prepare / plan accordingly...
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:43 AM
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Good Luck Yummycheeks
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:45 AM
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Originally Posted by DarkSithCL
she will be looking for a full meal later that night... prepare / plan accordingly...
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You guys live together already right?
Nope...so, it'll be an adjustment for sure once she does. I'm sure there will be since I've lived on my own for quite some time.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:46 AM
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Originally Posted by Yumchah
Nope...so, it'll be an adjustment for sure once she does. I'm sure there will be since I've lived on my own for quite some time.


I've heard some horror stories but our move in was seamless. If you truly know each other, you'll be fine
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this is such good advise. my girl gets real cranky with no food in her belly
I've been to enough weddings to see the bride is always up and running around taking pics/chatting/etc. and end up hungry as hell at the end or get drunk off a glass of champagne.
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Originally Posted by dom
Yeah, that too...
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:47 AM
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Originally Posted by Yumchah
Nope...so, it'll be an adjustment for sure once she does. I'm sure there will be since I've lived on my own for quite some time.
Better start boxin up your robots

Mine already are
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:50 AM
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You'll be fine, Yummy. It'll be over before you know it.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:53 AM
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Originally Posted by Yumchah
There are pics of her...somewhere.





Wedding planning...? She's planning...I'm just agreeing.

As for the new vehicle, we're hoping for it to be sometime in the fall. The FX is not a for sure...also in play for around the same pricerange is a loaded Q5, C63 AMG, MX45AWD, and Lexus GS...So, lots to consider still. Gotta make it past the 15th first. And pay it off.
there are pics?

and nice list of alternatives!

Originally Posted by dom


and +1 for more pics of Tina.


can we at least get pics of the bridesmaids?

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When the hell did you become whiskers?

Have one or two but take it easy. Its the guests and bridal parties job to get hammered at a wedding, not the bride and groom.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:54 AM
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Originally Posted by LuvMyTSX
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You'll be fine, Yummy. It'll be over before you know it.
Anything to get a from you...!
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:55 AM
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 12:13 PM
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Good luck Yumchah.

Seriously, you'll be fine. I hope the Edmonton weather cooperates with you.

Going away after the wedding?


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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 12:21 PM
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Originally Posted by teranfon
Good luck Yumchah.

Seriously, you'll be fine. I hope the Edmonton weather cooperates with you.

Going away after the wedding?


Terry
Here's hoping it's not too hot on that day...I actually would not mind some cloud as they seem to look really good in photos.

We're just taking a couple of days off and then back to work. Our honeymoon is come December when we'll head off to Japan...and escape the tundra weather.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 12:39 PM
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Rust in Peace!!!

We made it a point to sit down and eat since we got filet mignon and shrimp. We're still pissed that we couldn't get cocktail shrimp appetizers and nobody thought to save us some.

Also make sure she has some energy for your wedding night. We had a quickie and crashed.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 01:25 PM
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Originally Posted by teranfon
Good luck Yumchah.

Seriously, you'll be fine. I hope the Edmonton weather cooperates with you.

Going away after the wedding?


Terry
so that's where yumchah lives.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 01:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Yumchah
...she'll own half of everything I have. My house, my furniture, my robot collection.
No-- she'll own it all in a month! Not legally-- just in real life terms.

Better figure out how you're splitting the cooking, doing the laundry, etc. so there aren't any surprises!

Oh, and X 2 on you and your robot...umm...bride... eating before the wedding reception(s) since you won't have a chance to eat during the reception(s).

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I know I said I would not post the pic, Statler.......but sorry...if I must, I must!!!!!

Pic of Yummy and the Best Man:
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 02:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Moog-Type-S
I know I said I would not post the pic, Statler.......but sorry...if I must, I must!!!!!

Pic of Yummy and the Best Man:


Dammit, Waldorf! You weren't supposed to post that pic!
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Send Tina my condolences...
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