Until I get the little tubes snipped, I'm sticking to condoms.

 

yes, but a dental dam will protect you from him going down on you. Thats if you want to be 100% safe

 

See fdl's post ya NooB. ^

 

With a one night stand, I would always like to, but alcohol seems to inhibit my ability to think about condoms. Usually, the girl will have to tell me. If I'm sober, I'll use one.

Now, if I've been dating the chick and I know she's on the pill, I bareback it.

 

Whatever you say.

 

 

 

Youre really grasping for straws here... Calling me out for stopping the transmission of something I would already have?

Makes tons of sense, but thats obviously not your purpose here.

 

 

I think your missing the point. He's just asking if you BF goes down on you?

And if so does he use Dental dams?

And if he doesn't then fdl is offering his services.

 

I'm not "calling you out". Relax You seemed very concerned about STD's and I'm just stating that unless you are using condoms and dental dams for oral sex (BOTH giving AND receiving) you arent 100% safe. i.e. you can pick up an std from the guy if he doesnt use the dental dam when going down on you.

Make sense now?

 

Well, that was an obvious point to have missed.

I must be reading too many water-s threads today.

 

Uh. Yea... Thanks.

 

I think everyone got it except you. So ya lay off the water-s posts.

 

We need to change CUNextTuesday's username to:

CUNextTuesdayAtTheClinicCauseItStillBurnsWhenIPee

 

And we've lost another

 

Wow that is way too cheap. I thought they were like 2-3 grand.

In that case, keep knocking girls up and abort away!!!

 

Dumbfuck - yes. But an 18 year old just starting his first year of college having a child? That might be even dumber. I was not, and certainly am not, ready to raise a child. Is it fair to bring a child into a family (or lack there of) that's not ready for it? Or, as I'm sure pro-lifers would respond, is it fair to just abort the child and not give it a chance to live? This is another discussion in itself - I'm sure it could get into a very heated debate.

I know that the best option would have probably been to have the baby, and put it up for adoption. Many people aren't ready to do that either. It's a terrible situation, but it's life, and a very dumb mistake.

The reason I had that problem in the first place was because my girlfriend went off the pill without telling me - what the fuck. I realize it's not the brightest idea to still have unprotected sex, but the only surefire way to prevent pregnancy is abstinence - and I'm not all about that. Are you?

 

Sorry, but you're an idiot. First, you start a thread saying "Fuck STDs" and "Birth Control Works." Well, obviously, birth control didn't work, and your girlfriend deciding to stop taking it without telling you is a prime example (along with taking it improperly). And for someone who got a girl pregnant and still has the attitude of "Forget condoms," you truly are asking for trouble. You've already encountered one girl who deceived you about birth control, who's to say their honest about STDs or AIDS?

 

Why dont you just pull out like a real man?

 

I was about to say "When in this thread did I ever say that?", but then saw my first post. The whole post was lighthearted in tone...I was just being gung ho about how much better raw sex feels - not entirely serious.

Anyway, I would never have unprotected sex on a one night stand. And I haven't been in another commited relationship yet, so I can't really say about the whole birth control thing. I still hang out with my ex regularly, and I can assure you she'll never stop taking it again. I'm far more cautious nowadays...especially mid cycle.

And I've been tested for STDs - clean bitch

 

seeing as most people on this thread are late teens, 20s or 30s, and not in a serious committed relationship, you all should be using them. you seem to forget that symptoms don't show up until usually 6-8 weeks after contraction of the disease. he/she could say they're fine, but really aren't.

and since when are condoms expensive? they're free at clinics for god's sake. and if you want all the special stuff, go to freakin' walmart. they're like 10 bucks a box. i'm pretty sure your zythromax or valtrex prescription will cost a lot more.

 

well in the words of a very influencial rapper Ol' Dirty Bastard: "I LIKE IT RAWWWWW.... I LIKE IT RAWWWWW!!!!"

 

Like I said..anyone that has sex unprotected KNOWS what could happen so there is no excuse there bud..
Regardless if ole girl went off the pill..its YOUR responsibility to protect urself if you dont want to have a child so young.
Being 18 yrs old and a parent might would have taught you and ole girl a serious lesson about life & growing up!
There are thousands of young parents out there that make the mistake of not being protected but I have to give props to the ones that take on their responsibilities like an adult should!
I am 24 yrs old & yes I am a young parent but at least I had my child..
I was engaged & I knew what I was doing and low & behold..got pregnant even on the birth control patch!
Im not one to say abortion is right nor wrong but running off to the nearest clinic to have one just because you simply didnt use protection is just immorally wrong in my opinion! Wrap that thing up or grow up & be a parent when you knock the next girl up!

 

I agree it was a very irresponsible mistake, however I feel that we made the best decision at that point in our lives. Abortion is a moral issue that's probably pointless to discuss here. Most people have very strong opinions concerning it and it's very difficult to sway them the other way.

 

Only with 3 girls out of 25 i didnt used a condom. At the begining of the relationship i used them with 2 of the 3 girls but once we got to a serious point the condom came off. The first girl i never used one with, we lost our virginity to eachother when we were 16 years old and had been dating for a year. She was my neighbor. The second girl i stopped once we were serious and same for the girl i am now dating and we are serious so no more condom. But the the other 22 i always used them. some were one night stands some of them were just friends i would just bang. So i dindt know what they could have had.

 

[QUOTE=CUNextTuesday]I agree it was a very irresponsible mistake, however I feel that we made the best decision at that point in our lives. Abortion is a moral issue that's probably pointless to discuss here. Most people have very strong opinions concerning it and it's very difficult to sway them the other way.[/QUOTE

There was always adoption.. I sure hope you learned from your mistake!

 

not in over 10 years.

 

[QUOTE=Brandi]I agree that adoption is a better option than abortion. However, I hear that kids often sit around for a long time waiting to be adopted. An orphanage is not the ideal place to grow up. I'm not positive about this because I've never researched or read or seen much for myself.

Another problem for adoption is that some people cannot give up the child that they carried for nine months. I've heard of people who have planned on giving the child up for adoption, but when it came down to it they couldnt. A family member of mine had a child aborted. She was totally against abortion. She realized that bringing a child into a broken (and I mean totally fucked) home was not fair for that child. She also knew that she would not be able to give it up for adoption.

It's an exceedingly complicated situation, but I know you speak from experience and I'm sure you've thought a lot about all of this. I respect your decision to have your baby, but I just wasn't ready at that point in my life.

 

"A daddy by the time you're 21
if you're happy with a nappy
then you're in for fun!"

- WHAM! in 'Young Guns'

 

i say wrap it till you say i do

 

roundhouse kick to the stomach can solve all your problems

 

I think that's the third time this week I heard that.

 

And you are going to have the package soon.

 

I was talking about pregnancy, abortion, etc. with a girl i've been seeing. She said that if she got pregnant she'd have the child and raise it - no abortion, no adoption. I told her that if she gets pregnant we're taking a trip to Cedar Point and riding the Power Tower all day.

 

Seriously, Michigan chicks think they should keep it. If you stick around, I suggest you really consider that whole :ghey: thing you've been considering.