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Old Mar 14, 2009 | 08:35 AM
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i'm not gonna lie, you sound really hot.

now can you give us an update on the situation?
And nude pics?
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Old Mar 14, 2009 | 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted by inkonspikuos
Sorry,

A girl NEVER gets "cheated" on and tells.
So you post story and ask for a verdict, amuse yourself with the replies, and don't have the courtesy to follow up. Sounds like you two deserve eachother.
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Old Mar 14, 2009 | 10:58 PM
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I communicated my perspective to him. He didn't really say anything. My boyfriend has always been the one to brush anything and everything off his shoulder.

Thank you for all the posts. I am hopeful that you can at least understand this and I sure do hope to amuse you with more posts in the future!
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Old Mar 14, 2009 | 11:26 PM
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and from that post I gather:










Nothing.
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Old Mar 15, 2009 | 02:10 AM
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Originally Posted by AMAN1
and from that post I gather:










Nothing.
dude, women speaking always = nothing.
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Old Mar 15, 2009 | 03:19 PM
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i did not understand a damn thing in the OP

i got this..

it seems op is :ghey: and said "man" is thinking of dating a woman instead??

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Old Mar 16, 2009 | 12:21 AM
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here's a translation that my younger cousins helped me out with, written from the perspective of the OP:
I picked up my boyfriend from work so we could get something to eat. On the way there, he suddenly said "lets go to Mcdonalds". We pulled in and I ordered my food, I told him that he should order too and I'd pay for it as a treat. He ordered his food and I paid. I got a cup with my meal so I went to fill it up with some soda. As I was walking to fill it up I saw him ordering something else. After I filled up the cup, I walked over to him and asked who the extra meal was for. He said it was for a male co-worker and I caught on that something was wrong. I said that if it was for a female co-worker, it was fine to tell me. He then said some other things and then I opened the bag and took a smell of the food to prep my pallot. His face suddenly went through a mix of emotions, the last of them being angry.

He suddenly started ranting about "what if it was for a girl" and then proceeded to throw out the food he bought for the other girl and his food. He said he had lied about who it was for so I would not get mad. I replied that I was mad because he lied about who it was for, I didn't care who it was for Male or female, just the fact he lied.

I don't know how, but he started talking about this girl and knew her nationalty, age, which combo she buys at fast food places, her college major, her salary, where she lives, who she lives with, who sleeps at her house, etc. To make things even more odd, she lives right near work, so it would be easy for them to get "jiggy" at her place.

What makes it feel even worse is that I am an avid web surfer and TV show watcher who knows the signs of cheating and all the other stuff pretty well.

We have had a few fights lately and we have brought her up. He said that she is in the back of the office/work and that he is in the front of office/work so they don't have a chance to talk, yet he knows so much about her.

What's the verdict on my boyfriend?
I think I might be a bit late to the party, but I have some and
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Old Mar 16, 2009 | 01:35 AM
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Old Mar 16, 2009 | 03:01 AM
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Look at it this way dont buy his ass no food no more since he threw it away.. O wow and did she say she was going to commit suicide w/o red lettering?
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Old Mar 16, 2009 | 09:43 PM
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If you keep telling yourself that he is cheating, then either you are smart enough to have realize that he is, or you're going to piss him off enough by accusing him that it will lead to a ton of fights. Either way, if you two don't talk about it, then this seems to be the beginning of the end.
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Old Mar 17, 2009 | 12:07 AM
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Originally Posted by shadowbar
dude, women speaking always = nothing.


lol!!

+ 1
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Old Mar 17, 2009 | 07:11 PM
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is there a way where this will automatically get hotlinked over to Fmylife.com??

just curious. lmao
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Old Mar 18, 2009 | 12:53 PM
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So he got off for lying about a chick that easily? And you're happy with his non-reaction? Oh well.
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Old Mar 18, 2009 | 04:21 PM
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Originally Posted by L's TL
double I had to read it twice just to realize it was a woman


I did the same. What a disaster.
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Old Mar 18, 2009 | 04:48 PM
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Old Mar 19, 2009 | 07:18 AM
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Close up of the nip. We don't need the face.
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Old Mar 19, 2009 | 12:26 PM
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indoMFP is a chick?
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Old Mar 19, 2009 | 01:11 PM
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Originally Posted by inkonspikuos
I communicated my perspective to him. He didn't really say anything. My boyfriend has always been the one to brush anything and everything off his shoulder.
Thank you for all the posts. I am hopeful that you can at least understand this and I sure do hope to amuse you with more posts in the future!
do you happen to be dating jay z?
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Old Mar 19, 2009 | 04:04 PM
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Damn, when are so many of us chicks going to learn not to ask stupid fucking questions that we don't want the answers to???

Honey, go take some classes, grow, expand your horizens. Learn to speak with the authority and grace to be taken seriously, then come tell us about the new person in your life that buys your lunch...

and.... he's cheating. Are you?
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Old Mar 19, 2009 | 04:08 PM
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you guys crack me up....
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Old Mar 19, 2009 | 04:10 PM
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Originally Posted by gypsygirl
Damn, when are so many of us chicks going to learn not to ask stupid fucking questions that we don't want the answers to???

Honey, go take some classes, grow, expand your horizens. Learn to speak with the authority and grace to be taken seriously, then come tell us about the new person in your life that buys your lunch...

and.... he's cheating. Are you?
This is coming from a girl that got hog-tied in her garage by her ex husband
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Old Mar 19, 2009 | 04:47 PM
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Backwards, Babe.
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Old Mar 19, 2009 | 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted by anarchy[sear]
This is coming from a girl that got hog-tied in her garage by her ex husband
Wait.. what???

how did i miss this!! link?
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Old Mar 19, 2009 | 05:24 PM
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Originally Posted by gypsygirl
Backwards, Babe.
he hogtied you backwards that is low.

HAHA Im just messing with ya but that kind of makes me afraid to drive thru lancaster now though.
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Old Mar 19, 2009 | 09:02 PM
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As long as you know to pay your child support, we're all good. He doesn't know that deal. Can't tollerate men that are proud of being bad parents.

I'm not scarey at all. I'm a pussycat. Common' over. I'll fix you pork and sauerkraut. lol

Go Steelers!
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Old Mar 19, 2009 | 11:41 PM
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pictures or gtfo
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Old Mar 20, 2009 | 12:07 AM
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Originally Posted by gypsygirl
As long as you know to pay your child support, we're all good. He doesn't know that deal. Can't tollerate men that are proud of being bad parents.

I'm not scarey at all. I'm a pussycat. Common' over. I'll fix you pork and sauerkraut. lol

Go Steelers!
Are you Polish :p
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Old Mar 22, 2009 | 02:53 AM
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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
pictures or gtfo
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Old Mar 22, 2009 | 06:41 PM
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shit i'm afraid of being hungry now. order 2 meals and it's go time
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