Caught in a lie
My head hurts just reading the OP post.
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One day, i pick up my man @ work and went to eat something. Normally, the routine is us taking 10 minutes to decide what to eat. That day, he said right away to go to that fast food joint. Stunned, i didn't say anything and drove straight there. I told him it was my treat since he had been paying a lot and ordered. He decided to order a meal last minute. I got the drink cup, asked who it was for and went to fill the cup. He took a while to answer in which i caught and he eventually um-ed his way to say it was for a male co-worker. I knew he was lying and replied, if its for a girl, it's okay. Next he told me it was for someone else and i said uh, huh. sure. We got the food and i inhaled it. He sat there with this look on his face. It was ranging from 3 different emotions. The last was obviously anger. He replied with some bull shit that so what if it was for a girl. I told hime i was mad that he lied about it and it just so happened that it was a girl. He threw away his food & the food he bought. He said he lied so i wouldn't get mad at him and thought that it was no big deal buying the food for her. Right it's no big deal but why lie?!
Don't know how i found out more about this girl but i haven't heard him talk about a female co-worker in detail like this b4. Her nationality, age, marital status, age, which combo she buys, major, how much she makes, where she lives, who she lives with, the arrangements of who's sleeping where. Makes matters worst, she lives right by where they work. (Bad for my wandering mind.)
What makes even worst matters, i'm an avid online user and stupid "signs of emotional cheating" & Oprah's cheating show came on about the same time. BTW, we've fought before and brought her up and he's told me they don't even talk & that they can't cuz one is front of house and one is back of house. Yet he's told me ALL about her.
Don't know how i found out more about this girl but i haven't heard him talk about a female co-worker in detail like this b4. Her nationality, age, marital status, age, which combo she buys, major, how much she makes, where she lives, who she lives with, the arrangements of who's sleeping where. Makes matters worst, she lives right by where they work. (Bad for my wandering mind.)
What makes even worst matters, i'm an avid online user and stupid "signs of emotional cheating" & Oprah's cheating show came on about the same time. BTW, we've fought before and brought her up and he's told me they don't even talk & that they can't cuz one is front of house and one is back of house. Yet he's told me ALL about her.
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Allright I had a boyfriend that did this shit... granted he was a scumbag and probably did cheat on me... he would purposely lie about some of the dumbest shit because... well he was scared to tell me the truth lol. I went through a long phase of just not trusting anybody and constantly accusing... so there were times where he was telling me the truth and I bugged. Which probably led to the lying over nothing shit.
Thank god I got over this shit, it caused nothing but stress and headaches.
This was mentioned before but Ill repeat... Theres two possible answers for this...
1) hes a scum bag that is probably fucking his co-worker and thats why he lied
OR
2) he knew if he told you the truth about it you would just flip out and he wasnt in the mood to fight.
it can really only be one of the two. Personally I dont see the big deal I pick up lunch for my co-workers (guys included) I never got shit for it and there was really no reason to lie about something like that lol. And yeah I know alot about them because well I work with them... lol we get bored we talk about random shit, information gets shared.
I have no idea what you said in the last two paragraphs lol sooo Im gonna go with what I THINK you said... He brought her up in a fight? Or you brought her up in a fight? If your bringing her up in a fight no wonder why he lied about talking to her or picking her up lunch. Your making it a subject to fight about hes going to think any time that girls name is mentioned your gonna flip out. If its the other way around and he brought her up... why?
Again Im going on assumption here. Trying to make the most sense of the OP.
I think I need more info to make a verdict on whether or not this guy is a douchebag or just scared shitless of his girlfriend
Thank god I got over this shit, it caused nothing but stress and headaches.
This was mentioned before but Ill repeat... Theres two possible answers for this...
1) hes a scum bag that is probably fucking his co-worker and thats why he lied
OR
2) he knew if he told you the truth about it you would just flip out and he wasnt in the mood to fight.
it can really only be one of the two. Personally I dont see the big deal I pick up lunch for my co-workers (guys included) I never got shit for it and there was really no reason to lie about something like that lol. And yeah I know alot about them because well I work with them... lol we get bored we talk about random shit, information gets shared.
I have no idea what you said in the last two paragraphs lol sooo Im gonna go with what I THINK you said... He brought her up in a fight? Or you brought her up in a fight? If your bringing her up in a fight no wonder why he lied about talking to her or picking her up lunch. Your making it a subject to fight about hes going to think any time that girls name is mentioned your gonna flip out. If its the other way around and he brought her up... why?
Again Im going on assumption here. Trying to make the most sense of the OP.
I think I need more info to make a verdict on whether or not this guy is a douchebag or just scared shitless of his girlfriend
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man I hope she isn't taking these post literally....she hasn't posted since this onslaught started..............
OP we are not judging you, we dont even know you but from what you said we are just coming up with only 2 reasons why the situation happened.
OP we are not judging you, we dont even know you but from what you said we are just coming up with only 2 reasons why the situation happened.
What your problem is?
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to the OP:
1. I did not understand a damn thing you said in the original post. Learn grammar, english, how to write, something... You make no coherent sense.
2. I think you paid for the meals? Right? You paid for your meal, his meal, and the bitch the dude is cheating on you with? That is fucked up...
3. You 'inhaled' the food? That leads me to believe you are obese and are indeed not the prettiest girlfriend your boyfriend has had. Your obesity is a health concern of not only your boyfriend, but all those on Acurazine.... See what your weight has done? It has made a man start to cheat on you...
4. He is cheating on you
5. Find out where this bitch lives and eat her.
1. I did not understand a damn thing you said in the original post. Learn grammar, english, how to write, something... You make no coherent sense.
2. I think you paid for the meals? Right? You paid for your meal, his meal, and the bitch the dude is cheating on you with? That is fucked up...
3. You 'inhaled' the food? That leads me to believe you are obese and are indeed not the prettiest girlfriend your boyfriend has had. Your obesity is a health concern of not only your boyfriend, but all those on Acurazine.... See what your weight has done? It has made a man start to cheat on you...
4. He is cheating on you
5. Find out where this bitch lives and eat her.
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to the OP:
1. I did not understand a damn thing you said in the original post. Learn grammar, english, how to write, something... You make no coherent sense.
2. I think you paid for the meals? Right? You paid for your meal, his meal, and the bitch the dude is cheating on you with? That is fucked up...
3. You 'inhaled' the food? That leads me to believe you are obese and are indeed not the prettiest girlfriend your boyfriend has had. Your obesity is a health concern of not only your boyfriend, but all those on Acurazine.... See what your weight has done? It has made a man start to cheat on you...
4. He is cheating on you
5. Find out where this bitch lives and eat her.
1. I did not understand a damn thing you said in the original post. Learn grammar, english, how to write, something... You make no coherent sense.
2. I think you paid for the meals? Right? You paid for your meal, his meal, and the bitch the dude is cheating on you with? That is fucked up...
3. You 'inhaled' the food? That leads me to believe you are obese and are indeed not the prettiest girlfriend your boyfriend has had. Your obesity is a health concern of not only your boyfriend, but all those on Acurazine.... See what your weight has done? It has made a man start to cheat on you...
4. He is cheating on you
5. Find out where this bitch lives and eat her.
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This is rare breed of stupid posting again!
Can someone advise me on how to get a life? Where can that be purchased? Since this onslaught has carried out, I'll take MichaelBenz's advise and commit suicide. 
Since I'm mentally bankrupt, can you advise me on how to commit suicide as well?Love Always,
Rare breed of stupid (who thinks it could just be a misconception...)
Hi!
This is rare breed of stupid posting again! Can someone advise me on how to get a life? Where can that be purchased? Since this onslaught has carried out, I'll take MichaelBenz's advise and commit suicide. Since I'm mentally bankrupt, can you advise me on how to commit suicide as well?
Love Always,
Rare breed of stupid (who thinks it could just be a misconception...)
This is rare breed of stupid posting again!
Can someone advise me on how to get a life? Where can that be purchased? Since this onslaught has carried out, I'll take MichaelBenz's advise and commit suicide. Since I'm mentally bankrupt, can you advise me on how to commit suicide as well?Love Always,
Rare breed of stupid (who thinks it could just be a misconception...)
now can you give us an update on the situation?
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While I certainly hope cheating is not the case, Your bf lied about the food cause you've probably given him reasons to do it before by bitching and nagging. Men tell little white lies to avoid unneccessary questions and arguments with their wives/gfs. Women always tend to blow everything out of proportion.
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Hi!
This is rare breed of stupid posting again! Can someone advise me on how to get a life? Where can that be purchased? Since this onslaught has carried out, I'll take MichaelBenz's advise and commit suicide. Since I'm mentally bankrupt, can you advise me on how to commit suicide as well?
Love Always,
Rare breed of stupid (who thinks it could just be a misconception...)
This is rare breed of stupid posting again!
Can someone advise me on how to get a life? Where can that be purchased? Since this onslaught has carried out, I'll take MichaelBenz's advise and commit suicide. Since I'm mentally bankrupt, can you advise me on how to commit suicide as well?Love Always,
Rare breed of stupid (who thinks it could just be a misconception...)
It's apparent you post for mindless attention, to hear that everything will be just dandy, and that your boyfriend will love and respect you regardless of being one tit short of an udder.
Since you also lack the will to do anything about your beta male boyfriend (other than bitch), suggesting that you go "fuck off" is rather pointless. So, I'm here to do you a favor. I'll give you another opinion, and granted, you have better chances of sprouting a dick than actually respecting yourself enough to dump your boyfriend (who's clearly as confused as a lesbian in a fish market), but I'll try anyway.
What you are experiencing is called cognitive dissonance. And the reason for your cognitive dissonance is two-fold:
1.) You've been with your boyfriend for way, way too long. You both likely have child-minds, and I don't mean that in the mindless New Age, Ghandi-esque manifestation of never growing up and keeping your innocence. No. I mean in it in the sense that you two haven't had a chance to grow up independently of each other and mature.
2.) Your boyfriend, partly due to being stuck with you for so long, and also partly due to your nagging and his male, insatiable, sexual appetite, probably wants to fuck the chick at his work. If she's remotely attractive, and you're not (especially if you're not), then he'll actively pursue tactics that will direct this new potential source of vagina in his direction.
And so you're confused when certain conflicting, seemingly non-nonsensical outcomes, manifest themselves inside of a KFC. Like your boyfriend lying to you over what seems like nothing, even though you've admitted to nagging him about bullshit in the past.
I suggest you grow up and date other people.
I would volunteer my dick, but you're probably ugly, and not worth tainting my record as-of late.
Hugs and Kisses,
amisconception
Dear witless tart,
It's apparent you post for mindless attention, to hear that everything will be just dandy, and that your boyfriend will love and respect you regardless of being one tit short of an udder.
Since you also lack the will to do anything about your beta male boyfriend (other than bitch), suggesting that you go "fuck off" is rather pointless. So, I'm here to do you a favor. I'll give you another opinion, and granted, you have better chances of sprouting a dick than actually respecting yourself enough to dump your boyfriend (who's clearly as confused as a lesbian in a fish market), but I'll try anyway.
What you are experiencing is called cognitive dissonance. And the reason for your cognitive dissonance is two-fold:
1.) You've been with your boyfriend for way, way too long. You both likely have child-minds, and I don't mean that in the mindless New Age, Ghandi-esque manifestation of never growing up and keeping your innocence. No. I mean in it in the sense that you two haven't had a chance to grow up independently of each other and mature.
2.) Your boyfriend, partly due to being stuck with you for so long, and also partly due to your nagging and his male, insatiable, sexual appetite, probably wants to fuck the chick at his work. If she's remotely attractive, and you're not (especially if you're not), then he'll actively pursue tactics that will direct this new potential source of vagina in his direction.
And so you're confused when certain conflicting, seemingly non-nonsensical outcomes, manifest themselves inside of a KFC. Like your boyfriend lying to you over what seems like nothing, even though you've admitted to nagging him about bullshit in the past.
I suggest you grow up and date other people.
I would volunteer my dick, but you're probably ugly, and not worth tainting my record as-of late.
Hugs and Kisses,
amisconception
It's apparent you post for mindless attention, to hear that everything will be just dandy, and that your boyfriend will love and respect you regardless of being one tit short of an udder.
Since you also lack the will to do anything about your beta male boyfriend (other than bitch), suggesting that you go "fuck off" is rather pointless. So, I'm here to do you a favor. I'll give you another opinion, and granted, you have better chances of sprouting a dick than actually respecting yourself enough to dump your boyfriend (who's clearly as confused as a lesbian in a fish market), but I'll try anyway.
What you are experiencing is called cognitive dissonance. And the reason for your cognitive dissonance is two-fold:
1.) You've been with your boyfriend for way, way too long. You both likely have child-minds, and I don't mean that in the mindless New Age, Ghandi-esque manifestation of never growing up and keeping your innocence. No. I mean in it in the sense that you two haven't had a chance to grow up independently of each other and mature.
2.) Your boyfriend, partly due to being stuck with you for so long, and also partly due to your nagging and his male, insatiable, sexual appetite, probably wants to fuck the chick at his work. If she's remotely attractive, and you're not (especially if you're not), then he'll actively pursue tactics that will direct this new potential source of vagina in his direction.
And so you're confused when certain conflicting, seemingly non-nonsensical outcomes, manifest themselves inside of a KFC. Like your boyfriend lying to you over what seems like nothing, even though you've admitted to nagging him about bullshit in the past.
I suggest you grow up and date other people.
I would volunteer my dick, but you're probably ugly, and not worth tainting my record as-of late.
Hugs and Kisses,
amisconception
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Dear witless tart,
It's apparent you post for mindless attention, to hear that everything will be just dandy, and that your boyfriend will love and respect you regardless of being one tit short of an udder.
Since you also lack the will to do anything about your beta male boyfriend (other than bitch), suggesting that you go "fuck off" is rather pointless. So, I'm here to do you a favor. I'll give you another opinion, and granted, you have better chances of sprouting a dick than actually respecting yourself enough to dump your boyfriend (who's clearly as confused as a lesbian in a fish market), but I'll try anyway.
What you are experiencing is called cognitive dissonance. And the reason for your cognitive dissonance is two-fold:
1.) You've been with your boyfriend for way, way too long. You both likely have child-minds, and I don't mean that in the mindless New Age, Ghandi-esque manifestation of never growing up and keeping your innocence. No. I mean in it in the sense that you two haven't had a chance to grow up independently of each other and mature.
2.) Your boyfriend, partly due to being stuck with you for so long, and also partly due to your nagging and his male, insatiable, sexual appetite, probably wants to fuck the chick at his work. If she's remotely attractive, and you're not (especially if you're not), then he'll actively pursue tactics that will direct this new potential source of vagina in his direction.
And so you're confused when certain conflicting, seemingly non-nonsensical outcomes, manifest themselves inside of a KFC. Like your boyfriend lying to you over what seems like nothing, even though you've admitted to nagging him about bullshit in the past.
I suggest you grow up and date other people.
I would volunteer my dick, but you're probably ugly, and not worth tainting my record as-of late.
Hugs and Kisses,
amisconception
It's apparent you post for mindless attention, to hear that everything will be just dandy, and that your boyfriend will love and respect you regardless of being one tit short of an udder.
Since you also lack the will to do anything about your beta male boyfriend (other than bitch), suggesting that you go "fuck off" is rather pointless. So, I'm here to do you a favor. I'll give you another opinion, and granted, you have better chances of sprouting a dick than actually respecting yourself enough to dump your boyfriend (who's clearly as confused as a lesbian in a fish market), but I'll try anyway.
What you are experiencing is called cognitive dissonance. And the reason for your cognitive dissonance is two-fold:
1.) You've been with your boyfriend for way, way too long. You both likely have child-minds, and I don't mean that in the mindless New Age, Ghandi-esque manifestation of never growing up and keeping your innocence. No. I mean in it in the sense that you two haven't had a chance to grow up independently of each other and mature.
2.) Your boyfriend, partly due to being stuck with you for so long, and also partly due to your nagging and his male, insatiable, sexual appetite, probably wants to fuck the chick at his work. If she's remotely attractive, and you're not (especially if you're not), then he'll actively pursue tactics that will direct this new potential source of vagina in his direction.
And so you're confused when certain conflicting, seemingly non-nonsensical outcomes, manifest themselves inside of a KFC. Like your boyfriend lying to you over what seems like nothing, even though you've admitted to nagging him about bullshit in the past.
I suggest you grow up and date other people.
I would volunteer my dick, but you're probably ugly, and not worth tainting my record as-of late.
Hugs and Kisses,
amisconception
Speechless
We can't judge her looks on the basis of what she wrote. She could have been just inhaling her food because she was angry and she wanted to leave.
As for your post though inkonskious, your post was very hard to understand and vague on the situation so it would only give us reason to assume certains events that lead up to this situation.
Good luck.
