So I finally grew a pair and actually called a number that I got from the bars. I usually get them but never call cause im afraid they wont remember me or make up some other excuse not to call. Anyways. I called and left her a message to see if she still wanted to go out and she called back saying she did and was free on thursday. So I suggested that we go to a bar and graba drink and play some pool. Shes new in town and didnt know how to get there so needed directions but she was driving and couldnt write it down. I told her to call me back when she could write it down and that we will set up a time to meet then. This happend last night around 9:30 and I havent heard from her since.

So my question is, should I call her and see whats up or just wait for her to call? I was thinking if she didnt call by 5 tommorow afternooon I'd call her.

And another question for the ladies. If you give out your number how often do you do it and do you remember who you gave it out too? It always seems like the give it out so easily Im probably the 5th guy shes given it to that night. am I wrong?

 

I'd never give out my number to someone at a bar, but might take theirs if I was really interested.

 

P.S. Call her if you want - you have nothing to lose. IMO, there are no set rules for if/when/how/etc you should call someone.... Simply: if you want to -- do it, who cares.

Good luck.

 

"You're so money"

That says it all

 

One of the greatest relationship movies ever. Its funny cause my ex whos been ignoring me the last few months is now trying to play mind games with me but hey whatever. I just need to remeber that ive got these claws and that shes just this little bunny.

 

just call her already

 

and, of course, gotta say it

 

Let me fix your debacle




Mike: So how long do I wait to call?

Trent: A day.

Mike: Tomorrow.

Sue: Tomorrow, then a day.

Trent: Yeah.

Mike: So two days?

Trent: Yeah, I guess you could call it that, two days.

Sue: Definitely, two days is like industry standard.

Trent: You know I used to wait two days to call anybody, but now it's like everyone in town waits two days. So I think three days is kind of money. What do you think?

Sue: Yeah, but two's enough not to look anxious.

Trent: But I think three days is kind of money. You know because you...

Mike: Yeah, but you know what, mabey I'll wait 3 weeks. How's that? And tell her I was cleaning out my wallet and I just happened to run into her number.

Charles: Then ask her where you met her.

Mike: Yeah, I'll ask her where I met her. I don't remember. What does she look like? And then I'll asked if we fucked. Is that... would that be... T, would that be the money?

Trent: You know what. Ha ha ha Mike, laugh all you want but if you call too soon you might scare off a nice baby who's ready to party.

Mike: Well how long are you guys gonna wait to call your babies?

Trent, Sue: Six days.


Mike:

 

I don't usually ever give out my #, but sometimes I'll meet a guy that I can't really be mean to coz I'll feel bad N i'll give out a wrong one just so that he can have face in front of his friends. haha

But usually I reject them 'gently'. hahaha

 

let us know how it goes...and whether she still looks just as good when you were drunk

 

LoL, its pretty obvious when the area code is crazy. Buddies and I went to a bar and he was talking so much smack that he was the man and all this shit. He got the girls number, and it was pretty obvious it was fake. the number was like

987 654 3210

 

i had a girl put her number in my phone, but i forget why, cause i was pretty drunk


i wonder if i should've called her , but i never did. cause it seemed just too random. i don't usually ask girls for their number (cause asking for their email sounds so much more hip)





j/k

 

Be a man.. Dont call her! If she cant remember to call u back she wasnt that interested.. If u hook up with her later it will be cool. But dont fall into the chasers roll.

 

I dont take girls numbers i give them mine and then they call me. So fuck calling girls if they wanna talk they will call you.

 

i very rarely give out my number...

for ugly guys, i give them my friends' numbers

it's a little game me and my friends used to play in college

 

Just call her this afternoon and follow up, but don't make it sound like you're implying that she's flaky. Just call and see how she's doing and see if she may still be free tonight...go from there.

 

I dont understand why a girl will give out a fake number. Id much rather just have them tell me no than give me a fake number, calling it and then be pissed I even tried. I try to weed those people out by calling them out on it and having them call their phone using mine using the excuse that hey now you'll have my number too! ha Works like a charm but then I still dont end up calling them cause im a bitch.

Anyways, an update for today, she hasnt called yet, so Im assuming shes going to call after she gets off work. If not, Im gonna call her at 5 today right before my last class of the day and see whats up for tonight. I did like JDBoogies advice about not chasing but I want to show atleast some interest. She would be the first older chick that I go out with which is cool. Shes 26 and I Just turned 23 so she might be able to show me a thing or two.

 

LOL...wow we have these kinds of threads on AZ!

I agree with George! For that strawberry chick, its girls like you why men can possibly turn gay and/or some become emotional disasters if they are the sensitive types. Its better to reject quickly and swiftly then gently. TRUST ME IT HELPS THE GUY MORE! DONT WASTE TIME! FINISH QUICKLY!

Giving hope with a wrong number! tsk tsk tsk...but its cool, i have nothing against you! You were just the Guinea Pig/Example! No hard feelings. :wink:

As for you George,

Good for you! She will call, if not dont worry about it! Move on! Its her loss. Go to another bar/club/library/cafe/etc and do it again.

Soon or later you will find the one who will like you for who you are and what you did to get to her.

 

Whut he said! Got out and meet someone that gives a damn.
Never chase a woman they will only shit on you for doing it later in the relationship.

 

so I called and left her a message and she called back while i was in class and said we are still on for tonight but still needs directions. I called back no answer, gave her the address and about where it was and to call me back. Now im just waiting for her call. God I hate phone tag.

 

Hahaha me and my boys always give out our same friends number to ugly chicks. I swear he gets calls every week. Poor guy

 

Follow up with her tomorrow and leave her a message saying hey luv just wanted to follow up with you to see if you're still available to hit that bar we talked about the otehr night. SHUT UP at that point. First one to speak looses.

Whatever she says you win because now you just overcame your follow up fears and developed your ratio. If she's not the one, keep going you'll find a girl who wants to hang out. Plenty of fine ones sit at home all day doing nothing because too many guys assume too many guys are calling. Its a catch 22. So since they don't get the attention, what do you think's gonna happen when you follow up with that cutie pie you just met the other night? You get the picture!

Always remember...24-72 hours followup from when you first meet is crucial (48-72 whenever possible). Unless instructed otherwise

 

Well he hasn't posted in 2 hours... good sign maybe

 

LOL @ your avatar.

24-72 hours? There's an instruction manual for this kind of thing?
It's like the back of the shampoo bottle: "3. Rinse & Repeat as necessary"

 

yeah so I went to the bar got a call from her saying she was going to be late. About an hour later I call her and apparently she walked in didnt see me and left. (I was in the bathroom). She drove back, we had a few drinks, and she came over to my place. I just dropped her back off at her car.

 

hahah Are you kidding!?! Ok maybe I need to rephrase that. I don't ALWAYS give out the wrong #, b/c I don't USUALLY EVER hand out #'s, but you know, like when a dorky guy comes up to me & ALL HIS FRIENDS ARE OBVIOUSLY WATCHING, WAITING, for him to crash & burn, I'll feel a lil bad, thus giving him the wrong #. N it doesn't have crazy area codes, it'll look believable. It'll be my # except with one wrong # in it. hahaha

N it's ok, I'm making those sensitive guys stronger. "what doesn't kill ya only makes u stronger" no? & when this guy realizes that I gave him the wrong # at home, at least he can stop & think I had the decency enough to not make him look stupid in front of his friends? haha on second thought, I don't think guys have the mind capacity to think that deep. hah I take that last part back. & no hard feelings love

 

Your husky looking puppy is cute! :wink:

Good thing George...Glad everything worked out.

 

Cool, at least it worked out.

 

yeah Saw her again sat night. We'll see what happens. Apparently shes bi which is kind of cool.

 

haha thanks!


oOOoh if she's nice she'll bring her hot partner hahahha

 

She is actually waay cool. Shes already offered to give me a massage with some oils and stuff and she suggested we smoke up and watch porn together. You gotta love a girl who suggests watching porn together first. This could be the begining of a very interesting chapter in my life.

 

wow, update, and it's GOOD!

Good times man, good times.

 

sounds like you've got a keeper