Being lonely is a regular thing
12-27-2003, 02:09 AM
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Being lonely is a regular thing
"because my damn phone dont ring"..its like i cant relate to chicks, thats why i have never been in a serious relationship. anybody else in my boat?
12-27-2003, 03:23 AM
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Originally posted by dets
you may be gay. seriously.
when its stated like that, its my only assumption.
there's nothing wrong with that, to each thier own my friend.
you may be gay. seriously.
when its stated like that, its my only assumption.
there's nothing wrong with that, to each thier own my friend.
12-27-2003, 12:49 PM
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maybe youre looking in the wrong places...
i dont know anything about you, but i know bars and nightclubs wont find girls who have an IQ above a block of cheese (i think eclipse said that??) or able to take home to mom
i dont know anything about you, but i know bars and nightclubs wont find girls who have an IQ above a block of cheese (i think eclipse said that??) or able to take home to mom
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12-28-2003, 07:13 PM
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you need to stop setting up these great expectations for women.
Just go out in have fun. Keep having fun, and before you know it, you'll be interested in someone or someone in you.
The best way to get into a relationship is try your hardest not to get into one. Trust me, everytime i don't want a relationship, i end up being in one.
Just go out in have fun. Keep having fun, and before you know it, you'll be interested in someone or someone in you.
The best way to get into a relationship is try your hardest not to get into one. Trust me, everytime i don't want a relationship, i end up being in one.
12-28-2003, 10:50 PM
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Originally posted by dets
you need to stop setting up these great expectations for women.
Just go out in have fun. Keep having fun, and before you know it, you'll be interested in someone or someone in you.
The best way to get into a relationship is try your hardest not to get into one. Trust me, everytime i don't want a relationship, i end up being in one.
you need to stop setting up these great expectations for women.
Just go out in have fun. Keep having fun, and before you know it, you'll be interested in someone or someone in you.
The best way to get into a relationship is try your hardest not to get into one. Trust me, everytime i don't want a relationship, i end up being in one.
12-28-2003, 11:05 PM
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all my high expectations went down the freaking drain... im 0 for 2 in serious relationships. infact, i have been on really bad streak with everything around me. i have to lose this bad karma. 2004 better change or im seriously fucked.
12-28-2003, 11:18 PM
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Originally posted by RR32CLS
i have been on really bad streak with everything around me. i have to lose this bad karma. 2004 better change or im seriously fucked.
i have been on really bad streak with everything around me. i have to lose this bad karma. 2004 better change or im seriously fucked.
i feel you on that one. I hope 2004 brings in some better luck in all areas of my life. THis past year has been kinda depressing.
12-28-2003, 11:24 PM
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Originally posted by RR32CLS
all my high expectations went down the freaking drain... im 0 for 2 in serious relationships. infact, i have been on really bad streak with everything around me. i have to lose this bad karma. 2004 better change or im seriously fucked.
all my high expectations went down the freaking drain... im 0 for 2 in serious relationships. infact, i have been on really bad streak with everything around me. i have to lose this bad karma. 2004 better change or im seriously fucked.
12-30-2003, 10:20 PM
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Alright dude...I am not sure if your post even makes that much sense but is it that you give out your number and they don't call? How long has this been going on? I have gone through both feast and famine. Dating people for 2-3 years and being single for a year at a time. I get down but in the end I ended up finding the girl that I love and things are great. Sometimes in the weirdest places. Heck...this is the guy that posted on this dating forum about table names formy wedding being sci-fi names. My fiance' thinks I'm whacked when it comes to my car and mods but we hit it off on movies and other goofiness and overall interests...camping, science, etc. I would never have met her "on the highway" as someone posted or at a bar.
To distill down what I am thinking...be yourself. Yeah, you heard it before but I mean it. It truly works if you are looking for someone that will last and you'll be happier when you find her. I was the most unhappy when I thought that I'd meet someone at a club or something. Just wasn't my scene, although I am totally game for a few beers. Good luck. A whole new year awaits. Giving a
to Ash or dbox is one thing, but to be honest, I'd feel more proud of pics of a place that I had been with someone I care about vs. a 3-some in Vegas.
To distill down what I am thinking...be yourself. Yeah, you heard it before but I mean it. It truly works if you are looking for someone that will last and you'll be happier when you find her. I was the most unhappy when I thought that I'd meet someone at a club or something. Just wasn't my scene, although I am totally game for a few beers. Good luck. A whole new year awaits. Giving a
to Ash or dbox is one thing, but to be honest, I'd feel more proud of pics of a place that I had been with someone I care about vs. a 3-some in Vegas.
12-30-2003, 10:30 PM
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Oh, and if it lends any truth to what I posted...everyone is 0 for whatever until they find someone to marry. I was 0 of 3 before I met my fiance. Highschool...2 yr relationship. College...lots of shorter relationships. After college...3 yrs, 3yrs, and then finally (FINALLY!) I met the girl that worked so well with me. Dating sux. I'm over 30yrs old. It takes time sometimes. Plus, the older you get, the more women seem to realize that the smart guys are the ones that make the $ not the jocks. 
12-30-2003, 11:42 PM
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fuck that
fuck all this waiting nonsense... you can take a pro-active stance and GET what you want
You gotta know what you want and go after it... you just HAVE to make moves... pretend you're fixing something... something not working? WTF is wrong with you? and FIX it... CHANGE it...
either that or you do have WAY too high expectations - like retarded high
but i doubt you're retarded
you need to try harder most likely - it takes a lot effort (most of the time)
fuck all this waiting nonsense... you can take a pro-active stance and GET what you want
You gotta know what you want and go after it... you just HAVE to make moves... pretend you're fixing something... something not working? WTF is wrong with you? and FIX it... CHANGE it...
either that or you do have WAY too high expectations - like retarded high
but i doubt you're retarded
you need to try harder most likely - it takes a lot effort (most of the time)
01-01-2004, 02:16 AM
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Visualize the person that you would like to be and then change things to be it. Simple enough? If only the execution was as easy as typing it. Good luck....a new year....start over. I have my finger crossed for you.
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
I think he was drinking at work again...
I think he was drinking at work again...
Y'all are probably too young to remember Eddie Murphy on Saturday Night Live, doin' Buckwheat. He sings the Lookin' For Love song, but it sounds like Wookin' Pa Nub.
01-01-2004, 01:09 PM
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Originally posted by blackmagiCL_S
Oh, and if it lends any truth to what I posted...everyone is 0 for whatever until they find someone to marry. I was 0 of 3 before I met my fiance. Highschool...2 yr relationship. College...lots of shorter relationships. After college...3 yrs, 3yrs, and then finally (FINALLY!) I met the girl that worked so well with me. Dating sux. I'm over 30yrs old. It takes time sometimes. Plus, the older you get, the more women seem to realize that the smart guys are the ones that make the $ not the jocks.
Oh, and if it lends any truth to what I posted...everyone is 0 for whatever until they find someone to marry. I was 0 of 3 before I met my fiance. Highschool...2 yr relationship. College...lots of shorter relationships. After college...3 yrs, 3yrs, and then finally (FINALLY!) I met the girl that worked so well with me. Dating sux. I'm over 30yrs old. It takes time sometimes. Plus, the older you get, the more women seem to realize that the smart guys are the ones that make the $ not the jocks.
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Originally Posted by Bulldog01
Holy revival, Batman! 
how lame! neg rep points for the rest of time for people who do that unless they have a valid reason for doing so!
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Originally Posted by Bulldog01
Holy revival, Batman!
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Originally Posted by evilstorm
how lame! neg rep points for the rest of time for people who do that unless they have a valid reason for doing so!
07-09-2004, 10:47 PM
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Originally Posted by TREYDEE007
With in that 4 year period I have had chicks here and there just nothing serious,its been a wacky good time though with no stress or drama.
07-09-2004, 10:59 PM
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Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
maybe youre looking in the wrong places...
i dont know anything about you, but i know bars and nightclubs wont find girls who have an IQ above a block of cheese (i think eclipse said that??) or able to take home to mom
i dont know anything about you, but i know bars and nightclubs wont find girls who have an IQ above a block of cheese (i think eclipse said that??) or able to take home to mom
07-09-2004, 11:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Got Rice?
For bringing back a thread that has been dead for 6 months. 
one time on the sr20forums I broudht back 10 threads that were 2-3 years old,but I wouldn't do that here so don't woory
07-10-2004, 08:25 AM
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Originally Posted by TREYDEE007
Hay I'm a natural post whore!!!
one time on the sr20forums I broudht back 10 threads that were 2-3 years old,but I wouldn't do that here so don't woory
one time on the sr20forums I broudht back 10 threads that were 2-3 years old,but I wouldn't do that here so don't woory
07-10-2004, 09:09 AM
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Wookin pa nub...
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