So you are banging a girl who has a boyfriend?

Glad she could be trusted

 

this is a bad situation... you're young... move forward in life, not backwards.

 

yeah if shes cheating on her boyfriend with you, what makes you think she wont do the same to you in the future

 

Well, we didn't really break up on bad terms. She "loved me" even right after we broke up. She doesn't have any feelings really for her current boyfriend, but we don't want another long distance relationship. I really do trust her. I mean I'm pretty close to her parents still, but this whole situation is just bad. She's really not the type of person who cheats, but she still has those feelings for me. I didn't expect the feelings to just go away after 3 years.

 

So you dont care that after you sleep with her that she goes home to that other guy?

 

Well, she isn't MY girlfriend anymore. Should I tell her to stop seeing her own boyfriend?

 

No...but you should have her tell her b\f the truth about her cheating with you, simply because the b\f needs to know the truth if they want to be together...this might lead to a break up for them...but its a win-win situation for you.

 

Yes, but she's really with him to get her mind away from me. She doesn't have any feelings for him.


Soon enough she'll realize that it's pointless to stay with him...wait, she already knows that. I'll give her another week or two before she breaks it off with him.

 

Wow...so you're her fuckbuddy

 

fookbuddies does not work, some1 throws feelings sooner or later.

 

Fuck buddies or not, she humped as if she hadn't had any in years!

And it was pretty obvious that the other guy was just a rebound guy to her.

 

Sounds to me like in your mind you are trying to justify every thing that just recently occured as being right. However this girl sounds like a confused whore to me. If she really just wants to fuck the brains out of you why be with the other guy still? Sounds to me like she's using you as her boy toy while the other guy might be there for some emotional/mental support. But if you're ok with this, more power to yah.

 

Hell yeah I'm ok with it

Besides that she complains to me that he's so unemotional. To quote what he said to her "It makes me look weak" I guess only girls are supposed to show emotions nowdays.

 

Yeah she may complain about him to no end, but then if she really didn't like him, why keep him around? But I guess that's on her and only she can answer that.

 

You're just trying to justify being with her.

If you're okay with banging her while she's still seeing this guy, go for it. But as soon as you start having feelings for her - and you probably do already seeing as how adamantly you're justifying getting back with her - shit is going to go downhill quick.