i am going to date with this pretty girl some time tomorrow or day after tomorrow..and before that..everything goes well.
however..she just told me that she has 3 children and they all live with their dad in other state...NY, Rhond island.... and they got divorced 4 years ago..
and now..she and me are in FL State
i might like this woman...and might fallen for her...
but she has 3 kids..what should i do...
i am a kind of disappointed...
should i go on with her..or find another girl??
i am single with no kids...
help please..
plus..i will keep u guys updated after the first date..

 

well.. are you ready for kids? are the kids "in" her life? must not really be in another state.... is it FL to Cali or a 2 hr drive to see them?! all valid questions... date her, but not serious.. geta feel for it... worse case.. BANG her and leave her...

 

thanks for that advise..they live in NY Rhond island..
the reason why the kinds are with their dad is a long story..
she will tell me in the future... and she also told me that she loves them...
however..she is really cute lol..

and we are in FL state

 

Hit and run baby, hit and run. At the very least you know she fucks.

 

Shoot the kids...

 

this man has the idea

 

RUN AWAY, FAST

 

just thinking about her character, its not often a woman doesn't get at LEAST joint custody of her kids. You gotta wonder what she did so that her ex would have full custody. Sounds kinda shady no matter how cute she is...

 

yeah does sound kinda shady..

like the sign says: Proceed with Caution

 

hit and run baby. This situation seriously screams bang me and run. one kid...ok. two kids...gettin to the point where you gotta watch out. Three kids AND lack of custody...what drugs is she on to not get at least split custody?

 

from the thread title, I though you were going to say she was a man

 

i would stay away

 

Find out why she doesn't have the kids... Maybe she isn't capable of loving???

 

Double bag it, split it, Hit it, and leave.


Sounds like a joke, but IMO it's the best fucking advice for this situation.

 

EXACTLY!

 

 

hit it and quit it, this chick has a TON of baggage. Just make sure you don't give her #5.

 

i thought the thread topic said "I have a date, but with a man!"

 

single mothers are trouble, stay away, period.

 

unless you're going to also try to bang the daughter(s) then it's COOL