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Old 08-03-2009, 05:29 PM
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I am friends with one of my exes, we were friends first and it ended mutually. Not friends with the ones that cheated on me or were just huge asses.
Old 08-03-2009, 08:40 PM
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Dont talk to the cheater. The most recent EX is heart-broken so cannot talk to her until shes over it. Other-than that, we could remain friends.
Old 08-04-2009, 04:35 AM
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Old 08-04-2009, 09:34 AM
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Old 08-09-2009, 10:19 PM
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Everytime I do I start liking them again... and visa versa then everything seems great then soon after I start to see the things I didn't like about them.
I will admit it is hard at times not to stay in touch
Old 11-29-2009, 05:53 PM
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Cliff from my High School Reunion last night:
-about 3 months ago I de-friended my ex girlfriend for high school. She was also crazy. Her relationship status changed from married to its complicated (3rd husband). I wrote something like what happened...She wrote back pretty much saying I still wanted her so I de-friended her.
-She was at the reunion last night. She was drinking early and got drunk fast.
-Whole night she was calling me a dick, saying she was better then my wife, saying she wants to have sex with me (and at some point, saying she wanted to have sex with my wife as well).
-Friends took her up to the room
-I had a great time.
Old 11-29-2009, 05:59 PM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Cliff from my High School Reunion last night:
-about 3 months ago I de-friended my ex girlfriend for high school. She was also crazy. Her relationship status changed from married to its complicated (3rd husband). I wrote something like what happened...She wrote back pretty much saying I still wanted her so I de-friended her.
-She was at the reunion last night. She was drinking early and got drunk fast.
-Whole night she was calling me a dick, saying she was better then my wife, saying she wants to have sex with me (and at some point, saying she wanted to have sex with my wife as well).
-Friends took her up to the room
-I had a great time.
Sounds like a real keeper!
Old 11-29-2009, 06:02 PM
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Im comfortable with my life choice of breaking up with her.
Old 11-30-2009, 09:08 AM
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Oh Whiskers you player

Old 12-02-2009, 02:58 AM
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Drama.... yup.... no go for me.
Old 12-02-2009, 10:50 PM
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Originally Posted by KingKevin21
Drama.... yup.... no go for me.
lol I know you're new here, but Whiskers is definitly happily married. I don't think he was considering diving into any drama. Pretty sure he was laughing "at", not "with".

Whiskey, I'm glad you held it together without egging on any extra flair. I hope you're wife didn't have to endure any of that.

If I were your funny honey and heard that shit, I'd have a hard time not bitch-slapping her.
Old 12-03-2009, 07:52 AM
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Originally Posted by gypsygirl
lol I know you're new here, but Whiskers is definitly happily married. I don't think he was considering diving into any drama. Pretty sure he was laughing "at", not "with".

Whiskey, I'm glad you held it together without egging on any extra flair. I hope you're wife didn't have to endure any of that.

If I were your funny honey and heard that shit, I'd have a hard time not bitch-slapping her.
My wife held her own pretty well....
Old 12-03-2009, 07:58 AM
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Old 12-03-2009, 01:29 PM
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This thread is awesome! lol.. So Whiskers.. I can assume you had a 3-some after?
Old 12-03-2009, 01:39 PM
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You're fiance may be cool with it now but after 2 or 3 years of marriage when the newness wears off and you're still all buddy buddy with the ex it's gonna cause troubles. I used to be kind of playa back in the day so my wifey says NO to all exs & sometimes gives them the dirty look when she sees them (even tho she's hotter & better) but then again it all depends on the situation, how good a friends you really were and how long before your fiance this all happened.
Old 12-03-2009, 02:35 PM
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We should rename the topic to: Would you still bone your ex(s)?

The real question is more about relationship & personal maturity than anything. ie. is it possible for attractive peer men & women to really be platonic friends? I think for the majority of people the answer is There'll always be a sexual draw or misunderstanding between current partners. I leave the past in the past and move forward for my own mental health.
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