so some girl at work really likes me and i thought i really liked her until last weekend at happy hour she was all over me (not a bad thing) but then we made out and she was literally tongue raping me (not at all a good kisser). now i don't want to continue with this but last week she was asking shit like 'this isnt just a one night thing right?' (no we didnt f*k) and i was like i dunno we'll see im just happy where i am now not lookin for a relationship. so ive checked her myspace page the past few days and her mood was wishing then now its angry with that little red mad face lol. how should i tell her that basically im not interested and only wanna be friends :/

 

Can you re-write this in proper sentences? US education FTL.

 

Yes, you should. You should never mess with someone at work, EVER, UNLESS you both have something to loose, ie, both are in relationships. Then that would be cheating, and I wouldn't do that either. So basically, the drama and headache that comes from it work pu$$y is NOT WORTH IT....

 

easiest thing to do is be honest. tell her straight up your not looking for anything serious..if she wants to have fun, cool. If not, at least you were honest with her and didnt lead her on.

 

But thats the thing...at some point, it will go south, even if its just some "fun" at the begginning....why mess with work chick when there are 1000's of others that you don't have to see everyday??? I've been there before and actually looking back, it was worth it because she was SO SO SO fine by far my best ever, but at the time, when it ended, I had many sleepless nights

 

EWWWW Oh noez a girl put her tongue down your throat!? ICKY!!!!!!!!!

 

Thank God we have the Canucks to save us.

 

Don't shit where you eat.

I have a bunch of HOT single girls at my work... I want to do 'em all, BUT the consequences are so not worth it.

 

THANK YOU

Seriously...I've been down that road twice....each time, while they were both GREAT experiences, when they ended, we were all f'ed up

 

+1. Don't do it. There's only two options:

1) You fall in love and get married -- .1% chance
2) It ends. And work gets awkward or worse -- 99.9% chance

Been there, done that, paid for it.

 

You've answered your own question.

 

 

Really? Where do you work? Is it worth a flight to the city?

 

Oh, and no don't shit where you sleep it just opens up a ton of problems.

 

1. be honest.
2. tell her before it gets awkward or even more awkward.
3. post pics in the pretty girls thread.

 

Seems the Canucks have solved this mystery.

 

Try this line.....

 

Dipping your pen in company ink never turns out well.

 

orrr... you can keep hanging out with her, but just in group settings until she gets the hint. everytime she wants to hang out be like "yea!, come chill with me and my boy sachmo etc etc."

 

Where was azine when I needed advice like this, Oh wait, I didn't have my acura yet and my experience landed me in jail...

Don't do it, not worth it!

I work in a hospital and girls here are horn dogs, I sit back and laugh at all the other guys make sorry attempts...plus if you don't make any attempt at all, you get even more ass thrown at you because women get curious...I'm in a relationship also so I keep my hands to myself

 

 

i'm gonna be nosy. details?

 

I don't think it's a good idea to mess with someone at work because when it is over, you still have to see them everyday. Doesn't even have to be a bad split. Could be incompatibility reasons, determined after a time. Whatever, when I don't want to be bothered anymore, I don't want to see their ass everyday. Just me...

Question: What if she splits and leaves you hanging and then starts sticking her tongue down Bob in accounting's throat when you come in to ask can you borrow the stapler? Then you appreciate that she stuck her tongue down your throat?

That throat shit you said was pretty weak by the way...to each his own though...I advise that you should stick around at least until you get your dick sucked...tongue action might prove to be a deal breaker playboy! If she gets serpentine with your dick and tosses some salad for good measure, that might get you over that "tonsil-tickling, ehhhh" thingy young-gunner!

 

Great here comes dark making sense again.. What is with this guy for real!?! he is like the Oprah of AZ (mean that in a good way, becuase you help people) I didn't want to call you Dr. phil, who in my mind is a complete jackass, that needs to shut the fawk up and kill himself with the rest of the worlds idiots.

 

Me on Oprah:

Me: Oprah, you think we'd work well together?
Oprah: Mmmmm...I don't know, we have a lot in common
Me: Yup. You like spending money on me, I like you doing that!
Oprah: I was thinking more of a "serpentine" nature Ray
Me: Are you calling me a snake?
Oprah: Calling you one, you have one...tomato, tomatoe
Guest: Ray, how did you meet Oprah?
Me: On AZ, she responded to something I said in a thread about "serpentine"
Oprah: Yup
Guest: So she called you a snake? Then what happened?
Me: An-a-cond-a out of everything I could...what did you think happened?
Oprah: Oh Ray, you bad boy...hush that up!
Me: Meh...She asked...

Anaconda! I crack myself up!

 

 

If you aren't interested in her, then tell her. BUT if you want to bang her out then do it. I slept with 4 girls at my last job and 3 of them knew about the others. There were never any problems. One left for a better job, another wanted to finish school, and the other two couldnt say shit about anything since they were both married.

 

How bad was the kiss? I mean was it like a snake tongue darting in and out or was it more like just making fast circles inside your mouth? If the latter, just take her to a bar, tilt her head back, throw some ice, tequila and mixers in... voila - margarritas for everyone!!!

Seriously, why don't you just tell her to calm down on the tongue action? Is that the only thing about her that turned you off?

As for the work thing - yeah, it can definitely cause problems, so unless you or her are planning on changing jobs in the near future - without the help of a sexual herassment suit - then you should break it off as nicely as possible.

 

me - "I dunno I been thinking and just dunno if that work relationship thingy would work :/ ya ya I know.. my mind has just been everywhere lately"
-it worked she was cool about it we still chat



and ya the kiss was BAD - like worst girl ive ever kissed...


btw i made out with my ex gf who currently has a bf this weekend... damn what a good kisser.. i missed that

 

Way to go!