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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 09:30 AM
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Wish me luck!

Ever since my ex and I broke up (see prior thread) I have found myself missing the feeling of being in a relationship with a woman. That's unusual for me. I've never been a relationship guy. Since then I've been out on several dates with 3 or 4 women but haven't really found anyone that I have chemistry with.

Hopefully that changes today.

I met a woman on one of these dating sites that seems to have a tremendous amount in common with me. She's 29 years old and lives less than a mile from my shop. She actually passes by my shop every time she commutes to and from work. (She's a real estate attorney for a large law firm downtown.) The first time we talked on the phone we talked for at least an hour and a half. Unlike the other women I went out with, talking with her is effortless and enjoyable.

I've seen her picture, and she seems quite cute (no Jatt, I'm not posting it ), but I've never actually met her. She has half a day off today and is meeting me at the shop at 5:00 to start our date. I don't know quite what we're doing, but I'm sure we'll come up with some good impromptu plans. I'm nervous, but yet very excited. I hope things work out with her.

Wish me luck!
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 09:32 AM
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Good luck.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 09:43 AM
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good luck
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 09:48 AM
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Sounds good. Good luck and have fun!
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 09:52 AM
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Good luck man! Remember: open doors for her, bottle of wine is always good, pull her chair out for her, and compliments up the wazoo never hurt.

I'm done now.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 10:00 AM
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 10:03 AM
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 10:20 AM
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good luck. post pix if it doesnt work out.

and even if it does.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 10:38 AM
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 10:43 AM
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 11:47 AM
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 11:51 AM
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Originally Posted by fla-tls
I'm nervous, but yet very excited. I hope things work out with her.
this sums it up for me.

i think this is what dating is all about. it's what makes dating fun...
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 12:42 PM
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stick it in her bum!
Be like Nicky.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 12:46 PM
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Be like Nicky.

Its actually cool to be me today!

Good luck with the date....always go on a first date with no expectations....this way you can relax and go with the flow!
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 01:51 PM
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 03:13 PM
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Good luck! I hope everything works out for you!

I envy you for actually finding a woman you have good chemistry with. I'm still waiting
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 03:37 PM
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Keep us updated on how many much time and damage until you get to fuck her.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 04:11 PM
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I'm willing to bet if everyone used these dating sites(I mean everyone) the devorce rate would drop incredably. The idea seems somewhat brilliant. I also imagine it takes out some of the challenge, which is arguably half the fun.

Make sure she has the correct amount of fingers, nipples, etc.

Mike
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 09:18 PM
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Well - I just got back from the date. I know it's early (10:15), but we started at 5:00.

We went to a local Japanese restaurant and had shrimp tempura and some saki (me) champagne (her). From there we went to play putt-putt golf, and from there to get ice cream. How was it?

SHE'S AWESOME! She's intelligent, funny, and extremely attractive - a real class act. We had great chemistry and have a date planned for tomorrow evening. She's actually changing her plans to be able to go out with me tomorrow.

Tonight I am one HAPPY MAN ! I just keep thinking, "Don't screw this one up, man!"
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 09:20 PM
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Originally Posted by nicholbr
Good luck! I hope everything works out for you!

I envy you for actually finding a woman you have good chemistry with. I'm still waiting
I feel for you. Like I said - my last 4+ dates had no chemistry at all. It seems you find it when you're least expecting it.
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 10:00 PM
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Who wants to start a pool on how many nipples she has?

Just kidding man, congradulations

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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 10:52 PM
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damage?
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Old Jun 30, 2006 | 11:26 PM
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no pics?

anyway, good luck man..... keep us updated!
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Old Jul 1, 2006 | 08:44 AM
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Originally Posted by Titand19
Keep us updated on how many much time and damage until you get to fuck her.
WTF?
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Old Jul 2, 2006 | 08:18 AM
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Originally Posted by Teh Jatt
no pics?

anyway, good luck man..... keep us updated!
Two dates now, and she's definitely a keeper!
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Old Jul 2, 2006 | 02:28 PM
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how much time you need to spend. hour wise

Damage=the amount of money invested before you score.

Just curious, I like to see how things change with age. It seems as you get older or the chicks get older, the investment gets cheaper. Maybe it's because the goods are not as fresh?
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Old Jul 3, 2006 | 12:01 AM
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Originally Posted by Titand19
how much time you need to spend. hour wise

Damage=the amount of money invested before you score.

Just curious, I like to see how things change with age. It seems as you get older or the chicks get older, the investment gets cheaper. Maybe it's because the goods are not as fresh?
Depends on your game...the better you are, the less money you'll need. Kinda like banging a stripper, the more money you give her, the less likely she will bang you.
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Old Jul 4, 2006 | 08:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Titand19
how much time you need to spend. hour wise

Damage=the amount of money invested before you score.

Just curious, I like to see how things change with age. It seems as you get older or the chicks get older, the investment gets cheaper. Maybe it's because the goods are not as fresh?
I don't know about things getting cheaper. I think older women just know what they want and fish or cut bait. They tend to not waste time on someone they don't think is right for them. This is probably why the whole speed dating thing works (never tried it - but I assume it works???).

Anyways, it happened last night at the end of date 3. She's 29 and I'm a very tired and content 37 year old. (I don't know quite where we fit in on your age scale, Titand19.)

She went with me yesterday to early 4th of July celebrations at my sisters house (she met the extended family), and then we went out to eat with her friends (her friend's 30th B-day). Her friend took a picture of us at the table last night. If I get a copy I ~might~ post it. I hate posed pictures. I seem to never take good ones!

She's definitely a keeper! I'm glad I met her. I'm going back to meet her family today at a BBQ. It's been a whirlwind weekend!

Happy 4th everyone!
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