Don't believe it when girls tell me they don't want a relationship?

I'm not in a position to be in a relationship or anything even close to that. The last couple girls that I slept with all told me that sort of thing, becuase I made it a point to tell them that I did NOT want a relationship, but there behavior always led me to believe otherwise... I'm not emotional with these "types" of girls at all, but when I've messed around with the last couple, they got all emotional... yet they insisted that they weren't seeking "more"... I get these mixed signals and I hate it...

Maybe most girls lie to themselves? Maybe it's a coincidence?

 

meh, that's just the way girls are - stupid, flaky, emotionally needy, immature and don't know what they want.

they tend to grow out of it around 27.

 

They are probably just giving themselves false hope...thinking they are going to be the one to change your mind. They'll just end up hurting themselves in the end. That or you're that good and they genuinely fell in love

 

That's probably it! haha

but ya.

Last girl I was with, I had to tell her that I didn't want to see her anymore because she was obviously getting too emotionally involved, even though she wouldn't admit it.

So what does she do? She tells me she doesn't feel that way, that she just wants to continue hooking up the way it's been for the past couple months, and when I told her no... she started crying.

 

I had the same problem. I was just going about my business about 2 weeks later, then I start getting the "I hate you" phone calls. The reason why, "my inattention to her needs". WTF? I was just a f-buddy!

 

You should meet the girl I've been messing with, she said she didn't...made me feel otherwise though and then...screwed me over. So she did not want one.

 

 

hell ya bro i know a girl the same way. tells me she doesnt wanna relationship with anyone. her friends all tell me shes interested in me, but i guess she keeps telling herself not to get into one. shes one of those girls where its all or nothing. i asked to take her out to dinner and drink just as friends and she doesnt wanna cause she thinks in her mind it might lead into something more, which realistically she wants, but keeps telling herself no.