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Old May 6, 2005 | 02:49 AM
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Whoops, I slipped up.

I dated this girl August-October '04
and we stopped because well first she got to serious, then I didn't at first, but finally started liking her a lot...but it was too late, and I just looked like a fool.

Well we have mutual friends, so whenver we saw each other (which was often) there was always sexual tension between us.

Well, tonight we (about 15 of us) were all at the block party (by the way, there was so much fine pussy out there...I don't know how to describe it...I was in shock)

Anyhow, at first we were sitting down at a table, and said girl kept rubbing my leg, and resting her head on my shoulder, and I kept rubbing her leg and getting real close with her. Then, as I was about to go home with my buddy, I go to say bye to her...and we start hooking up right there in the club. she is telling me I have to call her tomorrow night, and she wants me to come over. And she topped it off by showing me her new nipple piercings...which well, I suppose its always nice seeing tits. the whole thing is, we been through this...she made her a fool of herself, then I made a huge fool of myself...back last year.

Should I call her tomorrow, and see whats up...I mean do I look foolish, like I want her. I mean, my buddy and her roomate were saying the way she was tonight, it looks like she wants me...and I sure as hell want to fuck her, but I don't want to be made a fool out of.

I suppose after typing all this, the solution up to me...but I had to rant.
Old May 6, 2005 | 02:59 AM
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and before you start in with the pics
This girl is about 5'11" maybe 6' and about 135-140 pds at most.
Face ehh 7.5...body= 9.5








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Old May 6, 2005 | 03:07 AM
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either I don't remember what I just read, or I don't see the problem? Where does the fool part come in?? and she's a cutie, if that's her??LOL
Old May 6, 2005 | 03:12 AM
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either I don't remember what I just read, or I don't see the problem? Where does the fool part come in?? and she's a cutie, if that's her??LOL

yeah thats her...

the fool part comes in, because I made a fool of myself with her back in October. First, not realizing she really fallen for me, then finally realizing too late...and trying to hard. causing us not to speak for a couple months.
Now, soon as we kissed tonight, I felt like I wanted to start the process again, I felt that "spark" between us, that we had back last year. I didn't even want to leave the club, because I wanted to stay with her. But I feel if I call her tomorrow, I will only be calling her because she told me to...and then she will have "hand" in the relationship...and I might make a fool of myself again.
BTW, she is from Joisey...so its not like graduating is going to end this. I will still see her in the hamptons or on the shore or in the city.
Old May 6, 2005 | 05:04 AM
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yeah thats her...

the fool part comes in, because I made a fool of myself with her back in October. First, not realizing she really fallen for me, then finally realizing too late...and trying to hard. causing us not to speak for a couple months.
Now, soon as we kissed tonight, I felt like I wanted to start the process again, I felt that "spark" between us, that we had back last year. I didn't even want to leave the club, because I wanted to stay with her. But I feel if I call her tomorrow, I will only be calling her because she told me to...and then she will have "hand" in the relationship...and I might make a fool of myself again.
BTW, she is from Joisey...so its not like graduating is going to end this. I will still see her in the hamptons or on the shore or in the city.
First of all, no one has "hands" in a relationship. You either have an equal relationship, or a submissive one(how God intends relationships to be). If you still have feelings for her and there is a spark, try again. NEVER, NEVER, NEVER give up as long as it is still there. She obviously has something for you still or there wouldn't have been the club scene. Have faith and try again.
Old May 6, 2005 | 06:54 AM
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I would definitely call her up. You sound like you really, really like her, so why not see if you can get this relationship started again. Good luck man!
Old May 6, 2005 | 06:58 AM
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uhmm she's hot. hit it and quit it
Old May 6, 2005 | 07:03 AM
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Well, I would take her showing you her new nipple piercings as a sure sign of fliraceous behavior................................ might spend three minutes talking with her to find out where her head is at, and try to see if the two of you can make some sense out of your prior history before hitting the sack.
Old May 6, 2005 | 07:31 AM
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Let me guess, not a natural blond?

From those pics she seems like a good f but not the girl to bring home to mom.
Old May 6, 2005 | 07:36 AM
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Love tall chicks .... Definately call her and pull the nipple rings.
Old May 6, 2005 | 08:05 AM
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Hit it.
Old May 6, 2005 | 08:06 AM
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Old May 6, 2005 | 08:34 AM
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Old May 6, 2005 | 08:48 AM
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What exactly is the problem here? Call her, and definately hit it.
Old May 6, 2005 | 09:31 AM
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What exactly is the problem here? Call her, and definately hit it.
she's hot as hell,
Old May 6, 2005 | 09:45 AM
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I think she just wants sex. Unless of course you two can spend at least a day just doing stuff together other than sex. My little is try not to develop feelings for her if you wouldn't be proud of going out with her. If you just want a piece of puss, she's practically throwing herself at you. In that case, hit it and run. BUT if that would make you feel bad because you ALREADY have feelings for her, don't do it at all!
Old May 6, 2005 | 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted by CL Platano
Love tall chicks .... Definately call her and pull the nipple rings.
I do too. however I always get the short ones. my wife is 5 ft 2 or 3. when your 6 ft 4 everyone else is shorter.
Old May 6, 2005 | 10:37 AM
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I think she just wants sex.
"Houston, we have a problem!"
Old May 6, 2005 | 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Water-S
I do too. however I always get the short ones. my wife is 5 ft 2 or 3. when your 6 ft 4 everyone else is shorter.
Ahh yes, a man who understands my problem. It's hard to find a tall, hot girl now-a-days. My current GF is ~5ft 5 in. Oh, btw PGA you need to get with it. I wish I had girls flashing their lovelys at me. Damn white people .
Old May 6, 2005 | 01:49 PM
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FAWK her and her firend
Old May 6, 2005 | 01:50 PM
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damn white people ...damn colored people (although I am not sure what color you are...but damn you anyways)


alright i'm taking her out to dinner tonight, we just made plans. Oh boy, here we go again.

I love her height...last night she was wearing heels, and was only about an inch or two shorter than me.

plus she is skinny like me. And she is 75% Italian so she's 3/4s good.
Old May 6, 2005 | 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
And she is 75% Italian so she's 3/4s good.


Hit it.

I knew she wasn't 100% Italian
Old May 6, 2005 | 01:56 PM
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she breaks the white girl ghetto rule, the hoops in her ears are bigger in diameter than a dime (whore) just an observation

time for a bit of the ole' in and out
Old May 6, 2005 | 01:59 PM
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Originally Posted by domn


Hit it.

I knew she wasn't 100% Italian

yeah I typed that at first because I could have sworn I remembered she was...but I remember her mom was half german and half Italian
and her dad is full born-in-italy.

"No time for the ole in-out love, I've just come read the meter."

ahh A clockwork Orange. great book, great movie.
Old May 6, 2005 | 03:29 PM
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She has some seriously long legs, go for it
Old May 6, 2005 | 03:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
She has some seriously long legs, go for it
oh man, you have no idea.

remember, this was the girl I was talking about back last year.

thats what attracted me to her...her legs are amazing.
Old May 6, 2005 | 03:50 PM
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Old May 6, 2005 | 04:02 PM
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Old May 6, 2005 | 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1

plus she is skinny like me. And she is 75% Italian so she's 3/4s good.


From what I'm reading, it seems that you liked the girl but she got away so you were regretting it. Now you have her right where you want her, so what are you waiting for? Tap that ass!
Old May 6, 2005 | 04:30 PM
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aren't you going to NC soon? wtf do you care if you're made a fool of during your last days in AZ?
Old May 6, 2005 | 04:47 PM
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aren't you going to NC soon? wtf do you care if you're made a fool of during your last days in AZ?
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you sir, forgot to read.
Old May 6, 2005 | 04:49 PM
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read what?
Old May 6, 2005 | 04:54 PM
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Originally Posted by GTKrockeTT
read what?

in my third post

BTW, she is from Joisey...so its not like graduating is going to end this. I will still see her in the hamptons or on the shore or in the city.
Old May 6, 2005 | 05:00 PM
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ahhh...well, if you genuninely like her, then find out what her feelings are. communicate and air anything out, if there's anything left unsaid. you know the situation better than any of us. if she's worth the potential embarrassment, then go for it. if not, and you don't want to risk, than that's all on you to decide.
Old May 6, 2005 | 05:02 PM
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Originally Posted by GTKrockeTT
ahhh...well, if you genuninely like her, then find out what her feelings are. communicate and air anything out, if there's anything left unsaid. you know the situation better than any of us. if she's worth the potential embarrassment, then go for it. if not, and you don't want to risk, than that's all on you to decide.

I mean, I just don't want to go chasing. but I do really like hooking up with her. Enough so, that I dated her for a few months. Usually, girls don't last a week with me. So like I said, I am taking her to dinner tonight...we'll see what happens.
Old May 6, 2005 | 06:25 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
I mean, I just don't want to go chasing. but I do really like hooking up with her. Enough so, that I dated her for a few months. Usually, girls don't last a week with me. So like I said, I am taking her to dinner tonight...we'll see what happens.
She's a cutie. Hope your date tonight will be awesome!
Old May 7, 2005 | 01:30 AM
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Yo PGA, if shes got a sister...hook a brotha up. I think you and I should manwhore together...We would have sooooo many pics to put up on here. Anyways...Good Luck
Old May 7, 2005 | 01:46 AM
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Old May 7, 2005 | 02:05 AM
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
Yo PGA, if shes got a sister...hook a brotha up. I think you and I should manwhore together...We would have sooooo many pics to put up on here. Anyways...Good Luck



I am game, i'll be back in NY on the 13th. Actually, we should all get together Friday or Saturday next weekend.

I have a few girls I could bring out, and then Nootch (Justin, long time A-CL person) is going to be visiting NYC that weekend with some girls from his work.

so we should all get together.
Old May 7, 2005 | 02:07 AM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1


I am game, i'll be back in NY on the 13th. Actually, we should all get together Friday or Saturday next weekend.

I have a few girls I could bring out, and then Nootch (Justin, long time A-CL person) is going to be visiting NYC that weekend with some girls from his work.

so we should all get together.
Nice...I'll see If Im actually available then...I think I have a prior engagement to be at. Either way thanks for the invite.



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