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The day of Valentine's Day
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Sometime prior to Valentine's Day
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When do you ask someone to be your Valentine?

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Old Jan 30, 2008 | 11:19 PM
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When do you ask someone to be your Valentine?

...the day of Valentine's Day or sometime prior to Valentine's Day?


My girlfriend and I were having a debate about this issue the other day. She says you ask someone to be your Valentine prior to Valentine's Day so that you can make plans for Valentine's Day itself. However, I say that you ask someone on the day of so that it's more of a surprise to both parties, then you make plans accordingly.

Tell me what you guys think
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Old Jan 31, 2008 | 12:53 AM
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I remember it to be the day of... with your card and a box of chocolates traditionally... make plans for the night...
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Old Jan 31, 2008 | 01:05 AM
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Originally Posted by Black Ninja
...the day of Valentine's Day or sometime prior to Valentine's Day?


My girlfriend and I were having a debate about this issue the other day. She says you ask someone to be your Valentine prior to Valentine's Day so that you can make plans for Valentine's Day itself...
As a married man, I have been trained to say, "She is right."
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Old Jan 31, 2008 | 01:23 AM
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Old Jan 31, 2008 | 05:58 AM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
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If I ask a girl to be my valentine it is to be ironic these days. Whoever you are currently fucking is usually your valentine. If you don't have that you find a female friend who doesn't have one, take her out, and either go dutch if there is no potential OR pay and hope her low self esteem and loneliness will at least get you a boob suck.
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Old Jan 31, 2008 | 06:24 AM
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Originally Posted by JJ4Short
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If I ask a girl to be my valentine it is to be ironic these days. Whoever you are currently fucking is usually your valentine. If you don't have that you find a female friend who doesn't have one, take her out, and either go dutch if there is no potential OR pay and hope her low self esteem and loneliness will at least get you a boob suck.
well put
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Old Jan 31, 2008 | 09:41 AM
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i voted day of.

but i think it depends on how old you are.

yea, typically, i know it as aking the ask day of.

but if you're actually gonna plan a date then you ask beforehand.
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Old Jan 31, 2008 | 09:47 AM
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Old Jan 31, 2008 | 02:27 PM
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Old Jan 31, 2008 | 03:32 PM
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your teacher will provide instructions that supercede our poll.
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Old Jan 31, 2008 | 04:07 PM
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i don't i was like Ralph in the simpsons
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Old Jan 31, 2008 | 04:19 PM
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Originally Posted by JJ4Short
+1

If I ask a girl to be my valentine it is to be ironic these days. Whoever you are currently fucking is usually your valentine. If you don't have that you find a female friend who doesn't have one, take her out, and either go dutch if there is no potential OR pay and hope her low self esteem and loneliness will at least get you a boob suck.

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Old Jan 31, 2008 | 04:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Mizouse
i don't i was like Ralph in the simpsons
Actually, so was I....
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Old Jan 31, 2008 | 04:44 PM
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Actually, so was I....
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Old Feb 1, 2008 | 01:49 AM
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Let's say there's a co-worker or a friend that you're "eyeing"...when would the best time be to pop the so-called question lol
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Old Feb 2, 2008 | 01:14 AM
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hahah omg the card is hilarious.. my ex gave me that card.
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Old Feb 2, 2008 | 06:27 AM
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Originally Posted by JJ4Short
+1

If I ask a girl to be my valentine it is to be ironic these days. Whoever you are currently fucking is usually your valentine. If you don't have that you find a female friend who doesn't have one, take her out, and either go dutch if there is no potential OR pay and hope her low self esteem and loneliness will at least get you a boob suck.
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Old Feb 2, 2008 | 11:09 AM
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I never did. I'm not a big fan of Valentine's Day. When I was single I, if it fell on a weekend I would just see which of my friends were also single and just hit a bar. There was a ton of women out on Valentines Day. When I was dating someone, we would just do dinner or something.
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