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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 05:18 PM
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When asked how many, what do you say?

So, do you lie when a member of the opposite sex asks you how many you been with.

Do you feel that lie changing depending on how much you like them or just wanna fuck them.

I know I lie like OJ on the witness stand when i'm in bed with a girl. I have said so many different numbers to different girls in the past few years that if they all at once asked me again I'd be fucked.


p.s. the funniest thing is when they don't want to know the exact number they just say some like "oh well as long as it's under 20" and in your head you are like haha, umm too bad but in reality you just say "oh come on of course"
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 05:41 PM
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haha nah.. i'll tell the girl exactly how many chicks i've been with... why bother lying... if they dont like it then..
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 05:43 PM
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I'm don't lie...I'm not embarrased about my #.
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 05:44 PM
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It all depends on the situation.

If you both trust each other, tell her the truth.
If the relationship matured enough, tell her the truth.

If not, then stray away from the truth
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 05:44 PM
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Originally Posted by CLean B
haha nah.. i'll tell the girl exactly how many chicks i've been with... why bother lying... if they dont like it then..

I don't know...I still wanna get laid so I lie. I have heard girls say things like I wouldn't sleep with a guy who has been with "X" amount of girls, so why would I say something to ruin it

If I told a girl my "real number" they'd probably get up and leave, just like if they told me their "real number" I'd probably run to the doctors ASAP.

you gotta accept, especially in a city/school like this, that girls and guys are lying about how slutty they are. And in this place, they are lying on the downside, where as a lot of the time you see lying on the upside (if you know what I mean)
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 05:45 PM
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I would tell the truth.............. if i could count that high
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 05:45 PM
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Originally Posted by soopa
I would tell the truth.............. if i could count that high

Come on now I know you can count to 5
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 05:47 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
Come on now I know you can count to 5
6! 6! Get it straight!



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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 05:47 PM
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Funny thing is, If I talk to my friends back east who go to the good schools they have totally different numbers than people out here.

Most girls I know think more than 15-20 is too many here
most guys will say 20-25

Most girls I know back from home say anything more than 5 is too much
and most guys think more than 10 is too much

gotta love experiencing different mentalities.
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 05:47 PM
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Originally Posted by soopa
6! 6! Get it straight!




hey 6 is a good summer.


I like saying somewhere between 7-10, because it doesn't sound too bad IMO.
that's usually my lie...
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 05:51 PM
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Why lie about it? I've told the truth each time I've been asked.
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted by soopa
6! 6! Get it straight!

try Viagra!
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 05:53 PM
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In all honesty... I don't think I've slept with that many. I haven't really added it up to be honest. I'll have to think about it. I could count on 2 hands and a foot or two for sure....... heh

Most of high school chicks would only give head... never screw... and the ones that did... i never wanted to touch. Beyond that... I tend to have relationships... only occasional 1-nighters.

I think my actual number that ive slept with is about 13 with a quick tally...

If I had to tally oral into the equation.... i certainly could not count that high. Albany circa 1994... :sigh:

Good enough for me.
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 05:53 PM
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Originally Posted by Bulldog01
Why lie about it? I've told the truth each time I've been asked.

Why lie? because if you tell a girl lets say a number in the 40s you decrease you odds of sleeping with her.

And you are a better man than me I guess...I take every advantage I get with it comes to lying to a girl...they lie all the time, might as well get them back for it.
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted by soopa
In all honesty... I don't think I've slept with that many. I haven't really added it up to be honest. I'll have to think about it. I could count on 2 hands and a foot or two for sure....... heh

Most of high school chicks would only give head... never screw... and the ones that did... i never wanted to touch. Beyond that... I tend to have relationships... only occasional 1-nighters.

I think my actual number that ive slept with is about 13 with a quick tally...

If I had to tally oral into the equation.... i certainly could not count that high. Albany circa 1994... :sigh:

Good enough for me.

you were 12 in 1994, how much head were you getting?

or does that just mean something else and i'm missing it.

see I am not good at relationships, either I piss them off within a few weeks or they piss me off. It's about equal so far. In HS I only had 3. But freshmen and soph year at ASU was insane.
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 05:59 PM
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Geez, I sound like a prude compared to you guys!

I've only slept with 2 guys...that I've been in relationships with. High school bf who I was with for year and a half, and the current guy, who I've been with for over a year...

But # of guys I've hooked up with is definitely higher.
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 06:01 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
you were 12 in 1994, how much head were you getting?

or does that just mean something else and i'm missing it.

see I am not good at relationships, either I piss them off within a few weeks or they piss me off. It's about equal so far. In HS I only had 3. But freshmen and soph year at ASU was insane.
i didnt wanna do the math of tracking back years. LOL

who knows when it was.

the first time i got head i was in 7th grade. so you figure out the year.
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 06:02 PM
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Originally Posted by 98CLChick
Geez, I sound like a prude compared to you guys!

I've only slept with 2 guys...that I've been in relationships with. High school bf who I was with for year and a half, and the current guy, who I've been with for over a year...

But # of guys I've hooked up with is definitely higher.
Your young yet. I think I added the largest ratio to my tally between 20-21. LOL...

short period between long relationships
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 06:02 PM
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Guys you wanna know how to make the ratio of girls (you have hooked up with:girls you have slept with) better......date rape.

Just playing, alcohol works just fine too, damnit ASU has corrupted me.


I saw a funny shirt the other day
Date Rape...even the kids are doing it.
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 06:03 PM
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Originally Posted by soopa
i didnt wanna do the math of tracking back years. LOL

who knows when it was.

the first time i got head i was in 7th grade. so you figure out the year.
damnit I was in 8th grade...you got me beat. Bastard!
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 06:03 PM
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I only lie to the nice girls,Ii give them a nice round number of 8. most good girls would consider me a whore if i told them the real number. I never lie to the slores, i tell them the real number and let them know to expect a fun night
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 06:04 PM
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Originally Posted by 98CLChick
I'm don't lie...I'm not embarrased about my #.
too high or too low?

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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 06:04 PM
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Originally Posted by agui
I only lie to the nice girls,Ii give them a nice round number of 8. most good girls would consider me a whore if i told them the real number.



same situation...I found that 7 worked nicely a few times this summer.
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 06:05 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
damnit I was in 8th grade...you got me beat. Bastard!
i didnt get laid till 16... so cheer up... you prolly got me there
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 06:05 PM
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Originally Posted by sidemarker
too high or too low?

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she already said; 2.
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 06:08 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
Guys you wanna know how to make the ratio of girls (you have hooked up with:girls you have slept with) better......
for me... i'd rather just hook up.

10-1 i'd rather get a blow job... then get laid.

i'll usually only sleep with a girl if i actually like her. otherwise i get weirded out thinkin she a nasty bish.
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 06:10 PM
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Originally Posted by soopa
i didnt get laid till 16... so cheer up... you prolly got me there

only by a year...she was 13 I was 15

Like I said I did most of my fucking as a freshmen and soph in college...and i'm not afraid to say that about 12-15 of them were HS seniors

Too old for that now however.
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 06:10 PM
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Originally Posted by soopa
for me... i'd rather just hook up.

10-1 i'd rather get a blow job... then get laid.

i'll usually only sleep with a girl if i actually like her. otherwise i get weirded out thinkin she a nasty bish.

well not shit...I always perfer just a blow job, less work for me.
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 06:13 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
only by a year...she was 13 I was 15

Like I said I did most of my fucking as a freshmen and soph in college...and i'm not afraid to say that about 12-15 of them were HS seniors

Too old for that now however.
13? I don't recall thinking about having sex at 13...then again, I was a catholic school girl...so the nymph in me is just beginning to come out
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 06:18 PM
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Originally Posted by 98CLChick
13? I don't recall thinking about having sex at 13...then again, I was a catholic school girl...so the nymph in me is just beginning to come out

she was a catholic school girl too...

BTw in all honesty 13 sounds cool, but she was like 3 weeks from being 14
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
well not shit...I always perfer just a blow job, less work for me.
and there you have summarize soopas life philosophy in one swift sentence.

less work == better
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 06:37 PM
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Originally Posted by soopa
and there you have summarize soopas life philosophy in one swift sentence.

less work == better

https://acurazine.com/forums/dating-relationships-14/%2Anws%2A-new-sexual-position-157670/

refer to post # 5
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 06:54 PM
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 07:02 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
Why lie? because if you tell a girl lets say a number in the 40s you decrease you odds of sleeping with her.

And you are a better man than me I guess...I take every advantage I get with it comes to lying to a girl...they lie all the time, might as well get them back for it.
I was with my ex-wife for 10-plus years...18-to-almost-29 years old.
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 07:04 PM
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couldnt of said it better myself
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 08:20 PM
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13? I don't recall thinking about having sex at 13...then again, I was a catholic school girl...so the nymph in me is just beginning to come out
that's exactly what i was thinkin!! 13 seems way young. i was a lil angel til i was like 19 though... haha
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted by mesmerize
that's exactly what i was thinkin!! 13 seems way young. i was a lil angel til i was like 19 though... haha

that's cause you didn't know me.

19 is a long time to wait, that's rough.

This girl I went to visit last week is 19 and still a virgin...saving herself for marriage kinda thing. Everything about her is pretty sweet, and yes everything. So I figure that's a good name to keep with me for 5 years down the road.

Alright fine, i'll give in and be a pansy...I really like her. Damnit, I didn't want to admit that.
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 10:43 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
19 is a long time to wait, that's rough.

And what do you call someone letting go at 23?
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 11:07 PM
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And what do you call someone letting go at 23?
uhh even longer than 19
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Old Oct 21, 2004 | 11:33 PM
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yeah guys usually have high numbers in college.. be honest..

i was hooking up with a different girl every week when in college...

michigan state has a rep for being a great sex school..

just be honest... its just a number... as long as you are safe and virus free... it shouldnt be an issue..
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